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31 years old male
| whatcha lookin worried about this mothertreetrunker for? dont you have enough guys chasing you... |
female
| Yes girly, dont make excuses for his behavior. You both hurt each other, tis true, however he left you hanging some time ago, so he is responsible. |
35 years old male from Canada
First Decan, Mercurial and Venusian Leo.
Posted by ianthepisces In a nutshell: - He's the one that *didn't* fall for her and lose his head, and he eventually dropped her, and *then* erased her. Charm + A.s.s.hole. It's a wickedly effective combination. - This sends her into doubt/fear/confusion mode: "omg is it ME?? What's wrong with ME?? I can get any man I want! So wha'happen??" - Her interest level skyrockets because a) he's not like all the others - he's a challenge - and b) she now needs *his* validation of her charm/sexiness/beauty/self-worth over all others. Best thing to do is WALK, and not get sucked into the above (often sadly inevitable) scenario any further. |
Scorpio by trait Sun Scorpio Moon Tau
| nice advice seraph. I would have done same 5 years ago. Today, I like to live up to my Scorpioness. I'd create an account on FB with similar to your name he blocked. I'd send him an email by writing whatever I would like to say`-- go crazy! This will be a one-of-a-chance dumping. Empty it all and dump the butter onto him, then BLOCK! Done. Dust of your hands. If you wait for the right moment, you will always remember this dumbbutter thinking what you could have said. |
words fail me
| seraph: you're kind of right but kind of very wrong too. my issue with the leo was that he was the first man i trusted to be intimate with in FOUR YEARS since my marriage broke up. he presented himself as being trustworthy and SINGLE and so, i was ready to rock. fact of the matter was that he wasn't prepared for his ex to want him back. what's wrong with that? why does that make him a bad person? yeah, it was insensitively dealt with from my point of view but even the blocking i understood cos if i was his ex, i wouldn't let him alone for five minutes if he'd been seeing someone like me. even men i don't know very well are told to remove or block me on fb. it's ridiculous but i put it down to being in my 40s and people of my age are mostly holding on to their relationships for all they're worth cos it's the decade where they seem to mostly fall apart. fum. remember i am a mutant scorpio and i don't really have the revenge gene. things happen, people get hurt. i've hurt people myself but i would never have the guts to contact them at some point in the future as i would asssume i was hated and reviled. i think the leo, being a man, is obviously obvlivious to having done anything wrong or perhaps assumes instant forgiveness which is another male trait. i'm going to hear him out at some point. like i said before, it wasn't like we were married for years or anything! we had just started seeing eachother and so i don't think there's anything wrong with resuming that if he does happen to be single again cos that's the only basis i'm prepared to proceed on. i have seen other men and they've been nice guys (apart from the psycho sag) but my heart wasn't in it. i'm a slow burning persn when it comes to love and i had only slightly defrosted for the leo before it went tits up. it's not about guys throwing themselves at me and thinking i'm all that either cos guys pretty much say anything to get you in the sack. i saw an aqua at the weekend and he was saying what a great body i have. i said i worked hard to get it and he said i was being really boastful. i said it was confidence and he should know the difference cos i really believe...as i tell my daughter to....that there is absolutely nothing wrong in acknowledging and celebrating that you have great hair or great skin as long as you don't walk around deluding yourself that you're completely perfect!! men expect you to feel validated by their compliments. it's called CONTROL! |
female from Europe
Rising Sign is in 22 Degrees Libra
Posted by celticlioness Ain't that the truth though?! |
female from Europe
Rising Sign is in 22 Degrees Libra
Posted by seraph So sad, but so true Seraph. What you've said just makes me want to ball my eyes out because I think it speaks to the majority of us females. |
female from Europe
Rising Sign is in 22 Degrees Libra
Posted by FUM Why oh why was I not born Scorpio?! Being a Leo with too much Cancer sucks the big banana :-( |
words fail me
| woundedleo: perhaps what seraph said is true in some cases but i have not once thought along the lines of is it me? what did i do?? i'm not a teenager and i know myself and all my strengths and weaknesses and I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG and i NEVER took on board that i did! i was upset cos he broke my trust before we'd even started and yeah, that's a HUGE red flag but like i said, we weren't married and hadn't been dating that long. i'm not one to sit at home festering over what i could have done differently cos i know that i would have done everything the same all over again. him going back to his ex was nothing to do with me doing or saying something wrong. like i said in another thread, it takes longer for feelings for an ex to die than it does to develop feelings for someone new. fum...he has obviously stopped the block as i can see his profile now. i'm not into playing blocking/unfriending games on fb either...i leave that to the adolescents, lol. |
words fail me
Posted by seraphPosted by ianthepisces wow seraph...you have absolutely no clue what i'm like at all. doubt/fear/confusion??? i think not. pissed offness/hurt/humiliation...yeah, that's more like it but you will notice that those are not directed towards myself. i know my worth to the centimo and i don't need validation from any other person on the planet. that may sound arrogant but to be honest, if i didn't feel this way at my age, all the bad experiences that got me to here would've been a waste of time. as far as i was concerned, it was always his loss. i've still not responded. not even sure i'm gonna yet. |
words fail me
ok. i've decided to ignore and que sera, sera. sorted  |
female
No reply? Damn...  My scorp moon would never be able to do that. But I respect your strength to do it. It prob is very much the right thing to do to take care of yourself. Bravo to you. The question is....will you hear from him again? hmmmm... |
female from Europe
Rising Sign is in 22 Degrees Libra
| Rig, I didn't actually mean to imply that you did anything wrong at all. I was merely admiring the insight of several contributors here. I wish that I personally could take those insights and incorporate them into my modus operandi, but with my personality and level of sensitivity, it's difficult, alas. If anything, I feel for you that you still harbor some attachment to Mr. Knobhead. I also admire your level of confidence and apparent level headedness. So I meant no offense at all. |
words fail me
omg woman! absolutely no offence was take!! i'm like teflon...nothing sticks  bgp. well, i thought about it and there's still too much assumption going on in my mind. he's never actually told me ANYTHING about his relationship status and so as far as i am concerned, until he sent his message yesterday, i STILL had no clue what really happened cos he didn't have the balls to tell me. so, now i see his status on facebook, i'm kinda taking offence by the whole thing now. what is he thinking of contacting me when he's officially with someone else?!?!? i dunno if i'll hear from him aqain but i figure that if he is serious, he'll make it known by trying harder. i want to prevent myself hanging around for his response to whatever i would've decided to reply with and i can't be ARSED to get myself in that ridiculous headspin all over again. got too much going on in other aspects of my life. your scorpio moon will also be shocked to hear that i haven't gone through his wall and his friends list to see if his ex is still on the scene or to check what kind of comments he's been making recently and i guess if the block is off, that would all be available to me. i'm not strong enough to snoop. the only time in my life i snooped on someone...my ex husband...the one time i checked his phone...i found at text from his lover. so on that basis, i'm only going to delve as deep as the FACTS that are presented to me. and the one fact i know about the knobhead is that to the world of facebook and presumably everyone in real, his status is in a relationship and so i'm not prepared to let him re-open the wound and i am certainly NOT prepared to just pick up where we left off with no mention of the knobbish behaviour that earned him his nickhame. i never make the same mistake twice. besides, i only want him back if i am the centre of his universe cos i won't put any man in the centre of mine without it being a two way exchange. i am woman, hear me ROOOOOOOOAR!! (lol) |
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