are leo men emotionally fickle?

I feel he thinks your desperate, has you where he wants you, pining for him, hanging on every word...blah.
cut him loose, if all the amazind dead on advice above didnt open your eyes, then, actually you ARE desperate.
You said your attractive & get hit on?
Go on a real date with kissing, hand holding, eye contact, be done with dating your computer, cause your leo...he is seeing other people. HE IS, I would bet my life on it.

Metoo

7/18/2012 1:15:06 PM | IP

seraph

7/18/2012 11:57:34 AM | IP

35 years old male from Canada

First Decan, Mercurial and Venusian Leo.

Of course we aren't fickle!

We're quite steady and constant, like the Northern Star, and our involvement runs very deep, so how can you even imply tha . . .

I'm not into this thread anymore, bye.

leoliza

7/18/2012 11:48:46 AM | IP

27 years old female

Dream Machine. HTM

yikes i just read that skype convo. first of all, trust little a man puts into text...it's a lazy form of communication. actions are most important. and he suddenly falls asleep when you ask if you are his gf? COME ON. A) that's a lie or B) he's clearly not that entertained by the conversation. He is stringing you along for an ego boost fyi.

are leo men such cowards that they can't man up and tell his poor girl the truth?
are they so cruel that they rather have the girl hang high and dry with a broken heart... never knowing exactly what happened? no closure, no answers?

to answer your questions: no leo MEN are not these things. operative word: men. Leo boys...and any immature man will do all of these things. they do not know they are being cruel, they are just impulsive and very SELFISH. the leo BOY i was once with did come over to give me closure. he was caring, but selfish, and very very confused. so i wrote the ending and he sat patiently and supportively as i did so. he could not end it, or begin it, bc he didn't know what he wanted or how he felt...couldn't express it, or didn't want to. You as a woman, can feel when a man is not into you. And Leo men are VERY obvious when they are into you. No confusion there. Cut the cord girl...you're leading yourself on at this point!

leoliza

7/18/2012 11:42:08 AM | IP

27 years old female

Dream Machine. HTM

Honestly, genesis dominates the advice. i couldn't say it better than her. she's got it all down. this dude doesn't care about you really. you've made yourself a bit too available OR maybe it has nothing to do with you! Maybe these are HIS ISSUES. Maybe he's a jerk ! Maybe he has commitment issues! Who freaking knows. You can't change him, only yourself. Bottom line: he's not making you happy...he's not what you want/need. Be strong enough to rebuild yourself and pull out. A good man won't make you wonder so much. Don't beat yourself up. I just learned this lesson the hard way. There's a great book called :men who can't love i would suggest reading. It's really helps you prevent situations like this from going down...and teaches you to react counter intuitively to your female instincts..which ultimately drive him away. Work on yourself. You are wonderful regardless of what some dumb guy thinks! You define who you are not him. It's his loss! Be done with him. Or go through the motions. I wanted to reach out to my lame ex but I kept myself from doing it. I actually took my friends advice (most of it haha) and now I'm soooooooooooooo glad I didn't embarrass myself further over some lame dude that doesn't know what he wants!

tiki33

7/13/2012 10:40:39 PM | IP

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

The one most important thing you're not expressing is CONFIDENCE, a Queen attitude, deserving of his love attitude and not having that can make a lion feel unsure/insecure about giving his energy to the relationship. You can't make him feel like he's more important than you and yet you have to find balance as to stroke him a little to create a stronger bond but the doormat behavior/communication will only create emotional/mental distance between the both of you.

We don't know if he's a hunter/Alpha that eats and keeps and protect his territory and everything in his territory or a lazy kitty that hunts sleeps and plays with his food....You may have a lazy kitty on your hands so you'll have to stop being so whiney/fragile/unsure and fragile and be a bit more secure and FIRM with your lion.

Jynja

7/13/2012 7:02:08 PM | IP

Cool Calm Confident

Sigh, that got posted before I was ready.

But anyways, I just meant to add that: sometimes, to protect himself, he'll fall out of love with you because he suspects you've fallen out of love with him. If you get too critical, he goes on the defensive, suppressing his natural playfulness, and sometimes that is all he needs to look elsewhere.

Jynja

7/13/2012 6:51:20 PM | IP

Cool Calm Confident

Posted by 321654

I couldn't take it any more and confronted him.
Me: It might be crazy for me to ask but, are you seeing someone else?
Him: no, what do you think I am?
Me: I just do... maybe because I think you don't like me very much
Him: What did I ever say or do to make you feel that way?
Me: you didn't say anything, it is just a feeling that I have
Him: So you don't want to see each other? Want me to leave you alone?
Me: I want to be with you, just that I feel you don't feel the same
Him: I'm sorry you feel that way?
Me: I need to know if you still love me
Him: sorry, still do
Me: Really?
Him: yes
Me: I don't want to be led on, I don't want to waste anyone's time. I need to know so I can move on.
Me: Do you still think of me as your girlfriend?"
(40mins pause. He fell asleep then woke up)
Him: Yes, I do want you as my girlfriend. Sorry I fell asleep
Me: If you are up for a little while, do you want to skype for a bit?
Him: Its ok baby, I miss you too. (I don't know for sure what he meant yes or no, so I logged on to skype)
Waited for 10 mins, he didn't come on...
Me: I guess I miss-understood, i guess some other time.. good night
Logged off broken hearted.

At morning, he sent a note to say he is thinking of me, want me as his gf, sorry to keep falling asleep and missing me, it is just him being tired and not because he didn't want me. I wrote just "ok" but I still have a bad feeling.

Am I pa

Damn, I thought I was the only one that did that.

I'm sorry about the way this man has treated you. Living with a Leo nephew, having a Leo step dad, Leo half sister, 2 gay Leo neighbors and my Leo ex turned advisor, may I say I know the Leo man? It's never easy being with a man like that. He requires a woman who is all feminine but strong enough to hunt and fend for the cubs. Even in a long distance relationship, he would stay true to you if he feels you're his. He's possessive and loyal just like that. But he easily gets bored and requires a firm hand to navigate. I think ignoring a man works on all men - but sometimes the Leo man picks up on the vibe that you are ignoring him. He's not emotionless or ruthless as so many cut him out to be... he's just a man after all.

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