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rocktressa
12/18/2010 1:38:06 PM | IP
rocktressa

female from NU ORLEANZ, Louisiana dirrty south  AMORICA.............. the beautifully broken  

sensual beast,rocker girl, temptress.,ma

Posted by theleoman
Posted by rocktressa
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou??? once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...

YOUR COMPLIMENTS ROCK MY BOAT LOL
OH LEOMAN ........I must say that I relish in your most adequit answers in your replys to these finnicky KATS ... anways to follow up on my leo love soap opera...after he texted me the other night (after not hearing from him for two weeks)...he texted saying he saw me bartending that night through the window after driving down my street ..he said he was gonna stop by but traffic was really bad down in the quarter and no place to park.... so then he texted again asking what I was doing that night I texted back saying I was at home chilin and I had made 130 in tips (I know he likes to hear of me making good money so thats y I threw that in there).After hearing your advise on not telling him boring stuff I wish Id of thought to tell him I was out doing something fun that night when he asked (But leoman I am nothing but real and can only be honest so I told him I was home chilin).So probably (he thought that was boring) I waited about two more hours to reply to invite him to go have a drink...... SIGH!!!!!! he text back an hour later saying "yeah maybe"....after that no further reply .... so I reffered back to your spot on advice and texted him saying that Id love to see him and that we could just meet up and catch up on how we been doing....... FRUSTRATION MOUNTING DEEPLY!!!! NO REPLY .... I am getting pissed which is a hard feat coming from me because unlike leos I am very slow to anger, but he is testing me to my limits now . I am a bartender down in the fench quarter and I get hit on all the time but, I find myself constantly declining guys... I swear I cant seem to shake this leo heartbreaker from under my skin ... why did he text me out of the blue to just shake me up again to ignore me??? I just dont get it and wish I knew what to do to snap his neck back in my direction and to have him all up in my koolaid again.Im pretty sure that if we got into bed together again I would be full of such frustration and unadultrated passion for him that he would think he la
theleoman
12/18/2010 12:19:51 PM | IP

Posted by SweetLibra

he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.


I knew he was dealing with some personal stuff and that had him preoccupied. He had been running kind of hot and cold periodically. Maybe because of the personal stuff maybe not. I made myself available to him whenever he needed me, but I was starting to feel that he wasn't doing the same for me by disappearing when he wanted to. Anyway, he messages me one !

of course its up to you, he reached out several times and now dont you wish you had sex with him that night , we all allow our emotions to block what we really want at the time and with a clear head im sure you wish you had different choice but its okay , you need to let him know you dont know what you were thinking that night and you made a big mistake , tell him you need his love his hugs and his warmth it will never happen again ( leos are really forgiving they can forgive you for the worst things on earth) we know people make mistakes just own up to it

don't bother trying to explain or point out his faults right now,you do that and in his mind he will be like well why are you trying to get back to me if you dont like me you want him to change when he does a call tell him you love hearing that phone ring and its him on the other end, just be sure to compliment when he does something you like, he will do it more and more

theleoman
12/18/2010 12:19:35 PM | IP

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theleoman
12/18/2010 12:18:56 PM | IP

Posted by SweetLibra

he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.

Leos take a while to move on , we leave a window open and we will wait to see if you come back and we hope you do of course it depends on what you did but leos are extremely forgiving which give you a good chance just make sure you explain to him that you know you were wrong

Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...


Forgot to tell you how the breakup happened -

I knew he was dealing with some personal stuff and that had him preoccupied. He had been running kind of hot and cold periodically. Maybe because of the personal stuff maybe not. I made myself available to him whenever he needed me, but I was starting to feel that he wasn't doing the same for me by disappearing when he wanted to. Anyway, he messages me one night wanting to see me and I said no (because I wanted to let him know that I needed more of him in order to stay in the relationship). He immediately called me to find out what was wrong and I was so frustrated with him, I told him I no longer wanted to be in a one sided relationship and that if he didn't want me than what was the point. I wasn't looking for a fling with him. I thought he was going to be the main character in my love story and that I finally found my happy ending. I didn't say it exactly like that, but I made sure he understood that I was too old for games if that was what he was doing. He still would not say the words I wanted to hear, but he did try to convince me that I was overreacting and to come over to his place to talk. Well it was around 2 in the a.m., so I know he didn't want to "talk". I declined and said that I was done. We hung up and haven't spoken since. That was our break up. He hasn't called me. Does he even care, did he even care? Or is it up to me to reach out to him since technically I broke up with him? Help Mr. Leoman! This guy is under my skin!

of course its up to you, he reached out several times and now dont you wish you had sex with him that night , we all allow our emotions to block what we really want at the time and with a clear head im sure you wish you had different choice but its okay , you need to
firstlove26
12/18/2010 12:13:27 PM | IP
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theleoman
12/18/2010 12:02:12 PM | IP

Posted by rocktressa
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou??? once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...

