Smitten Crustaceans

How to cancers act when they are beginning to like someone?
And no, I don't like a cancer (yeah right, I have enough with me), but I wanted to see if there were trends.

i'm a cancer ummm when i like someone i always never give any eye contact and always mix my words up and never can talk louder becuz i be so shy with butterflies lol

I have them pay attention to me I give no signs. I do things like I usely do. More of my humor comes out.

Hmmm, I don't get shy, I just am reserved and calm.
But then again, I'm calm all the time. Haha.

How about aquas? How are they when they have their eyes on someone?

Depends on my mood.

In one instance I start testing the waters to see if there's a mutual attraction. This includes a "hit and run" tactic to see if she bites and sends those approving signals. If she does then I go for it.

In another instance I just flat out say to someone "Hey, I find you attractive. Want to grab some ice cream some time?

And another instance, which is rare "Kiss me, I'm shitfaced."

It depends on the feedback I get from the person in question...
Basically, I mirror what I see in them, and it goes one way or the other.
They're quiet... I'm quiet, but not as quiet
They're hype... I act a little spaz right along with them
They're laughing... I make jokes back (only funnier [if possible, and usually is])
They're depressed... I share an equally F***ed up, if not worse, story about how someone else has it worse. And even if I don't get them, at least I made them feel better.
...sometimes too much, sometimes not enough...
But barely ever the person I'm looking for.
...and we end up back here on the message boards, trying to figure out where we made the mistake with the right person. LOL

LMAO!!! Tex... this is just too easy a hit to leave alone homie!

"Depends on my mood." = depends how she looks

"In one instance I start testing the waters to see if there's a mutual attraction. This includes a "hit and run" tactic to see if she bites and sends those approving signals. If she does then I go for it." = She's HOT!!! But I don't want to get my feelings hurt.

"In another instance I just flat out say to someone "Hey, I find you attractive. Want to grab some ice cream some time?" = She's aiight... if she says no, its no big deal, some other 'not as attractive' chick will take me up on it.

"And another instance, which is rare 'Kiss me, I'm shitfaced.'" = I'm too wasted to know you're ugly.

** LMAO!!! Tex... this is just too easy a hit to leave alone homie! **

Damn... my secret has been revealed haha.

In all honesty though it depends. I've gone up to hot and ok women and have been direct. It doesn't matter to me.

Testing the waters is more fun though. If she's on your level (brain wise) it's very wonderful. If she doesn't have a clue what you're saying it can be a chore. That's when being direct helps... or just get wasted and proceed to the "kiss me/shitfaced" option. 😉

But on the subject, if I REALLY like someone I make the mistake of turning into a gentleman because I want to treat my chosen lady right. Figures. Treat them right and they run. Treat them like dirt and they stick like mud.

Women are weird. =P

I think this is more the response the post called for... as for the:
"if I REALLY like someone I make the mistake of turning into a gentleman because I want to treat my chosen lady right. Figures. Treat them right and they run. Treat them like dirt and they stick like mud."
*cosigns*

yup bad women like ruff treatment good women will know that they found someone good, so they wont mind the gentleman part.

"It depends on the feedback I get from the person in question...
Basically, I mirror what I see in them, and it goes one way or the other.
They're quiet... I'm quiet, but not as quiet
They're hype... I act a little spaz right along with them
They're laughing... I make jokes back (only funnier [if possible and usually is])
They're depressed... I share an equally F***ed up, if not worse, story about how someone else has it worse. And even if I don't get them, at least I made them feel better."

This is true of me to broken_shell...lol....So funny you referred to mirroring. I was telling my Taurus girlfriend who really likes a Cancer guy that he will mirror her behavior after he picks up on her vibe...

All I meet are bad women haha. Must be Texas. Someone help me. I'm a Yankee stuck in Texas with bad women! LOL