Best thing to do when a Leo is ANGRY?

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6/6/2013 1:32:53 PM | More
SexyScorpion

*him* meaning my leo guy
6/11/2013 11:38:57 PM | More
kalin

female

Sun Scorpio 13.15 Ascendant Cancer 3.

My Leo ex is angry again, but this time it's because of work. He is a pain in the ass to talk to when he's angry. He is super negative and easily distracted when he's angry. He acted really eager to talk when he saw me online (messaged me the sec he saw me logged in), but only told me half of the story, and then told me he'd be right back, and then totally forgot that we were in the middle of a conversation...(he'd just go on to watch TV, eat, or take a shower, etc.)... So annoyed.

So, what is the best thing to do when a Leo is angry, but not angry at you??
Should I just leave him alone and wait until he is happy again, or should I try to do something to cheer him up?
(Obviously listening to him vent is a BAD idea, because he will just get lost in his own thoughts and totally forget that he is talking to me instead of talking to himself >"<)

Sigh, I'm asking now because he told me he will be stressed and pissed for another 2 weeks for the same condition, then he won't work for them anymore and he'd be happy again. Not sure if I should just disappear for 2 weeks?? or I should try to be there for him, check on him, but assume he is actually talking to himself or to the wall when he is talking to me??

I emailed him a joke today. He email me back, saying "thank you for trying to cheer me up".
Is this a nice thing to do when a Leo is angry?? Or actually it's still best to just leave them alone? (He told me he didn't sleep for the past 2 days because he was TOO ANGRY to fall asleep.)
6/12/2013 12:22:16 AM | More
Jynja



-- Cool. Calm. Confident --

I'm not pissed. I'm great actually, but I'm still awake.

Don't pay any attention to tantrums, rants, pouts, others... just keep the praise flowing his way. He's smart, right? Keep the encouragement coming, and I think he'll be alright.

Where's his girlfriend though?
6/12/2013 12:56:51 AM | More
kalin

female

Sun Scorpio 13.15 Ascendant Cancer 3.

@Jynja: I'm glad you are happily awake

I have no idea how they interact with each other, honestly... She speaks very little English, and he told me he likes the fact that she is just there, doing all the nice little things to make his life better, never causing him any trouble, and that sometimes silence is great.

Obviously she is never going to be a nagger, right?

He told me she makes him happy, but sometimes I do wonder, if he is happy, why can't he just leave me alone??

Anyways, I tend to attract Leo guys for some reason, and I have never been able to get along with any of them He happens to be the last one, and he has the same birthday as my high school sweet heart... which made me decide, If God keeps sending me the same type of guys, He prob wants me to learn something... and maybe that's the only way to break the curse
6/12/2013 1:23:36 AM | More
Jynja



-- Cool. Calm. Confident --

Yeah, lots of 3rd Decan Leos are cursed with the non-sleepies. It's like staying up to watch over the house or something. lol

Anyways, I think sometimes, you need to send him off to his gf. I mean, it's great that you can help him and all, but you have no intimate status in his life (being a friend is not enough to demand so much from you) and keeping it like that might help your sound mind too.

Because... I think he plays with you when he comes to rant or complain to you and then leaves you hanging. He knows you'll cater to him... you know what I mean? It's like, you're always there for him so he's spoiled.

Interestingly, Scorp does the very same thing too. Talk, rant, whatever... and then trail off. But Scorp knows I'll tune him out if he chops his woes in phrases, so lately he's not as bad as before. In fact, Scorp's being so good lately, it scares me a little. Hmmm...

Anyway, maybe it's a Leo moon thing. Though, Taurus wasn't like that - he would initiate a discussion and we'll talk it through until we both reach a good end. LOVED that about him ground beneath my watery feet
6/12/2013 7:31:42 AM | More
SexyScorpion

Posted by Jynja
Yeah, lots of 3rd Decan Leos are cursed with the non-sleepies. It's like staying up to watch over the house or something. lol

Anyways, I think sometimes, you need to send him off to his gf. I mean, it's great that you can help him and all, but you have no intimate status in his life (being a friend is not enough to demand so much from you) and keeping it like that might help your sound mind too.

Because... I think he plays with you when he comes to rant or complain to you and then leaves you hanging. He knows you'll cater to him... you know what I mean? It's like, you're always there for him so he's spoiled.

Interestingly, Scorp does the very same thing too. Talk, rant, whatever... and then trail off. But Scorp knows I'll tune him out if he chops his woes in phrases, so lately he's not as bad as before. In fact, Scorp's being so good lately, it scares me a little. Hmmm...

Anyway, maybe it's a Leo moon thing. Though, Taurus wasn't like that - he would initiate a discussion and we'll talk it through until we both reach a good end. LOVED that about him ground beneath my watery feet


Very good advice Jynja. Kalin you have to bring that strong scorpion nature in front now. We scorpions are so emotional and always trying out of the way to make other people comfortable.... We suffer in process. As Jynja said leave him alone. Don't let his mood take over your life. It used to bother me a lot but now I am trying to detach myself when my leo guy is like that. When I talk to him or see him I am all fun and loving.. Eventually he comes back to his normal self... But surly just like your leo guy mine is a pain in the ass when he is in lousy mood.