YOUR COMPLIMENTS ROCK MY BOAT LOL
theleoman
12/18/2010 12:00:39 PM | IP

Posted by firstlove26
Thank you Leo Man for your response and pointers..I studied them and took them to heart and am implementing
them into my behavior towards my king.

He texted me since I first posted here and told me he loved me and called me sweetheart..I don't doubt he does.



Just as I said he is hiding the fact of the divorce from is mom and not only because she took it hard he is also embarrassed to make the same mistake twice a third time is gonna be tough to swallow as well.


But he trust me he loves you or he would have never told you. leos know when something is good he has no need to lie to you , if he says you he loves you he really does. Leos dont throw thats word around easy , some people are shocked and may not know why a leo loves them but it could be the smallest thing that you do that could a big thing for a leo.

you want to get to his heart? show him you care about what hes going through, tell him "you know so much people would have gave up , but you remain so strong,"then slip in " thats why i love you so much" it will make your leo man pur like a kitty lol

if you want him to spend new years with you , you may have to offer to all spend it together with his daughter im sure hes not leaving her alone for new years

as for your birthday, remind him that its coming up, and you will like to spend it with him. slip in some ego rub by telling him that there is no one else that you rather be with and that it will mean allot to yo, tell him that you even pay for the dinner

trust me he will pay , but it will be nice to hear how bad you want him to be there



theleoman
12/18/2010 11:59:55 AM | IP

Posted by firstlove26
Thank you Leo Man for your response and pointers..I studied them and took them to heart and am implementing
them into my behavior towards my king.

He texted me since I first posted here and told me he loved me and called me sweetheart..I don't doubt he does.

We still haven't seen each other in 26 yrs...in person. I feel he is holding off, but I don't know why. I want to be
with him on New Years and my birthday is soon after.

How can I let him know this without being pushy and insensitive to his time with his daughter..both days are
on the weekend and I am beginning to feel real resentful and left out. It sounds horrible and selfish, I know
and I keep beating myself up about it, but I want something with him that's mine and mine alone and not shared
with anyone or anything..I thought at least my birthday could be that. I am afraid to approach it, and I am afraid
to let it happen because it might not happen. I am just learning him, again. 26 years ago it seems that he was at
my beck and call and spoiled me rotten...now...it's his sick daughter that has the majority of him.

Does he think I am made out of steel and am not hurting? He doesn't have a clue what I am talking about when I say
I am hurting?

I think he is getting his attention from his daughter being sick and handling her illness in such a strong way (she really is)
he posts pics of her updates in chemo and his time with her as much as he does his favorite hobby, fishing...showing off his fish
on fb, but barely any pics of himself.

last weird thing is, he is letting his mom believe he is still married and doesn't want me to tell her, he says it will break her heart
because she took his first divorce so hard. I went to see his mom recently (we are all close, still) and that was his direction to me.

what is the deal, he is hiding me. so is that because of what you said, he wants to be sure we are going to make it before he goes
sharing the news about us to keep disappointments down and to not be embarrassed? If so, I can understand and handle that, just as
long as he is not ashamed of me..I couldn't bear that.



Just as I said he is hiding the fact of the divorce from is mom and not only because she took it hard he is also embarrassed to make the same mistake twice a third time is gonna be tough to swallow as well.


But he trust me he loves you or he
theleoman
12/18/2010 11:35:45 AM | IP

Posted by SweetLibra
Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...



Sorry got cut off -
By antics I'm referring to his "now u see me, now u don't" magician act. And a few other personality traits that we have been discussing here in this forum. Maybe it was an insecurity on my part, but I like to know my guy is all in (I attribute that to my Venus being in Scorpio), and in return I am as loyal as they come. But his disappearing acts started to shake my confidence in him and I overreacted out of fear of being hurt. I think things between us progressed really fast right away. While our union was a brief one (a few months) I was really into him and could see myself falling fast. I guess I got scared and bailed because even though I felt that he was falling for me, I could not get a verbal conformation from him. And that frightened me. I have never had that problem before. And I needed to hear him say it in order to balance out the confusion I was experiencing from his behavior (which through this forum and your help Mr. Leoman, I now see is a pretty common thing with Leo's). Long story short, I can't get him off my mind. I miss him terribly. I'm just trying to determine through this forum if what I felt from him was real or if it was just a Leo spreading some of his sunshine around? If you as a Leo man tell someone you are glad you found them, should she take that with a grain of salt or is a Leo's word his bond? And Mr. Leoman, I too agree that it is so very kind of you to take time out of your day to help us out. What a man, What a man you must be

a leo word is his bond, he wont say anything he doesnt mean , we operate on emotion in realtionships so if we say something like that its because thats how we feel
theleoman
12/18/2010 11:32:46 AM | IP

