Leo woman what was it like 2 date a Capricorn man

6/16/2010 11:52:38 PM | More
faith$golphin

43 years old female

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Leo woman was your relationship extremely difficult dealing with a Capricorn man. Please tell me the advantages and the disadvantages to having a relationship or FWB. I just would like to know what other Leo women have experience with this type of relationship.
6/17/2010 6:46:23 AM | More
james tate

47 years old male from Llandrindod wells, Powys  Wales  

HUMMMM believe it or not I agree, Leo women have something about them that just clicks with me. they are sexy, strong,smart and damn good looking. to me that is.
6/18/2010 12:01:29 AM | More
faith$golphin

43 years old female

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Thanks! I'm frustrated to the point where I'm mentally tired, trying to understand how he feel without any verbal communication. I feel I was showing to much emotions and wasn't getting anything back in return. This last past week I just gave up on him because it's not worth the headache. If he change then maybe I will pursue. He's stubborn and I don't see that happen anytime soon.

Posted by girl_in_black
I´m a cap who dated and married a leo. It was very difficult, but very loving at the same time. Leos and capricorns have this chemistry where leo is expected to be the center of the attention, and capricorn is supposed to serve leo (emotionally or physically). That´s a very uncomfortable role for capricorns to play. We don´t want to be anyones servant. That´s why we rebel against the relationship and leos demand for attention and intimacy, because that´s like an emotional prison to us. Nevertheless we are drawn to leo - we can´t help being attracted to the warmth of the leo-personality. The result is that there is always a push and pull within the relationship. The leo is confused because capricorn seems to both love and resent leo at the same time, and capricorn is tired, because being with a leo takes too much energy.

I read somewhere that you have a difficulty going more then two days without contact with him. That would be a big problem for me personally as a capricorn. I think the cap men are even worse.
Keep loving him and supporting his career, don´t be selfish and selfcentered- and he will be yours I belive.

A warning though: We capricorns don´t talk about our feelings. If he feels like you´re smothering him he will one day just leave without a word and never come back. You will wonder what happened, but to capricorn it is totally normal, because he showed you through his behaviour how he felt and you didn´t listen - just continued being insensetive and pushing it. That can make a capricorn very very angry. Capricorns are sexually drawn to leo - but we resent leos possesiveness and need for intimacy, because we think that leo is being a big parasite, always putting themselves first.
That´s why I say - be very careful faith. If you just keep pushing it and being immature, no matter how much he loves you, this cap day he´ll disspear without a trace and you wont see him no more in this lifetime.
6/18/2010 12:01:39 AM | More
faith$golphin

43 years old female

I’m Crazy, Sexy, and Cool!!! I’m a s






Thanks! I'm frustrated to the point where I'm mentally tired, trying to understand how he feel without any verbal communication. I feel I was showing to much emotions and wasn't getting anything back in return. This last past week I just gave up on him because it's not worth the headache. If he change then maybe I will pursue. He's stubborn and I don't see that happen anytime soon.

Posted by girl_in_black
I´m a cap who dated and married a leo. It was very difficult, but very loving at the same time. Leos and capricorns have this chemistry where leo is expected to be the center of the attention, and capricorn is supposed to serve leo (emotionally or physically). That´s a very uncomfortable role for capricorns to play. We don´t want to be anyones servant. That´s why we rebel against the relationship and leos demand for attention and intimacy, because that´s like an emotional prison to us. Nevertheless we are drawn to leo - we can´t help being attracted to the warmth of the leo-personality. The result is that there is always a push and pull within the relationship. The leo is confused because capricorn seems to both love and resent leo at the same time, and capricorn is tired, because being with a leo takes too much energy.

I read somewhere that you have a difficulty going more then two days without contact with him. That would be a big problem for me personally as a capricorn. I think the cap men are even worse.
Keep loving him and supporting his career, don´t be selfish and selfcentered- and he will be yours I belive.

A warning though: We capricorns don´t talk about our feelings. If he feels like you´re smothering him he will one day just leave without a word and never come back. You will wonder what happened, but to capricorn it is totally normal, because he showed you through his behaviour how he felt and you didn´t listen - just continued being insensetive and pushing it. That can make a capricorn very very angry. Capricorns are sexually drawn to leo - but we resent leos possesiveness and need for intimacy, because we think that leo is being a big parasite, always putting themselves first.
That´s why I say - be very careful faith. If you just keep pushing it and being immature, no matter how much he loves you, this cap day he´ll disspear without a trace and you wont see him no more in this lifetime.
6/18/2010 1:19:33 PM | More
lionessrujy

