Leo woman and choosing her mate

Bella79
Well, I think I choose the men I date and not the other way round.

There are guys chasing me and trying to take me out. But I am just not interested. I richer older Capricorn, a co-worker ( I don??t date guys I work with ) and a sweet Scorpio, that wants to have phone sex. And is just annoying the butter out of me. I like him as a friend nothing more. Yes, I was flirting, but it was because I broke up with my Gem and liked the attention.

Anyone else do that?
KittyKnitter
I used to let men choose me but I matured and realized I needed to do better than that. Actually thinking about it that was my way of choosing because I didn't want commitment and I am sure I chose the wrong men on purpose cos I stayed away from the nice and kind ones who I chose as friends.

Yes I feel very much like I chose the guy I am with now. I had no specific physical qualities in mind but chose someone who has similar values, somewhat similar background, level of intelligence and same dark and twisted sense of humor. Of course I chose him and he chose me but I know he is lucky I chose him in the first place.
KittyKnitter
And I waited a long time before he came along. I am very selective.
ninjamu
I absolutely choose the men I date. It's always been that way. I'm gonna sound like an egoistic Leo here but... the truth is that I do have many suitors. A few are "worthy" and most aren't in the long run.

I'm not perfect but I know I make a pretty damn decent mate. I think I have a lot to offer a committed partner but I am all about the reciprocity over here! It is essential that my partner be an equal contributor to the relationship and that we're both surfing the same wavelength. I am very selective because I have to be. I know myself well and I know how I can be. There is a passionate driving force within me, a fire if you will, so I realize it's gonna take a certain kind of person who can match me. Not to say that I'm not an easy going, laid back individual but when I love, I love hard.
lovelyleo
For me its kind of both. I tend to choose the men that I really want to deal with but I am open to letting others pursue me as well. I think its fun to have someone chase you down, but you have to know when to stop the game as feelings will get hurt.

Currently I have noticed that I probably need to change my criteria for those I want to date. I keep picking the wrong people. I know what I need and want but I always end up with an a**h****.





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