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maryjane
12/6/2010 8:51:29 AM | IP
maryjane

33 years old female


Makes sense to me, IsabelScorpia!
IsabelScorpia
12/6/2010 8:35:18 AM | IP
IsabelScorpia

29 years old female

some of you who are asking about hot and cold behavior of leos.. in my experience i have never known leos to be hot and cold. i've been pursued by some and i have been friends with some and when they really wanted something they went after it FULL FORCE. i think back and forth behavior by anyone is caused by uncertainty or insecurities (such as past hurts and an unreadiness to be in another relationship or commit). Just a thought!
maryjane
12/5/2010 3:32:37 PM | IP
maryjane

33 years old female

Hello TheLeoman,
More than a year.
I know in a way he cares for me, but the way he shows it is not enough and I told him.
It is like he just takes me for granted all the time. Never has time to take me out for dinner, but has time to meet his mates. And then when he doens't want to go out, I am suppose to be at his place. When he wants it, how he wants it.
Don't know what to do. Really loosing patience here.
theleoman
12/5/2010 3:25:40 PM | IP

Posted by maryjane
Rocktressa and SweetLibra described my situation! Spot on.
What's wrong with this guys, seriously?
My Leo is EXACTLY as some of you described.
We've been together 6 months now and it had to be me putting a label on our relationship. He disapperas when he wants and then when he remembers I exist, I am suppose to be here all pretty and available for him. To make him open up about feelings, about us, etc..it is a nightmare. Like some of you said, he only responds or reacts when I do something drastic. I tried to break up with him already twice, as it is very frustrating. Told him that being his gf was very lonely...but then he insists and insists for things not to be over, for everyhting to be back to the same within 1 day.
I don't feel I have a bf with this guy and to be fair, I trully believe he will end up alone if he doesn't change.
That said, I can't change him, so I might be brave enough to leave him at once :p

What I find bizarre is that they are supposed to be all romantic and direct (?!) didn't know they were so complex. Better, complicated!


how long apart was his last relationship before you?
maryjane
12/5/2010 3:06:08 PM | IP
maryjane

33 years old female

Rocktressa and SweetLibra described my situation! Spot on.
What's wrong with this guys, seriously?
My Leo is EXACTLY as some of you described.
We've been together 6 months now and it had to be me putting a label on our relationship. He disapperas when he wants and then when he remembers I exist, I am suppose to be here all pretty and available for him. To make him open up about feelings, about us, etc..it is a nightmare. Like some of you said, he only responds or reacts when I do something drastic. I tried to break up with him already twice, as it is very frustrating. Told him that being his gf was very lonely...but then he insists and insists for things not to be over, for everyhting to be back to the same within 1 day.
I don't feel I have a bf with this guy and to be fair, I trully believe he will end up alone if he doesn't change.
That said, I can't change him, so I might be brave enough to leave him at once :p

What I find bizarre is that they are supposed to be all romantic and direct (?!) didn't know they were so complex. Better, complicated!
kitty69
12/5/2010 6:29:53 AM | IP
kitty69

So Sweet Libra, what your saying, is whether your a friend or girlfriend, they treat you the same, phone calls, texts every day, how confusing. Does your man take you out for dinners, and treat you like a girlfriend.
kitty69
12/4/2010 1:50:26 PM | IP
kitty69

Hi Miss sweetlibra, thanks for the reply, but you actually, seem to be in a relationship with your guy correct? I dont have any idea, what i mean to this man, and yes, the other day, i offered my help and assistance, when he needed it, no thank, no nothing, i havent heard from him in two days, what the ??????
kitty69
12/4/2010 11:49:01 AM | IP
kitty69

Hey Mister Leo, sorry if i seem a bit unclear. The two times we were dating he did ask alot if i was with any one, but i truely wasnt. He went to london for three months, without so much as one word from him. i met someone started dating him then left that guy. Then Leo returns, and we start talking daily for the last month and a half. Like I said, he told me twice last week he loves me, and asks if i want to marry him, he knows im no longer with this other guy, but keeps questioning me. What i meant also was, why does he ring all the time, text every day and night, but we dont actually see each other, should i assume, i am just his friend now, do you act this way with your friends???This has been going on for six months.Thank you, for your thoughts.
theleoman
12/4/2010 11:15:55 AM | IP

he seems to have a lot going on as i mentioned being there would be the best thing, hopefully my other replies to your posted will help you have a better understanding from a leos point of view
theleoman
12/4/2010 10:38:38 AM | IP

Posted by rocktressa
my leo man drives me kaaaaarazeeeeeeeeeee ....what the hell does he want??? if I fawn over him a lil bit too much he juts off for a few days with no communication ...when i call him (not alot) he dosent answer ... when hes ready for me ,he calls me and im there on the spot..I get pissed at myself for it too> when we are together ....he has me alll floatin ,the sex is otherwordly ..hes a mysterious beast ,I just want to know how to capture and maintain his piqued intrest.????


to trap a leo , be sure to give him his lion share anytime he wants it hey will love you forever, leos are usually in long term relationships and dont like to bounce around. they want to have one woman he can make his prey. Always wear tight clothes, never ever let your appearance go and be very girly in bed.

