WHY Leo men are so hard to be with...

11/18/2007 11:45:40 PM | More
didi666

38 years old female

Hey all,
i am still hooked on that Leo guy (http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=1107951)
The more and more i dig into Leos i find that it is VERY hard to be in a relationship with one...
this guy is driving me NUTS, we agreed to be friends as he wants to be in my life in what ever shape or form...and i accepted and acted based on that...then he gets mad coz i am not treating him as beofre and he does not like moody ppl and wants to be treated the same way (he means the way he likes it) i am so tired and my heart is aching so much..i wanna go through myself in his arms but my pride is keeping me...
i want to make him happy coz he makes me so happy or made me!!!!

LEO men, give us a break and just open up...life is too short..

Peace,
Didi
11/19/2007 10:37:22 AM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

didi continue to treat him as a friend, he's not as upset as you think he is, if you chased him, he would run, he's jus being him, let him be whatever he chooses to be at any given time, don't take on his emotions and moods as yours, if he's mad, let him be mad, he likes chasing or he wouldn't have agreed to be only friends...he will flip flop back and forth b/c he may have some committment issues, don't allow it to drive you crazy, you can't control him but you can control YOU, I would suggest and its only a suggestion you really need to distance yourself, miss a few phone calls and focus on you and your needs.
11/19/2007 10:41:42 AM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

also he's not opening up b/c you have placed too much focus and emphasis on HIM, he's not committed and your NEED for him to be a particular way is causing unnecessary pain and drama, simply stop caring, be indifferent to anything he's saying and doing, eventually he will feel safe enough to reveal his issues with you, right now your going to get nothing, way too emotional and your way too into him, predictable equals boring, stop being an open book and he will at some point gain some interest in your feelings.
11/21/2007 5:19:26 AM | More
didi666

38 years old female

Thanks guys,
you are the best, i went a long with your advises and it WORKs....u r all great but to tell u the truth, now that i ve slowed down..i feel i am not interested as much as before (its a Gemini thing i guess) however, i thinks its just my pride talking i melt when i see his no but i have missed more than 4 calls, and 2 sms by the time i called back he was on fire but i was busy
thanks again, you are all awesome
10/15/2011 5:35:58 PM | More
GAGA

115 years old

THIS is the best advice i have heard in a long time on here, same situation with mine, we are just freinds, as soon as i dont text call etc, he comes crawlng,

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