6/12/2013 9:08:59 AM | More
kalin

female

Sun Scorpio 13.15 Ascendant Cancer 3.

Posted by Jynja

Anyways, I think sometimes, you need to send him off to his gf. I mean, it's great that you can help him and all, but you have no intimate status in his life (being a friend is not enough to demand so much from you) and keeping it like that might help your sound mind too.

Because... I think he plays with you when he comes to rant or complain to you and then leaves you hanging. He knows you'll cater to him... you know what I mean? It's like, you're always there for him so he's spoiled.

Interestingly, Scorp does the very same thing too. Talk, rant, whatever... and then trail off. But Scorp knows I'll tune him out if he chops his woes in phrases, so lately he's not as bad as before. In fact, Scorp's being so good lately, it scares me a little. Hmmm...



Thank you SO MUCH for the advice, Jynja!! Yes, I need to begin to send him off to his gf more. I just realized that maybe me being there for him is the reason that keeps his relationship going. He's got everything else from her I am suspecting it is my Libra placements that make me such a pleaser??

And yes, I do this rant and run thing too, but I usually finish the whole story, I don't do it in parts... that's a torment LOL

Oh, I feel the same why when I was dating a Taurus. He was so good at asking me the right questions to direct the discussions, and thus always calmed me down

PS. 7777 sounds good to me. Maybe you should make a trip to the casino today
6/12/2013 9:09:44 AM | More
kalin

female

Sun Scorpio 13.15 Ascendant Cancer 3.

*way
6/12/2013 9:14:24 AM | More
kalin

female

Sun Scorpio 13.15 Ascendant Cancer 3.

Posted by SexyScorpion
Posted by Jynja
Yeah, lots of 3rd Decan Leos are cursed with the non-sleepies. It's like staying up to watch over the house or something. lol

Anyways, I think sometimes, you need to send him off to his gf. I mean, it's great that you can help him and all, but you have no intimate status in his life (being a friend is not enough to demand so much from you) and keeping it like that might help your sound mind too.

Because... I think he plays with you when he comes to rant or complain to you and then leaves you hanging. He knows you'll cater to him... you know what I mean? It's like, you're always there for him so he's spoiled.

Interestingly, Scorp does the very same thing too. Talk, rant, whatever... and then trail off. But Scorp knows I'll tune him out if he chops his woes in phrases, so lately he's not as bad as before. In fact, Scorp's being so good lately, it scares me a little. Hmmm...

Anyway, maybe it's a Leo moon thing. Though, Taurus wasn't like that - he would initiate a discussion and we'll talk it through until we both reach a good end. LOVED that about him ground beneath my watery feet


Very good advice Jynja. Kalin you have to bring that strong scorpion nature in front now. We scorpions are so emotional and always trying out of the way to make other people comfortable.... We suffer in process. As Jynja said leave him alone. Don't let his mood take over your life. It used to bother me a lot but now I am trying to detach myself when my leo guy is like that. When I talk to him or see him I am all fun and loving.. Eventually he comes back to his normal self... But surly just like your leo guy mine is a pain in the ass when he is in lousy mood.


Thank you so much, Sexy!! It's hard for me to be around grumpy people while not being able to cheer them up right at the moment
I will just stay away when he's in a bad mood then. It's easier to be his playmate than his psychologist I suppose LOL
It's so nice to have someone who shares similar experience to talk to
I guess I'm obsessed with doing the right thing at the right time myself LOL
6/12/2013 9:43:56 AM | More
seraph

37 years old male from Canada  

First Decan, Mercurian and Venusian Leo.

Posted by msX
when my leo is angry, i state my case thoroughly and then i cry. that shuts him up and makes him think and apologize.
i really want to cry because i hate tension and feel really soft around him.
and i like to see him press his brain's reset button when i do it.


I think male Leos will instinctively respond protectively to a woman's grief.
6/12/2013 10:56:14 AM | More
SexyScorpion

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6/12/2013 10:59:04 AM | More
SexyScorpion

Posted by kalin
Posted by SexyScorpion
Posted by Jynja


Thank you so much, Sexy!! It's hard for me to be around grumpy people while not being able to cheer them up right at the moment
I will just stay away when he's in a bad mood then. It's easier to be his playmate than his psychologist I suppose LOL
It's so nice to have someone who shares similar experience to talk to
I guess I'm obsessed with doing the right thing at the right time myself LOL


You and I share many similar experiences..its scary..This place is awesome...these guys give good advice..offcourse they don't know the whole story or can look into anybody's heart or read non verbal cues but they are good in sharing their traits, experiences and wisdom etc. I have learned so much from here about leos...

By the way who started calling me sexy.. (nice short form)..Jynja I think.....awesome....after being with a leo man even I have become a sucker for compliments..LOL...Keep it coming..
6/18/2013 4:26:20 PM | More
kalin

female

Sun Scorpio 13.15 Ascendant Cancer 3.

lol... i don't want to get eaten lol
6/19/2013 7:56:10 AM | More
enfant_terrible

29 years old male from United Consciousness of Yugoslavia  

Leo Sun. Taur Asc. Cancer Moon

Play dead.
6/19/2013 12:55:50 PM | More
kalin

female

Sun Scorpio 13.15 Ascendant Cancer 3.

I thought it only works for bears?
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