|the evening. He had been seeing a friend, Same next day, I asked him to meet, he'd seen another friend. The day after he said he'd some things to do but would try to see me later, but i told him i wasn't free. The following day a long text saying he felt more relaxed, had seen some friends and really missed me. I told him to meet on the weekend to fix some thing at my place and he came. I just said a quick hello, but he kissed me and hugged for quite some time. Then he fixed the thing and I invited him to dinner. After that we went back to my place and talked. I asked him if he was still sleeping with her? Yes, it had happened since both of us met last time. I told him that I liked him a lot but wouldn't be second. He told me there was no first and second for him. That he had trouble dividing himself between us. Then at some point stopped talking. I felt a big wave of emotion coming over him and we hugged. He said that he had started to develop feelings for me. We hugged a long time. I then was all over him to have sex with me, to prove that he still wanted me, I'd never before done that and hell, it was probably some big insecurity that made me do that stupid thing. I should have let that moment be and just continue to hug. He did it I guess to please me but said he would really want to do it when he could relax with me, stay over, wake up with me. |
Then it was time and he left.
The next evening he texted that now things would even be harder for him since she was suspicious and he had to lie and hated that. I asked him what I could do and he told me to just be cool for the time being. No news at all the next day. The day after just a short remark about his jobsearch, to which I only replied one day later (today). nothing since this afternoon. I guess I should just let things simmer for a while -
Sooooo, the way I feel the thing is that he needs space and not being pushed right now, but I also have to make my limits clear.
Iam afraid Iam never going to see him again.
Iam also hoping for another big fight with her that makes him realize things and push things over the top.
Iam pisces, but still have some stronger other signs in my chart, can't remember which. He always appreciated me for being sensitive but also cool and collected.
God ,I miss him, hardly sleep anymore and have to hold back not to call him and beg for him to come to me. What should I do? What do you think?
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|to come with - instinctiveley I said yes.(god only knows why, maybe even he doesn't). We still had some time before and we talked, well I did. Asked him what exactly the relation with that 'her' was, I thought it was sort of an exchange of flats but he told me it was more, only that things were basically dead, but that he had come to the country for her and actually had a relationship with her before things went south. He thought ii had understood that much, thn he asked me if I still wanted to come. Yes. |
So we met with her, I nearly died seeing him quickly kiss her and then all happy three of us went to the area of the potential flat. Suggested we had a drink somewhere around to get a better feel of the area. In the end we did and he sat across from the both of us. Asked me what I'd do if I were in his place about his 'staying place' situation when she went to the bathroom. I told him to get a job quickly to move out. Then I said goodbye and had to watch them leave together to 'his staying place'= her place. I realize now that he must have had a great deal of trust in me to ask me along.
The next morning I saw a text saying that he'd told her everything he'd been unhappy about the past month, that it was over and that he'd leave the country in two days. I was very alarmed and contacted him, he told me he was packing and call me later. As the day passed, I grew more and more tense. He saw me late in the evening, I realized he hadn't eaten, but talked with her all day. We fixed some food together and he told me what came out when she finally opened up, explained her behaviour etc....and that basically she was a quite lonely person with nearly no friends and that he now felt sorry for her. He'd leave at the end of a week, hoped badly to find a job till then. I offered that he stay at my place but he said it wouldn't be 'correct'. As far as I gathered from leo characteristics, it seems hard for him to make an easy transit to a new relationship because of some deep sense of loyalty. He left and even walked home, a long walk. I didn't insist he'd stay and guessed he needed 'air'. That evening he was upset and exhausted, he wanted to talk to me about what they had talked about all day, about what he felt, but I had trouble listening, being so very tense because of his departure, seeing no way out of this.
So the next day I apologized for not having been there fully, that I still had listed and did he want to come over to relax? Just a text very late in
|HELP LEOMAN!! or JONLEO!|
So I met this leo last summer on holidays, only one evening, then the night and never saw him again, but only had a few days left and received messaged, I was very pushy then to see him. In the last message he said he'd probably see me later that year since he was coming to the country I live in. I forgot.
Then at the end of last year I received his message informing me that he was there. I was detached then but still remembered how much I had felt for him then. Then we only managed to meet a few weeks after taht first contact since i left the country several times in that period, and while i was there, he left for a couple of days. Then we met one evening and here the feeling was again, so close. We had a drink and then I brought him home since he'd missed the last train to his 'staying place'. That place he'd already told me about in his first messages and before we even met, he didn't get along very well with the person he was staying with.
