|Hey Libra's! I was wondering something... I'm a Saggie girl and have recently began dating a Libra man.. I just dipped my toe back into the dating world after a very painful breakup with a Scorio Ex of two years. |
So anywho, my Libra is an absolute sweetheart. We met online, and by the end of our first conversation were beyond excited to meet each other. We met a few days later. First date was awesomely awesome. We get along really well.. we talked about EVERYTHING. At one point I even found myself talking about my EX (yes on the first date.. SHAME ON ME!) However, my Libra wanted to hear it and kept coaxing more info out of me. Ultimately it really did help talking about the break up and I was very grateful he was so willing to listen.
By the end of the first date, he told me that he had waited a very long time to meet me, we spent time together back at my place and it was an amazing night. I honestly felt as if I'd known him for a very long time. It was really cool.
A few evenings later I drove to his neck of the woods and went to hear him do an open mic thingy (he has an amazing singing voice).. and YES, he serenaded me, and it was all kinds of awesome. I met some of his friends, and they already knew a lot about me. I'm a people person and absolutely adored his friends and had an amazing night getting to know them.
That evening I stayed over with him and while we were lying in his bed talking.. he dropped the L bomb on me. He told me he loved me. To which I responded, "you don't even know me"... I didn't know what to think. In the short time we've known each other, we have talked about so many things. He has been single for awhile, but has been actively dating. And I've only been single for a few months. But I feel so at peace when I am with him, and he is without a doubt the nicest and sweetest man I have ever met and I really enjoy my time with him. Sadly though, I know I am not yet completely healed from my last relationship, and he knows this. His feelings for me seem very sincere, but it just boggles my mind that he has only had me in his life for 10 days, yet he feels strongly that I am "the one"..
So I'm just curious, have any of you Librans ever experienced falling in love so quickly with someone you've only just met.. or is the new Libra in my life just in love with being in love perhaps?
Thanks for reading!
Do Libran Men Fall In Love Relatively Quickly?
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|Thanks Q... I really appreciate the insight! :-)|
|Take it with a grain of salt.|
He's in "love." Not Love. He THINKS he is. I wouldn't be surprised if he back pedaled in a few weeks/months' time.
Regardless of sign, any guy who moves that fast- slam on those brakes and reevaluate. It's never a good sign when either gender moves that fast. They either retreat as quickly as they moved in, or that relationship could get really messy very quickly because of unresolved issues of whatever (which is what makes them move so fast to begin with).
Remember, this is the honeymoon phase. It's going to be all wonderful and amazing. I think Libras forget this and when butter gets real, they back pedal. Reality isn't their friend sometimes.
|Thanks Rocky! Yeah, trying to take it with a grain of salt..ha ha.. Whenever he tells me he Loves me its the most awkward feeling ever.. I'm just like "uh, thank you?". LOL..|
I enjoy hanging with him, as he is a really cool guy.. But this "love thing" is ruining it for me. Too much too soon for this girl...
I don't even feel like we're in the honeymoon stages yet, I'm still getting to know him and just really like "hanging out" with him. I thought about it a lot today and I think it is probably best that I stop seeing him. I can't give him what he needs as I'm not in any way ready to be in love with anyone right now, and definitely not this quickly. I don't even want a relationship right now, my last one was such a roller coaster ride... I reminded him today that I'm still dating others as I want to enjoy singlegirl-dom for awhile, he looked so friggin' hurt, like I kicked him in the head with a steel toe boot... It was so uncomfortable. I hate hurting nice people.
I wish he could just chill on the love stuff so we could just enjoy each others company, but sadly he is running me off.
Thanks for the honest feedback!
|Libra males are notorious for being the ultimate lover in the honeymooner phase, which is what gets the women hooked on them like cocaine. They are the perfect lover out of the women's fairytale romance novels. However, this lover phase lasts a short time because the quicker a libra falls in love or the more perfect he is in the Initial phase, the quicker the perfect romance is going to come to a halt. This will be when he disappears after giving you a glimpse of perfect love. Then, you will return on these forum to cuss off libra men. Lol. Hopefully it doesn't happen like I'm predicting.|
Posted by rockyroadicecream
I just read this gold of a post after typing mine. Damn! Should've read this first because then I could have just said +1.
Posted by SaggieGirl4Realz
NP. Honesty benefits way better than some of the fluffy crap that some around here are notorious for. This ain't a movie, it's real life.
I hear you though. I went through something in the initial stages with a Libra ex. I wasn't AS turned off as you were in regard to a relationship, just wanted to take things slow. Yet he still did pursue quite strongly. They go after what they think they want with some crazy intensity.
In your situation, stepping back and letting yourself have some downtime is a good thing. If things between you two are meant to ever work out, you two can revisit it later on. However, chances are that Romeo here will find a new girl to temporarily obsess over.
Also, in regard to your current emotional situation, get away from the dating pool. Casual or not, if it's only been a few months since the break up of such a long relationship, just focus on you. Going out and dating casually may not work in your favor. One, YOU may get hooked up on someone without intending to, which will get messy since you haven't emotionally healed from current issues. And two, you'll come across situations like this. Girls aren't the only ones who tune out what they don't want to hear when someone tells them they aren't into serious relationships atm... So many people go on about how dating is a way to get over someone, but not really. Sometimes you're better off going solo for awhile in order to recoup. You'll know when you're ready.
Posted by aquarius09
|ACK! That posted WAY wrong! |
LMAO Aqua.. no way! I'd never cuss of Libra's every one I've dated has been awesome.. it's Scorpio men that I cuss off... as they flock to me like flies on poop, dating a Libra is nice for a change. I've dated a few. (I should mention I'm in my late 30's..)
And Rocky, I LOVE your advice! I actually really enjoy the company of men (and women)a great deal. My last relationship was very unique in that I had a great deal of time to myself. I adored my space as did he. Neither of us were looking for someone to complete us.. just enhance our downtime. So I am lucky in that I have always had ample time to myself to just reflect and "do me" while we were together. I've been to the rodeo a few times and "love" just isn't my priority. Having a cool fun activity partner is pretty much all I want as I'm very focused on my career for the next two years. Which is what I told the Libra this morning. He called me and said to me this morning.. "you complete me, I love you".. and I told him.. "I need you to go and take some time to complete yourself, then come back and see me when you're done.. I can't give you what you need that way.. I never will be able to.. it is not now, nor will it ever be me, you do not know me, slow the f*** down handsome, I like having fun with you, but this is WAY too much for me, and I'm kind of ready to change my email and phone number LOL..".. I made him get all teary eyed and stuff.
It was heartbreaking.. but he needed to hear it. And I have a feeling my resistance will only make him try harder.. meh.. we'll see.
You peeps on this message board are really cool... thank you so much for offering me such interesting insight! I really enjoyed this!
|love is for the weak|
|Oy vey, I think you've just described what I had with a Libra male for the past 2 weeks. It was intense, he is very persistent, very charming, shared all about his past, is constantly blown by how we clicked.|
Then 2 nights ago, poofed!
I felt him switched gears and I knew he didn't feel the same anymore. I just let it be, of course. I've deleted off his number and chalked it up to 3 week 'romance'.
I was very cautious so I wasn't invested from the get go. But I gotta say why women would fall for their charm. They are great communicators and very attentive. Our conversations lasts for hours and there's always so much to talk about. When he looks at me, it's like I'm the only person that matter to him and his smile...well you girls know what I'm talking about.
Good luck Saggie Girl!