I am a Scorpio woman having an affair with a Libra man . His wife is seriously disabled. It started because he seemed to need me so much. That was ten years ago. In all of this time I never put any demands on him, accepted that our time was limited because we are both professional people by day who have commitments in our personal lives. He gradually fell in love with me, and my love responded to the love in him. The sex was awesome. We had little time together once per week but when we were together, we were very happpy , lighthearted and deeply in love. Our relationship gave us both the strength to face our lives apart from one another.
What went wrong? I developed a crisis in my life of the most serious nature. The last time I saw my Libra man, after we made love, I broke down sobbing. I felt that I could not tell him. He said, "We will talk about this next week" in a manly, firm way as if "this conversation in which you get to tell me what's wrong IS going to happen next week." I was relieved.
So then I started cleaning my house, fixing it up, setting the stage for our conversation, making the atmosphere right, with clean house, fresh flowers, ...
Then on the morning that he has always come for over 10 years, he didn't come.
I was devastated.I needed him so- He called 30 minutes late to say, "I've had an emergency".... He followed this up with "I didn't want to leave you hanging, I just now have been able to call." My reaction was one of the deepest hurt. I felt as if I had been stabbed... He said, "I really wanted to be there with you" ... as if this had shifted back to his need for me because of his disabled wife, as if my problem , my need for him, had been forgotten... so I said cruelly, "Oh, what goes on here between us doesn't matter" and he panicked, I could hear the panic in his voice, the fear that he was losing me, he said, "It matters to me" . I said, "well, not to me" and I hung up.
I then put him on block sender, & deleted his phone #'s. I sobbed for days... why can't he ever be here for me? Is it always going to be that I have to be alone when I hurt while he takes care of a sick wife and works his job, which I do understand- he had told me that he loves me, cannot face life without me, that he lives to be with me, that he wants me forever.... BUT... he doesn't seem to be here for me when I hurt. Am I not giving him a chance or do all Libra men avoid the strong emotional stuff especially from strong Scorpio women?
Libra man, cannot handle Scorpio woman's emotions?
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