After that first encounter some discreet text messages - he was always outside his 'staying place', fleeing from it. I fist suggested to join him wherever he was, then invited him over to my place several times, where we talked. About all kinds of things. I laughed so much, learned a lot and enjoyed. Then it was always time for him to take the last train 'out of respect' to his 'staying place'. Yes, there were physical encounters, not always, but always out of the world good ones, often coming after long hours of talking, a small gesture from his side, not going any further before I would respond.
We then saw each other two, three times a week, anyplace.
I learned in the meantime that he had come to the country to stay with a woman, but she turned out to be quite different from the one he'd met and he was basically coping with being called names and being a housekeeper. I asked him why he'd put up with that and he reponded that he hadn't made sure before coming to have an alternative if things went wrong, so he actively was looking for a job and hoped to get out of that flat.
My feelings for him grew. Communication was easy and flowing. One morning he sent a mail saying 'she' wanted him to come with him to get a feel of an area where she wanted to buy a flat (she'd already visited on the previous day, but at a different hour), he didn't want to, but said it would be correct. We spend the day together, then met again in the evening and when coming in bluntly asked if if I wanted
I need your advice in understanding whether this leo guy is interested in me or not.We are working together and have become friends too but I find him looking at me when I am not noticing in the office quite a lot. When he is with a group he treats me no differently other then that he tries to stands close to me, he invites me to spend lone time with him, on one such occasion he even kissed me, I kissed him back but stopped him for anything further.So next time when we were alone he didn't tried to kiss me but spent time with me, I was confused.
When he is out travelling,he calls from there only if for few minutes and texts.I don't know what to make out of it as he is not doing this with other female friend of his that I know of.
|I have a question their is this leo that likes me as more than friends but i don't his real intentions whether or not he is a good guy. I don't what to think I 've told him that i am not emotionally ready for any type of commitment and oh yeah did i mention i got out of a 2 year relationship for sure.|
|Wow Jonleo, how refreshingly honest of you. You deserve respect and quite clearly are not afraid to give it. Power to you !!!|
Sun: Leo Asc: Scorpio Moon: Cancer Me
|Sweetlibra: I think Libra's can be very good mates for a Leo. I've dated a few and liked them very much. One thing you should know is that Leo's test potential mates. We want to know if they will match our intensity in love. I want someone who knows I am the one for them and won't settle for less or let me get away with playing games. We get very possessive with our mates and want to make sure they will be okay with it. Maryjane is giving a Leo who hasn't made up his mind about her too much. If he was there for her %100, then what she is doing is fine but he isn't.|
When you first meet a Leo and we find you attractive, we will come on strong. It's up to you to slow us down. Make us get to know you. Challenge us mentally. Don't mistake our need to take you to bed right away as more than just physical attraction even though some say they love you within the first few weeks of knowing you. I've done that but it was just passion not love. Be sweet & smart but keep us at bay and let us chase you. If he sticks around, he's interested, if he doesn't, then you know he wasn't serious.
Sun: Leo Asc: Scorpio Moon: Cancer Me
|To Maryjane: When I met my girlfriend I had a number of ladies on rotation. Each had something I liked and I would call whoever matched my mood. Ok, this sounds horrible but this is the secret life of men, not just Leo's. It's fine if you aren't looking for love and I wasn't but the challenge of a sexy, independent, intelligent woman (my girlfriend) who could see right through me and wouldn't stand for less than %100 from me made me realize she was different from all the other's and I would be a fool to let her slip through my fingers. That got me interested. We dated and I began to fall in love. She was not always available to me which drove me crazy. I forgot about the other's even though they called, I could not imagine being with them instead of her. Who wants hamburger when you can have a nice, juicy steak? Ultimately, we Leo's want to be in love, everything else is just for fun but not important. |
If a girl doesn't know to hold off a guy early on when he tries to take her to bed, then we just take advantage of it. A woman who insists on me being up to par for what SHE needs, then I'll work at proving myself to her. I'll take sex when it's offered but anything offered too easily is not valued. I can see where that is hard for the girl as she may not be thinking that but from a guy's perspective, we just see how easy we got it. We do expect to work to get a girl's love.
Maryjane, my girl laid it out for me on the get go. What she wanted, what she expected and I slipped up doing some of the things your guy did. She left me. Cold. A lot of begging and talking but more importantly, changing my act is what made us work. It looks like you've already talked but he's not taking you seriously and I can see why. You are still there for him. Cut him off completely. Look, you need a drastic change, right? So take drastic actions. My lady was willing to let me go to get what she wanted and I respect that because I feel the same way. I want someone to love me as much as I love them and if they can't, goodbye. Leo's get that. Yeah, some keep coming around to sweet-talk but that's usually because they hate 'losing' and it's more about their ego. Learn to see the difference. The real one will change and love you the way you deserve not just calling or texting once in a while hoping you forgot the bs they put you through.
|yeeeiiiiiiii, so today he asks online what my plans were for the evening; said I was probably going to the movies; he says he's tired and was hoping to rest at home with me; then I left without saying goodbye (as he sometimes does to me); and I came home. |
And then he texts asking if I want to join him at his place; I say I can't as I'm out (as he has done to me 100 times); he says if I change my mind he would be there. No answer from me.
