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|some of you who are asking about hot and cold behavior of leos.. in my experience i have never known leos to be hot and cold. i've been pursued by some and i have been friends with some and when they really wanted something they went after it FULL FORCE. i think back and forth behavior by anyone is caused by uncertainty or insecurities (such as past hurts and an unreadiness to be in another relationship or commit). Just a thought!|
More than a year.
I know in a way he cares for me, but the way he shows it is not enough and I told him.
It is like he just takes me for granted all the time. Never has time to take me out for dinner, but has time to meet his mates. And then when he doens't want to go out, I am suppose to be at his place. When he wants it, how he wants it.
Don't know what to do. Really loosing patience here.
Posted by maryjane
how long apart was his last relationship before you?
|Rocktressa and SweetLibra described my situation! Spot on.|
What's wrong with this guys, seriously?
My Leo is EXACTLY as some of you described.
We've been together 6 months now and it had to be me putting a label on our relationship. He disapperas when he wants and then when he remembers I exist, I am suppose to be here all pretty and available for him. To make him open up about feelings, about us, etc..it is a nightmare. Like some of you said, he only responds or reacts when I do something drastic. I tried to break up with him already twice, as it is very frustrating. Told him that being his gf was very lonely...but then he insists and insists for things not to be over, for everyhting to be back to the same within 1 day.
I don't feel I have a bf with this guy and to be fair, I trully believe he will end up alone if he doesn't change.
That said, I can't change him, so I might be brave enough to leave him at once :p
What I find bizarre is that they are supposed to be all romantic and direct (?!) didn't know they were so complex. Better, complicated!
|So Sweet Libra, what your saying, is whether your a friend or girlfriend, they treat you the same, phone calls, texts every day, how confusing. Does your man take you out for dinners, and treat you like a girlfriend.|
|Hi Miss sweetlibra, thanks for the reply, but you actually, seem to be in a relationship with your guy correct? I dont have any idea, what i mean to this man, and yes, the other day, i offered my help and assistance, when he needed it, no thank, no nothing, i havent heard from him in two days, what the ??????|
|Hey Mister Leo, sorry if i seem a bit unclear. The two times we were dating he did ask alot if i was with any one, but i truely wasnt. He went to london for three months, without so much as one word from him. i met someone started dating him then left that guy. Then Leo returns, and we start talking daily for the last month and a half. Like I said, he told me twice last week he loves me, and asks if i want to marry him, he knows im no longer with this other guy, but keeps questioning me. What i meant also was, why does he ring all the time, text every day and night, but we dont actually see each other, should i assume, i am just his friend now, do you act this way with your friends???This has been going on for six months.Thank you, for your thoughts.|
|he seems to have a lot going on as i mentioned being there would be the best thing, hopefully my other replies to your posted will help you have a better understanding from a leos point of view|
Posted by rocktressa
to trap a leo , be sure to give him his lion share anytime he wants it hey will love you forever, leos are usually in long term relationships and dont like to bounce around. they want to have one woman he can make his prey. Always wear tight clothes, never ever let your appearance go and be very girly in bed.
Get in bed take off clothes keep on panties go under sheets
Posted by SweetLibra
What personal issues did he have if you dont mind sharing?
Posted by rocktressaPosted by theleomanPosted by rocktressa
Posted by SweetLibra
Hmmm to answer a few of your questions. It takes a Leo a long while to get over break ups so I can only imagine him breaking up with someone that was headed towards a relationship hes most likely devastated but his pride and ego wont let it show although it may slip out, hes may be more hurt then he is putting on.
His pride ( not love) may be thinking he can get back with her.He may even want to know there a chance but he probably would never get back with her as he would have the fear of getting hurt again. This will is were your getting the hot and cold experiencing im sure.
Hes not going to be ready for a new relationship just yet, but leos dont like to be alone and he appreciates you being there is growing close to his heart and you may not even notice. If you really like him stick by him slowly the focus will turn more towards you and he starts to realize hes with someone more caring.
Leos hate breaks up , because they hate failing at things as well, and probably wont break up of over just anything small it would have to be big. So be prepared for a long term term type of relationship and avoid causing unnecessary arguments.
Leos can be talkative of the phone and quite in person , when hes quite with you hes at peace and just wants to relax and escape with you , hes is probably thinking about you and the time you are having right then and there. They like alone time with you, they will transform and become the life of the party in group settings where they feel all eyes are watching being alone with you he can escape the spotlight
Posted by kitty69
Hmm during the time you you said you dont want to be intimate did he ever question if your your cheating or seeing someone? we tend to over analyse things things sometimes and he might be trying to figure out about that time in his head if you were telling the trtih out not? was it going to be your first time have being intimate with anyone?
When you say "he rings all the time, we text all day and night every day but nothing," whats the nothing part mean?
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Posted by theleomanwell leo man its not chores or moving...its more like making plans with me then not keeping them??? dont get me wrong Im not a fool (although I do find myself very forgiving of his flakiness) I believe he really does mean to c me but gets caught up in his head alot. He is fresh out of a 6 year break up. Read my previous post. I aint making excuse but hes just really flaky about keeping his word. Im so confused over his rampant hot cold behvior. Im crazy about him cause when we are together he is wildly passionate about me and has me on a cloud but then kinda takes away the brownie points when we part company for lack of communication. thank u for your responses ....they have been insightfulPosted by rocktressa