Need insight...ask the libra male only!!

FemmeScorpion
Most thread on the libra forum...tend to be about the LIBRA MAN!!
Yes ladies love or loath them,there comes a time when these charmers are playing roulette with our hearts.
However from my experience i found i got better advice from the libra males of this forum.
The female libra's on the other hand tends to tell you how much of a cookie monster,treetrunking,mind gamer,etc etc you are.
Now who wants to hear all that rubbish when you are at you nadir!! I sure dont.
Obviously they are exception to the rules for example Spica,little sparrow,corkie(not sure if i got the spelling right)tend to give very good advice when they are not caught up in the drama.
In my personal life i tend to have more male friends and thats because i find men tend to tell you how it is,they dont cookiemonster and dont sugar coat to spare your feelings.
So just a huge shout out to all the men, who takes THE time out the be our AGONY UNCLES. THANK U!!
XX
dreamingpisces
I'd like to pop in here and say thanks to the libra men on this forum also. They do tell it how it is and I am quite appreciative of it!
LisaLeo
ugh, reality check.
mmmnope. the reason you have more male friends is cause the women tend to be more socially skilled, smell your act and call it for what it is right away. males are more naive.
So you created a thread to ask for advice huh. yet you didnt ask any. you bash people. and then you nominated some, excluded others and flattered the ones who could be more useful. Nothing new, its from the roman times, divide et impera.

I reacted because your behaviour around dxp got so hypocritical it's not even funny and I thought maybe you'd learn and change a bit. it's honestly to your advantage, cause ppl tend to avoid that kind of games playing attitude. Oh, since you seem to appreciate being praised I won't waste any more of our time ...
LibraSid
Posted by LisaLeo
males are more naive.


Wait what?

Hey!

I represent that remark...
LibraSid
Posted by TasteOfChaos
haha... You "represent" that remark??



=)
LisaLeo
I don't mean to turn my words around now however, generally speaking it is the women that make the invitations, orchestrate the socializing game, who to invite, etc etc. it's not to say they do a better or worse job, it's just how go; men let them do this, they probably think life (nd the real battles) must be someplace else ..
to me Libras (and Virgos for that matter) are extremely skilled, even the males are better than lots of other women in different signs (learned plenty of rephrasing from the Libra guy I was in love with)
little_sparrow
A primatologist I studied with summed it up nicely. He was reflecting on some of the hunter gather and small scale societies he had traveled to. Men are pretty much the same around the world. They play with pointy sticks, brew beer and play practical jokes. Women do all the real work.

Generally, I much prefer the company of women. When the butter hits the fan, women are the ones who can hold you up. I have seen this truth played out so many times in my life, I no longer doubt it.
nicodemus
IMO you get along with guys better because guys don't try to look too deep into what is going on under the surface. There are places guys don't go with girls because they either don't care to or don't see it as advantagous in their position in your particular relationship paradigm.

In short, guys placate you but stroke your ego and make you feel good while they are doing it. Women who get along better with men tend to look past the same attention they complain about from men. Women who gravitate towards guy friends lean on the comfort of being able to control the relationship through the sexual undertones that naturally exist. Women have more power around guys, plain and simple. Any other attempt at justification is an act of denial.

The one execption is girls under 22 or so. Teen girls and young women have a strange viciousness that warrants a lack of desire to get to know too many of them and young guys, because they have not yet established who they are within themselves are more likely to feel comfortable in close opposite sex friendships where they can take a break from the competative nature of guy frienships.

Once people mature it stops working that way though.
LibraSid
Posted by little_sparrow
Men are pretty much the same around the world. They play with pointy sticks, brew beer and play practical jokes. Women do all the real work.


This has to be one of the funniest things I have read in quite some time. I have a very literal mind and read things like this as they were a cartoon strip.

Good stuff.
venusianbull
Don't forget 'pull my finger'. A classic.
ScorpSage
Wow...guys what is all the angst about...I value FemmeScorp advice...I think that we all go through rough patches, we just need to be tolerant of one another! Life is really too short to hate, reject or blame one another!!!

I truly appreciate both guys and girls opinions in friendships! Actually having been in all girls school elementary and high school it took me quite some time to make guy friends..like it was more around college years. But it is only now that I truly appreciate being around guys the most.

Here we go:

I enjoy my girl friends because there is this sisterhood thing where you can talk about nonsense things such as makeup, fashion, gossip till death does us part...lol, shopping, manicures and pedicures, talk about guys, dissect every single detail about someone or an event, ect.

I enjoy my guy friends because I get to be rough around them...go to the gym with them, play sports, talk about cars and video games, plan friendly beer dates, go for a jog, foul talking, laugh and remain lighthearted because discussion never get too deep or personal and if they do, well they don't last for hours, ect.


There is more to me than what just meets the eye!!!

Therefore I think we shouldn't talk butter about anyone or generalize until we know someone from top to bottom.
little_sparrow
Posted by LibraSid
Posted by little_sparrow
Men are pretty much the same around the world. They play with pointy sticks, brew beer and play practical jokes. Women do all the real work.


This has to be one of the funniest things I have read in quite some time. I have a very literal mind and read things like this as they were a cartoon strip.

Good stuff.


hee. Yeah. I know. That is why it always stuck with me.
little_sparrow
I just know somewhere, there is a dissertation comparing tribal beers from around the world. Oh academia, how I love you.
little_sparrow
Posted by ScorpSage
Wow...guys what is all the angst about...I value FemmeScorp advice...I think that we all go through rough patches, we just need to be tolerant of one another! Life is really too short to hate, reject or blame one another!!!

I truly appreciate both guys and girls opinions in friendships! Actually having been in all girls school elementary and high school it took me quite some time to make guy friends..like it was more around college years. But it is only now that I truly appreciate being around guys the most.

Here we go:

I enjoy my girl friends because there is this sisterhood thing where you can talk about nonsense things such as makeup, fashion, gossip till death does us part...lol, shopping, manicures and pedicures, talk about guys, dissect every single detail about someone or an event, ect.

I enjoy my guy friends because I get to be rough around them...go to the gym with them, play sports, talk about cars and video games, plan friendly beer dates, go for a jog, foul talking, laugh and remain lighthearted because discussion never get too deep or personal and if they do, well they don't last for hours, ect.


There is more to me than what just meets the eye!!!

Therefore I think we shouldn't talk butter about anyone or generalize until we know someone from top to bottom.


You are still young. When you hit your thirties, chances are you will value women much differently than you do now. In a good way.
FemmeScorpion
Hold up,I post this thread to show gratitude to the men of this forum. And its turn into a slagging match.
Some ppl really need to get over their hatred.lol
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