Posted by SweetLibra
Posted by theleoman
Posted by SweetLibra
Hello Leoman. I was wondering if a Leo would be open to hearing from an old friend? It's been many moons (2 weeks) since we last spoke. If he's not calling me, I figure it's either his pride, hurt ego, or he has just moved on. We had not yet reached the point of Love, but definitely strong like. I feel pretty certain that I had made an impression on him. I could feel it in his touch and tell just by the way he looked at me. But he was having issues and because he downplayed them, I maybe wasn't as supportive as I should have been. I admit I should have been more patient. I tried to play it cool and roll with his antics but my pride and ego took a few hits in the process and out of frustration of him shutting me out and not communicating, I broke it off. He maybe wanted me to do that to keep himself from having to do it. So now if I reach out to him will he be able to put his pride aside and accept my call? Would he be open to giving me another shot? Or did I commit the ultimate no no with a Leo by breaking up with a Leo?


he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.

Leos take a while to move on , we leave a window open and we will wait to see if you come back and we hope you do of course it depends on what you did but leos are extremely forgiving which give you a good chance just make sure you explain to him that you know you were wrong

Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...


By antics I'm referring to his "now u see me, now u don't" magician act. And a few other personality traits that we have been discussing here in this forum. Maybe it was an insecurity on my part, but I like to know my guy is all in (I attribute that to my Venus being in Scorpio), and in return I am as loyal as they come. But his disappearing acts started to shake my confidence in him and I overreacted out of fear of being hurt. I think things between us progressed really fast right away. While our union was a brief one (a few months) I was really into him and could see myse
theleoman
12/18/2010 11:30:53 AM | IP

Posted by kitty69
You are a beautiful man, your honesty is purely heartfelt. My heart sank as i was reading your reply, knowing word for word, what you would say.

It's just sad to know, that no one ever knows the depth of our love for them, and more often than not, as in this case, some one shinier and new comes along, and gives you the attention, that you so crave. I'm not that girl, however, i will love you more than any one else can, will be loyal to the end, and love for always.

I guess, i don't and, will never comprehend, how, and if you love some one, this can be extinguished by another, in a heartbeat. Sincerely, thank you for saying it out loud, and re iterating what I was thinking.


Thank you, so very much....me



we leos like action and you must prove the love though action ...its no all about words. and when i mean prove i mean do the simple things like call, check up on him believe it or not people think thats a small thing but its a big thing for leos

you do the small things and the returns are big.
firstlove26
12/18/2010 11:10:40 AM | IP
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Geminithefox
12/18/2010 8:48:04 AM | IP
Geminithefox

112 years old female

Loving a Gemini is an experience that ma

How do Leo guys feel about Gemini girls?
kitty69
12/18/2010 7:48:16 AM | IP
kitty69

You are a beautiful man, your honesty is purely heartfelt. My heart sank as i was reading your reply, knowing word for word, what you would say.

It's just sad to know, that no one ever knows the depth of our love for them, and more often than not, as in this case, some one shinier and new comes along, and gives you the attention, that you so crave. I'm not that girl, however, i will love you more than any one else can, will be loyal to the end, and love for always.

I guess, i don't and, will never comprehend, how, and if you love some one, this can be extinguished by another, in a heartbeat. Sincerely, thank you for saying it out loud, and re iterating what I was thinking.


Thank you, so very much....me

theleoman
12/18/2010 6:15:36 AM | IP

Posted by kitty69
Hey, Mr Leo, bet your sorry now, for offering assistance, to all those of us, currently affected by you kitty cats eh? Its like central station here, hehehe. So what your effectively suggesting, in my case is, I have to make amends, with my Leo friend first, otherwise, poof, he shall vanish without a trace, yeah? Hope things are well with you...


At the end of the day we all should swallow or pride and not allow it to get it in the way of what we really want.I think deep down you know what you want to do and i will say do whats in your heart therefore no regrets

leos crave attention if you feed him the attention he will be there and come back for more and yes if you dont he will go looking somewhere else for it

 

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