Tough to do it because when he feels I'm getting distant he comes all soft. But today he will feel the way he makes me feel a lot. Needing someone at his side and finding himself alone.
He's going to his parents for the weekend. I just hope I'll be strong enough again on sunday to refuse his invitation to stay at his, as it usually happens.
I feel a mix of sad and relived. But I know for the sake of my happiness I had to do it.
I have this leo girl, we had a photoshoot last week, then sex after.
i didn't contented with only single round, so though she is refusing, i still kept asked her if we can do it for the second time. I succeeded we had twice. The problem now is that she got sicked and started blaming me. she got fever due to over fatigue according to the doctor. She is a student and have been absent since then.
I'm still courting her and now it seems she wants to end everyting. I kept on texting her but got no reply, only when i told her that i already emailed her first pic and it she was so beautiful on that pic.
I just got this reply:
"Thank you. Just email all the pictures. No, i'm still sick. ".
Since then, she didn't text me anymore although ive texted her several times but to no avail.
I want her back. What should i do? Pls. help.
|Hi theleoman, want to ask why this one leo on this site keep blaming everything i posted on here keep being a ahole about it? And i ignored him because i didn't have time for that anymore because all the things that happened to me wasn't my fault at all.|
Hey Jon, thanks! I'm mentally hugging you for that
I need to hear those things to be stronger.
Truth is, no one understands why this man acts like this with me. I'm clueless, my friends are clueless..
Anyway, I'm feeling stronger today. I wasn't online for almost all day, just signed in a few mnts before leaving work so he came and speak to me and I just answered his questions politely, but kind of ignoring him. Then I left and if soon I receive a text asking if I want to watch a movie or have dinner at his place, I will answer I'm out. (like he does to me when I initiate contact).
Btw, you say your girlfriend made you a better man. What happened there? (if you don't mind sharing, of course)
Sun: Leo Asc: Scorpio Moon: Cancer Me
|maryjane: In a nutshell, it won't work, he'll just try harder. I can feel your sadness and it's such a downer! |
No, seriously, I hate to see a woman hurt like this and I don't mean to tread on Leoman's thread but as a Leo I could not help but respond. The women we love, we treat like Queens. Nothing is too good for you. I do not understand this guy. Maybe he just likes to keep you around while he does.....? Anyway, my girlfriend (an Aries) taught me to be a better man so I have to give it to you straight. Find the strength to say no. Change your number, whatever you have to do. Think of yourself and put your happiness first & ignore his begging as you now know where it gets you. Keep that strong in your mind. What YOU want is more important, OK? I wish you all the best.
Leoman (or any other leoman around):
I have a quick question.
To make a long story short: I've met my leo almost 7 months ago. All good in the beginning, then he became distant, although we kept seeing each other very often; still he doesn't want assume a relationship; acts cold; he's not caring; doesn't answer my phone; we only spk / meet when he wants, etc etc Sometimes he makes an effort, some other times just acts like a d*** with me; even when I very directly say I am sad or feel lonely he never checks on me; it is always about him, ec etc We just basically hang out at is place.
Even on sunday I asked him for us to go to he movies to hear him say he doesn't pay for things he can download. I offered to pay and still he does nothing to make me happy. But then he goes out with friends..
Right, so I tried to break up with him 3 or 4 times already. He always returns very nicely saying he likes me, he just wants to take things slowly, etc...so i ended up giving in, ignoring my feelings and trying again to have an emotional connection with this man.
Unfortunately, I'm reaching my limit. I feel sad, frustrated, sometimes lonely and I don't have a partner..not a bf. A lot of times I cry alone at home because I don't know what else to do. I assume I have been weak to cut all ties with him and I am going nuts here.
I know he doesn't see other girls, but he doesn't open up to me or make me feel much wanted. We look like a couple that has been married for 40 years.
So my question is: we had this conversation that if one day, any of us wanted to see other people, we would talk with each other and play it clean. I'm thinking: even though it is not true, if I tell him I met someone else and I want to give that person a try, he would be hurt to the point he would stop seeking me? Would this hurt him enough for him to stop insisting?
Since it has been very hard to break up with him because he always insists a lot (but then nothing changes), would the thought of me being with another man would actually make him stop insisting?
I just can't be with him...he says he likes me and he never shows. I'm really sad about the way I feel ignored.
Could this work??