welcome to the club of leo-cap misery sorry but i remembered my story with that cap. i've known him for 3 years.then i just exploded after my long patience and broke up with him...it all started after i was suffering from the betrayal of my ex boyfriend and my best friend i was so depressed and spent a long time talking to no one,seeing no one,,and crying. he grabbed the chance of my emotional instability,which turned out to be his way to get closer to me, and offered me his friendship.maybe we were both thinking that we were only brother and sister for sometime,but things change. you surely know how kind caps are.they are warm, open hearted, child-inside, spontaneous,,,,and GOOD LISTENERS!!!right? he stood by my side,we worked together,he helped me in every bit of my needs,except my emotional ones.i discovered that he thinks work=love!!!!. i loved him so much and was ready to be beside him as his sister,gf,lover,anything but only to be there and give him my compassion.
here come the drawbacks: leo woman is full of unbounded love and passion and affection though may not show it directly...but i did everything a lover could do to make him respond....he is soooooo unresponsive which mase me get on my nerves. caps are so preserved and dont show their emotions.i see him only being superficial to me,one time he made me fly by saying "u are the love of my life" then he tells me"i was having an emotional bout!!""we are brother and sister". guess what i didnt leave him:S he kept hurting me one time after another till i was totally full of hatered just as much as i loved him i gave him gifts.he was happy but not as i expected...he never wore them even!
6/18/2010 1:29:37 PM | More
lionessrujy

he acted as if he was the only pole of the relation.took decisions about us by himself,and treated me as he wanted the relation to be,,,never mind what i think or feel...how ignorant??!!! when he decided something serious-to be my husband- he began acting as such.i felt totally imprisoned inside him and finally was suffocating.i broke up with him and had a new relation which wasnt prosperous either.as he used to be my friend i told him everything and as usual,never found the reaction that satisfies my heart. i am so demanding and he wasnt so generous emotionally! again, he took a chance of my broken heart and asked to marry me..things went on but i was sober again faced by his materialistic nature in every detail of our engagement....offffffff. nvr regret i left him really for me capps suck!!love for a leo woman is a higher feeling that cant be materialized,it is giving and making the other as happy as possible,to live passion and taste life as it should be.to them it is just to get married , have a home, eat good, AND HAVE CHILDREN!

6/18/2010 1:32:17 PM | More
lionessrujy

he is nowadays trying to get married to another girl,a leo too, he is in the state of getting married, she's still in the state of happiness to be in love...but i am sure... God be with her..
i think capps have a mating season,,dont they?? really no offence but i analyse that fact.
6/18/2010 1:33:38 PM | More
lionessrujy

please runnnnnnnnnnnnnn for your safety,before you are broken to death.
6/18/2010 6:23:32 PM | More
july66

This is the first time with a Cap man and I a Leo woman. Its very slow but I like it because I recently divorced and taking time to really get to know him is what I want right know. I can say he is a really good friend. We talk for hours on the phone and we have lunch and he calls and texts constantly. I usually be the one to be the agressor but I've learned in past relationships that moving too fast can be the wrong thing to do if you want a real relationship. Over the past year I noticed he has really opened up to me.

Faithgolphin I know we Leos can be very impatient at times but since I've been with my Cappy I wouldn't say its difficult its a challenge though lol. I don't initiate a whole lot of calling or texting because I am just trying to see where his head is. I care about him a whole lot but he is not the one to tell me how he feels he shows it through his actions. I try not to push anything I just go with the flow I like the fact when i don't call him for a day and my phone is ringing off the hook. This Cap man has grown on me, he is a wonderful and caring MAN.
6/19/2010 4:36:44 AM | More
lionessrujy

lool girl in black.
i agree thatleos are not so selfless
".....Sounds to me like the meaning of "higher love" to you is to find somebody who can be your little puppet that you can control any way you want.." he was actually my puppet!!he was happy with that,i was happy too and felt so strong to have the upper hand. but i didnt like to play the leader for a long time

if"higher love" was not mutual,then you are surching for torture of mind and soul. i had that feeling of loving everything about him even i know he wasnt perfect ,i loved him and i was so devoted.but how can love live and persist if what you find is nothing but coldness??"relative to leos fiery nature of course"
i finally reached with him that each has his own way of expressing love...still didnt change that i cant withstand him.


6/19/2010 4:40:27 AM | More
lionessrujy

just gotta note that despite everything i admit he is the best friend i have ever had.....and i appreciate cap female friends too

7/17/2010 5:01:08 PM | More
1goodluck

28 years old female

faith$golphin,
i'm sure you've come across my thread about me (leo) and a cappie guy.
we dated for maybe 2-3 months. he was a very good communicator, very courteous, very attentive. he would call me basically every day;always made sure to be there if i needed help. we went on little trips together;went shopping together. we pretty much spent fridays/ saturdays together. he met a bunch of my friends. i met his friends. his mom was making suggestions in terms of my further education etc..he would tell me intimate things blah blah blah UNTIL HE DISAPPEARED one day AND NEVER CALLED ME BACK AGAIN lol.


again, we were NOT "in a relationship". technically he had every right to do that, but i was still stunned. and since leos tend to be a little possessive, while realizing we'r not an item, i still thought he was kinda mine. before we had sex for the first time, i asked him if he was sleeping with other women and stuff like that.


overall, he was a very very good bf material. two things i didn't like though: 1) not the best sex, and he would get tense if i tried something new or switched things around which made me in turn feel very uncomfortable. 2) he had less balls than me, and i'd often feel i would want a guy with stronger presence who would be able to take the lead with me ( which is difficult but still doable). i realize i am younger than you, and we might have different goals related to dating, but i just wanted to share my expereince.
my resolution after this one was to not do FWB or "flings" anymore. i think i want a "relationship" relationship .

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