Leo man and bad break up. Will he come back?

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3/19/2013 9:30:01 AM | More
Alex1234

I was dating that wonderful leo man and went abroad to work. Long distance relationship is difficult and he did not come to visit due to administrative problems. To hurt him, I made up a fake boyfriend and one night stand...I regret so much. He said he needs time to think, but no news since 8 days. Will he come back if he loved me?

Thanks
3/19/2013 12:08:26 PM | More
Jynja



-- Cool. Calm. Confident --

Awwwww

I know some Leos who would eventually be flattered that you made a man up to make them jealous. If you've confessed and apologized and he really loves you, this might just be a bit of a "punishment" phase while he collects himself. If only the story is as simple as you wrote it though.

Fingerscrossed for you
3/19/2013 12:16:58 PM | More
Alex1234

thank you for your answer.

well, i was jealous and not easy going due to problems on my side and I really love him.

If he realizes he misses, will he call?

If I don t hear from him in 2-3 weeks, should I consider that our relationship is really over???

cheers
3/19/2013 3:07:55 PM | More
Jynja



-- Cool. Calm. Confident --

Posted by Alex1234
thank you for your answer.

well, i was jealous and not easy going due to problems on my side and I really love him.

If he realizes he misses, will he call?

If I don t hear from him in 2-3 weeks, should I consider that our relationship is really over???

cheers


Alex, you're just giving bits of this story. May I guess you are a Virgo or Scorpio? Please give a little more information, or else, anyone who misses someone can call them.

2-3 weeks might be enough time to consider a relationship over for some, but I give it some time... much more time.
3/19/2013 4:58:12 PM | More
Alex1234

Indeed, I am a virgo.

I worked abroad for the last five months and he was supposed to come and visit. At the last minute he could not come due to a problem and since I've been mad, awful to him, made up a boyfriend, called him 13 times when he wouldn't answer. He asked for space and I declined asking for a straight answer. He said it s over and messaged me two days after saying he wanted to meet when I d be back. Then I declined saying I was not not a puppet he can play with. Since NO NEWS!!!!

Now I'm back home and he knows it and I miss him terribly.

After my awful behavior, will he come back or chances he s moved on??

Thanks
3/19/2013 5:46:29 PM | More
Jynja



-- Cool. Calm. Confident --

Ah, this seems like a lovers spat. Don't worry too much about it, he'll be back if he loves you. He's likely taking the space he needs and will get too you soon.

Or, he could be a little nervous about meeting you again after so long. Give it some time - Leos don't usually discard the people they love that easily.

If you don't hear from him in 2 weeks, maybe drop a line and ask if the meeting is still on.

3/19/2013 5:55:09 PM | More
aurora

34 years old female

Sun Cancer        

Posted by Alex1234
I was dating that wonderful leo man and went abroad to work. Long distance relationship is difficult and he did not come to visit due to administrative problems. To hurt him, I made up a fake boyfriend and one night stand...I regret so much. He said he needs time to think, but no news since 8 days. Will he come back if he loved me?

Thanks

He is not a Cancer () to be mad forever and to take everything way more serious than it is really. It was stupid what you did, you know that, but than again I don't think this is something that would push a Leo forever. If it's just that. My experience tells me they do not forget by they can really forgive. I know my Leo forgave me when I did some stupid things. I left him alone for some time, but after a while I initiated contact. Nothing much, nothing demanding, just how are you. So, that was my story, but better listen to Leos what to expect or to do.
3/19/2013 6:01:53 PM | More
aurora

34 years old female

Sun Cancer        

And yes, like Jynja said, I apologized and he knew how sorry I am. After that I left him alone.
3/20/2013 3:31:43 AM | More
Alex1234

Many thanks for your answer.

Even if he loves me, is there any chance he will sleep with someone or go on date?

Aurora, how long did last his "time to think" period?

Should I expect contact within a month?
3/20/2013 5:06:35 PM | More
aurora

34 years old female

Sun Cancer        

I can only answer you about "time to think" period. I left him alone for a week, and then I initiated the contact, not him. I did it slowly, because I realized he is still hurt. So after a month we were ok again. About other questions, who knows, this is not an exact science, you know that. Leos I know are not cheaters, and they don't give up someone easily. But, exceptions exist.