Get in bed take off clothes keep on panties go under sheets
theleoman
12/4/2010 10:33:06 AM | IP

Posted by SweetLibra
Thanks TRIFLE for sharing the insight. My leo did express that he was feeling vulnerable with me at one point, but I never thought to relate that to our issues we were having and I kind of just thought it was an excuse. And he also had some personal issues he was dealing with that popped up while he and I were seeing each other. I tried to help him as much as I could and tried to let him know that I would be there for him even if just as a friend. But I guess being a stubborn prideful Leo he decided to just withdraw from me instead. I also think he got spooked by how much he liked me so soon. Sounds silly I know. Everyone talks about how Leo's are loyal and straightforward with their feelings, but I don't believe all of them behave that way. My guy may still be a little unevolved, and searching for himself.


What personal issues did he have if you dont mind sharing?
theleoman
12/4/2010 10:31:59 AM | IP

Posted by rocktressa
Posted by theleoman
Posted by rocktressa
IS IT TYPICAL OF A LEO MAN TO REPEATEDLY TELL YOU HES GONNA DO SOMETHING BUT NOT REALLY DO IT? THEN WHEN U CAL HIM TO QUESTION HIM ABOUT IT HE DOSE NOT ANSWER?MY LEO OF ONE YEAR DOES THIS STUFF QUITE OFTEN AND I JUST WANT TO KNOW IS THIS TYPICAL ??


Hmm once you say hes just out of a relationship explains the hot and cold part, leos take a while to get over a relationship he will come around and com home to you if you stick by him, hes probably talks alot about that relationship or may talk about it indirectly its because its still bugging him , he really wants to get over that relationship but only time will heal him. When hes with you he will forget all about it. When he has his alone time is probably consuming him and is a big distraction. I will read over your other post for more detail
theleoman
12/4/2010 10:27:17 AM | IP

Posted by SweetLibra
LEOMAN, I've noticed since you started this thread, that you have disappeared on us leaving us with baited breath for your insightful answers to our questions. And yet we come back,only so we can wait some more...


Hmmm to answer a few of your questions. It takes a Leo a long while to get over break ups so I can only imagine him breaking up with someone that was headed towards a relationship hes most likely devastated but his pride and ego wont let it show although it may slip out, hes may be more hurt then he is putting on.

His pride ( not love) may be thinking he can get back with her.He may even want to know there a chance but he probably would never get back with her as he would have the fear of getting hurt again. This will is were your getting the hot and cold experiencing im sure.

Hes not going to be ready for a new relationship just yet, but leos dont like to be alone and he appreciates you being there is growing close to his heart and you may not even notice. If you really like him stick by him slowly the focus will turn more towards you and he starts to realize hes with someone more caring.

Leos hate breaks up , because they hate failing at things as well, and probably wont break up of over just anything small it would have to be big. So be prepared for a long term term type of relationship and avoid causing unnecessary arguments.

Leos can be talkative of the phone and quite in person , when hes quite with you hes at peace and just wants to relax and escape with you , hes is probably thinking about you and the time you are having right then and there. They like alone time with you, they will transform and become the life of the party in group settings where they feel all eyes are watching being alone with you he can escape the spotlight
theleoman
12/4/2010 9:56:56 AM | IP

Posted by kitty69
Hey you, you said ask anything, so here goes, oh and lovely to meet you. I met a leo, we dated for a while,then stopped because i wasnt ready to be intimate. He left to travel, came back, seeing each other again, then he leaves for london for three months, comes back, been talking every day, for a month and a half. My question is, he rings all the time, we text all day and night every day but nothing,Im not an idiot, but what the, I dont understand, what he wants. Hes told me twice in the last week, he loves me, he asked if i would marry him and have his children, seriously, why is this man bothering with me, do leos just like to toy with people, please dont take that the wrong way, just asking for an opinion. Cheers.


Hmm during the time you you said you dont want to be intimate did he ever question if your your cheating or seeing someone? we tend to over analyse things things sometimes and he might be trying to figure out about that time in his head if you were telling the trtih out not? was it going to be your first time have being intimate with anyone?

When you say "he rings all the time, we text all day and night every day but nothing," whats the nothing part mean?
rocktressa
12/4/2010 7:21:47 AM | IP
rocktressa

female from NU ORLEANZ, Louisiana dirrty south  AMORICA.............. the beautifully broken  

sensual beast,rocker girl, temptress.,ma

Posted by theleoman
Posted by rocktressa
IS IT TYPICAL OF A LEO MAN TO REPEATEDLY TELL YOU HES GONNA DO SOMETHING BUT NOT REALLY DO IT? THEN WHEN U CAL HIM TO QUESTION HIM ABOUT IT HE DOSE NOT ANSWER?MY LEO OF ONE YEAR DOES THIS STUFF QUITE OFTEN AND I JUST WANT TO KNOW IS THIS TYPICAL ??


hmmm its its household duties , or moving something.. regardless sometimes leos procrastinate on things they think can wait.. they really want to do it but may not feel its so important they also may feel they have time to do it and they eventually will
well leo man its not chores or moving...its more like making plans with me then not keeping them??? dont get me wrong Im not a fool (although I do find myself very forgiving of his flakiness) I believe he really does mean to c me but gets caught up in his head alot. He is fresh out of a 6 year break up. Read my previous post. I aint making excuse but hes just really flaky about keeping his word. Im so confused over his rampant hot cold behvior. Im crazy about him cause when we are together he is wildly passionate about me and has me on a cloud but then kinda takes away the brownie points when we part company for lack of communication. thank u for your responses ....they have been insightful
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