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everevolvingepithet
10/10/2011 4:29:44 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

113 years old from Monkey Fonics,Facilitator,Smart Arse  

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*tokes on pipe*
everevolvingepithet
10/10/2011 4:29:30 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

113 years old from Monkey Fonics,Facilitator,Smart Arse  

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As per the o.p though, with the marriage thing does he have any intentions of marrying anyone though ?
If so/not then what are his actual thoughts on eternal union, with or without the contract, so to speak ?
everevolvingepithet
10/10/2011 4:27:27 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

113 years old from Monkey Fonics,Facilitator,Smart Arse  

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^Typing that made me feel a bit Sherlock Holmesy, and yes my replies are sometimes elementary too, arf arf.
everevolvingepithet
10/10/2011 4:26:33 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

113 years old from Monkey Fonics,Facilitator,Smart Arse  

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AAhhh fellow Truth bringer, we're only hearing one side of the story though.
everevolvingepithet
10/10/2011 4:23:13 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

113 years old from Monkey Fonics,Facilitator,Smart Arse  

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She can't be that easy if it ldr though surely ?
Inertia1128
10/10/2011 4:06:21 AM | IP
Inertia1128



curious Sagittarius

you are right blueribbons, the real question is if I could make him alter his decisions once I did it with him. I was thinking if we did have sex again maybe he will remember how he had loved me the first time and that he would stop flirting with other women if he gets in touch with our sensual/emotional partnership in bed.
everevolvingepithet
10/10/2011 3:15:49 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

113 years old from Monkey Fonics,Facilitator,Smart Arse  

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Ok, 'hun' shouldn't be in his vocabulary unless he's taking the piss but if your lsi (google it, it's an old shamen-istical thing) is worth the LDR then I think there's more to it.
But seriously, 'hun' ? :/
I shall add more in due course but for now I must alight !!
Inertia1128
10/10/2011 3:11:05 AM | IP
Inertia1128



curious Sagittarius

To clear things up, me and libra were in a committed relationship before. He loved me and showed his love in a lot of ways, I believe he was genuine about it for more than a year. As I have said, on our second year his love for me fizzled out because I was too overbearing and jealous of his friends. He constantly chats with some of them and they are his friends for several years now, some of them he admitted that he flirts by saying hun, and even sent hugs and kisses their way as they chat. I got jealous on how he treats them, librans are sometimes too friendly to a point were they don't realize they might be giving wrong signals to the opposite sex. Add to that most of his friends are female, and that was where my issues come from. He got annoyed when I tried to control him by telling him not to chat with his friends and that he should limit it to once a week at least. And there are other issues that I have raised that his friends are just using him for their financial gain, but at some point he justified why they are behaving that way.

With all the things I have said about his friends and me trying to control him to limit his communication with them so that he won't be used up for their gain had backfired on me. He told me that I am just overly zealous and that I wanted him only for myself and that he told me that I don't understand that his relationship with his friends has a long history more than he had ever known me.
Inertia1128
10/10/2011 12:28:29 AM | IP
Inertia1128



curious Sagittarius

Thanks for responding, I knew that I was really the one to blame when I ended up to be too controlling and overly jealous of what he does. And he is clear on this, that he will not be in this kind of relationship if I'm like an insecure freak. On the one hand, I knew that I'm like being considered as an option...
Inertia1128
10/9/2011 11:58:31 PM | IP
Inertia1128



curious Sagittarius

I was in a committed LDR with a Libra man for more than a year, on our second year we were on an off and on relationship because he finds me too controlling and jealous with his friends. Few months ago he decided that we better stay as friends instead and that being in a relationship would only cause fights and arguments between us on the issue on how he treats his friends. Recently he is on a visit, he met with me and was still clear on the status of our relationship...that it's best if we stay on as friends and that he is clear on the fact that he has no plans of marrying me. He said he is too afraid that we end up in arguments each time I find something wrong about him. But on the sex part we knew that we both like the idea of having a good sex with a partner, and we are just strongly compatible with each other sexually but emotionally he said he is not into me as much as I am into him. We had mind-blowing sex recently and so far he said he had never done it with anyone except me and is not even looking around to have it with others.

I found out too that he still continues to flirt with some friends verbally on-line, when I asked him about it he said that I knew of it and that he admitted to me before that he is a big flirt but it doesn't mean that he is sleeping around with anyone he flirts and that flirting to him is just an art of communication. From how I see it we had turned out to be friends with benefits but he knew that I am holding on to our relationship cause I still love him. He said he has the love for me but marriage between us is a remote possibility. I'm confused I don't know if staying in the relationship and changing my ways could even change his mind.

 

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