Posted by SexyScorpionPosted by Jynja
Yeah, lots of 3rd Decan Leos are cursed with the non-sleepies. It's like staying up to watch over the house or something. lol
Anyways, I think sometimes, you need to send him off to his gf. I mean, it's great that you can help him and all, but you have no intimate status in his life (being a friend is not enough to demand so much from you) and keeping it like that might help your sound mind too.
Because... I think he plays with you when he comes to rant or complain to you and then leaves you hanging. He knows you'll cater to him... you know what I mean? It's like, you're always there for him so he's spoiled.
Interestingly, Scorp does the very same thing too. Talk, rant, whatever... and then trail off. But Scorp knows I'll tune him out if he chops his woes in phrases, so lately he's not as bad as before. In fact, Scorp's being so good lately, it scares me a little. Hmmm...
Anyway, maybe it's a Leo moon thing. Though, Taurus wasn't like that - he would initiate a discussion and we'll talk it through until we both reach a good end. LOVED that about him ground beneath my watery feet
Very good advice Jynja. Kalin you have to bring that strong scorpion nature in front now. We scorpions are so emotional and always trying out of the way to make other people comfortable.... We suffer in process. As Jynja said leave him alone. Don't let his mood take over your life. It used to bother me a lot but now I am trying to detach myself when my leo guy is like that. When I talk to him or see him I am all fun and loving.. Eventually he comes back to his normal self... But surly just like your leo guy mine is a pain in the ass when he is in lousy mood.
Thank you so much, Sexy!! It's hard for me to be around grumpy people while not being able to cheer them up right at the moment
I will just stay away when he's in a bad mood then. It's easier to be his playmate than his psychologist I suppose LOL
It's so nice to have someone who shares similar experience to talk to
I guess I'm obsessed with doing the right thing at the right time myself LOL