I know you are sad and scared but, now you have to be strong and patient, and not think about worst kind of scenarios. Good luck girl .
3/21/2013 2:59:47 PM | More
Alex1234

Should I call him despite I said I wanted to move on and agreed on the break up or wait for him to maybe realize he still loves me??

I'm so lost..

3/23/2013 3:56:34 PM | More
Montgomery



Sun Leo ☆ Pisces Moon ☆ Taurus Risin

Posted by Alex1234
Indeed, I am a virgo.

I worked abroad for the last five months and he was supposed to come and visit. At the last minute he could not come due to a problem and since I've been mad, awful to him, made up a boyfriend, called him 13 times when he wouldn't answer. He asked for space and I declined asking for a straight answer. He said it s over and messaged me two days after saying he wanted to meet when I d be back. Then I declined saying I was not not a puppet he can play with. Since NO NEWS!!!!

Now I'm back home and he knows it and I miss him terribly.

After my awful behavior, will he come back or chances he s moved on??

Thanks


Disclaimer: Jynja's probably right.

But this has not been addressed to my satisfaction-- '... he was supposed to come and visit. At the last minute he could not come due to a problem'

What was the 'problem'?

I would have been LIVID and CRUSHED, so I'm finding it very hard to blame you for acting out-- you did it poorly, yes.

But what a disappointing, mindtreetr*nking letdown that must have been-- especially after God-only-knows how much anticipation must have been building up on your part.

Don't let him minimize that-- based on the magnitude of your response (made up a one nighter), this pretty much ripped your heart out.

Confess what you did; apologize for lying *only* and tell him why you did it-- but don't put yourself at his mercy too much.

Unless there was a death in the family, or an injury, or some other kind of *legitimate* emergency (in which case my advice would be FAR different), I truly wonder what constitutes an "administrative" emergency.


Posted by Alex1234
Should I call him despite I said I wanted to move on and agreed on the break up or wait for him to maybe realize he still loves me??

I'm so lost..


If I understand correctly, the last thing he heard from you is 'I'm not your *@!#* puppet!'-- there's only so many ways that can be taken. For him to call now would be-- very un-Leo.

*IF* that was the last thing you two said to each other, then yes-- YES. The onus is on you.


And don't make butter up like that, again... lol. It's probably going to be alright.



3/24/2013 4:20:22 AM | More
Alex1234

Thanks.

He didn't show because his passport expired and he realised a few days before flying over.

I really don't want to call. Will he or simply move on if he does not hear from me?
3/24/2013 6:21:43 AM | More
R1g0rM0rT1s



words fail me

Posted by Alex1234
Thanks.

He didn't show because his passport expired and he realised a few days before flying over.

I really don't want to call. Will he or simply move on if he does not hear from me?



you're asking questions that no-one here can possibly answer irrespective of astrology. have you heard the expression 'the course of true love never runs smoothly'? sometimes even if things are meant to be, obstacles and challenges are thrown in its path and ultimately you are left with no other option than to sit back and leave things to fate. if something's meant to be it will be....which i realise isn't a great answer from your point of view but really there's nothing you can do or say right now that's gonna affect the outcome.

it's easy to panic and imagine that if there's too much distance or silence between you that there's no hope of a future together and it's during that time of panic that we end up doing stuff that can drive the other person away.....cos our behaviour isn't representative of who we are and what we feel...we're just clinging on to something or someone for our own needs.

don't let this dominate your life. try and let him go in your mind and focus on you. yes it will hurt and yes it may take some time to truly let him go but if you do and he comes back, you'll know it is meant to be but you have to stop wanting him like your life depends on it. it's not healthy and not productive and the only person who suffers is yourself

when i first met my ex husband, i was devastated when he ended it after a few months to go back to his ex girlfriend. i remember thinking 'i have two options...i can stay at home and be miserable or i can carry on like nothing's happened'. i did the latter and eventually got my man. it wasn't a game to get him back...i was just putting myself first.
3/24/2013 7:01:40 AM | More
Alex1234

You're oh so right and family and friends told me the same thing.

I just expected so much from this relationship. I truly believe we're a great match. So I booked a holiday, got in touch with friends and old friends. Really, I am the priority.

As far as I understand, he came back to you. Does absence really make the heart grow fonder? And how long did it take for him to come back?

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