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mzpennaye
8/15/2012 5:57:40 PM | IP

if anyone can advice me, that’d be great. WARNING: this is kind of long lol



My friend and I have been friends since the 10th grade. But became very close in the 11th and 12th grade. he had a few crushes on me and I had like him as well. but neither of us didn’t want to say anything. and it wasn’t obvious for people to detect. we just secretly knew we liked each other. but it was always an off and on thing for the both of us. so before graduation I had wrote in his yearbook that I had a crush on him. so after that day, after declaring his feelings for me as well, we had ended up talking mornings, afternoons and nights leading in the mornings. after a week later I started chilling at his house. and we became sexually involved. mind you, we never went on a date or went out physically and he even said to keep that fact that we're involved between us. He's a musician which means he travels a lot. so after a month and a half later he got extremely busy and I kind of got impatient because we weren’t official. and I was wondering why is he taking so long to deicide. so during his tour he started telling me that he’s partying with different girls and that has ex came with him on tour and a bunch of crazy stuff. and im thinking he’s only said that to have me end it with him. and when I did he was mad chill about it and said "if that’s what you want". so I trashed his name on facebook saying stuff like "I’ll find someone better" and a whole bunch of stuff that kind of hurt him I guess.So about 2 months went by and because we were close friends I couldn’t let our friendship die so I started to talk to him. and it was as if nothing happened. he ignored the past completely and actually had hooked up with somebody. and told me all about it, basically bragged. and yes I was hurt. but that helped me get over him. after his bragging we had talked day after day after day. mostly at night though then it was switch to afternoon and nights. we would spend hours on the phone and I starting wondering if he really had a girlfriend.
mzpennaye
8/15/2012 5:58:37 PM | IP

so in mid June I had asked him a favor and he agreed to help me out. but when I called him he ignored me for days. I cursed him out and told him if he didn’t want to help out he should have said no. he then told me one of his friend died which I thought he was lying. he could of at least told me since we were close friends that something came up and that’s what ended our friendship. after a couple of days I apologized but he didn’t respond. so its been about 2 months since we've spoke.

I just want some advice on this. cuz I think I had did something wrong and its completely my fault. and also how do Leos act as far as in relationships. if they don’t want to be with the person anymore, will they actually say so. Cuz he did it by telling me he was with a bunch of girls and his ex. so I just need to know how they are. and as a true Scorpio, I insist on finding out what’s really going on.
Huntress
8/17/2012 10:39:37 AM | IP
Huntress

from New England  US  

Lioness, lunar Scorp, & hedonistic. INTP

'I trashed his name'

Best way to lose respect from a Leo. Hope he doesn't miss you!
Mufasa
8/22/2012 11:15:59 PM | IP

16 years old male

Posted by Huntress
'I trashed his name'

Best way to lose respect from a Leo. Hope he doesn't miss you!


t(>, Your in deep doodoo on that part. :c
Give him a gift.... that always works for me, no matter who its from ;D hehehe.
As far as I know, all the crap IVE read in books said Leos easily forgive(really, I do. But I think that's a bit
General, right?)
callmegenesis
8/24/2012 10:12:16 PM | IP
callmegenesis

I am a Libra and I have never thrown a tantrum, at least in my adult years.
WoundedLeo
8/24/2012 11:37:50 PM | IP
WoundedLeo

female from Europe  

Rising Sign is in 22 Degrees Libra

I'm a Leo and I don't like to lie. However, if and when I do or have lied, it's with the true intent of protecting someone I care about... never ever with the intent of hurting them or pulling the wool over their eyes.

If I don't care about the person, then there's no reason to lie about anything. Saying "get lost" is easy when you don't care what the effect will be.

Furthermore, balling a Leo out is a sure fire way to get yourself in deep doo-doo, as someone above said so eloquently. Leos get hurt easily, especially if we are blamed for something that we didn't do or did out of caring.

In general, Leos don't hold grudges because it hurts them more than it hurts the other person involved in the grudge.

My advice is: Apologize sincerely and acknowledge that you over reacted. Do this in writing through an email, letter, or card. Suggest a meeting to discuss the issues that are bothering you and allow him to give you a good place and time to talk.

Good luck!

P.S. A scorpio sting can mortally wound a Leo, so please don't use that stinger unless you're 100% sure of what you're doing!
Mufasa
8/25/2012 5:49:02 PM | IP

16 years old male

Posted by callmegenesis
I am a Libra and I have never thrown a tantrum, at least in my adult years.



I thought "Tantrum-Throwing" was more of a Leo than a Libra thing XD
xxnightbynight
8/26/2012 2:10:58 AM | IP
xxnightbynight

female from United States  

|Sun|Aries |ASC|Cancer |Moon|Scorp |J

Posted by Mufasa
Posted by callmegenesis
I am a Libra and I have never thrown a tantrum, at least in my adult years.



I thought "Tantrum-Throwing" was more of a Leo than a Libra thing XD


I think it's a fire sign thing. ha
seraph
8/26/2012 9:48:30 AM | IP
seraph

35 years old male from Canada  

First Decan, Mercurial and Venusian Leo.

Posted by xxnightbynight
Posted by Mufasa
Posted by callmegenesis
I am a Libra and I have never thrown a tantrum, at least in my adult years.



I thought "Tantrum-Throwing" was more of a Leo than a Libra thing XD


I think it's a fire sign thing. ha


Indeed.

Pro tip: It's better to break things outside rather than inside. Keep clear of others.

 

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