What's going on in my Taurus girlfriend's head?

Just an update...

We met last Saturday after three weeks of not speaking. I thought it was over but she, as it turned out, just saw us as couple who weren't speaking! Our meeting went well and we arranged to see each other again on Friday (last night), which happened to be exactly five months since our first date. We had an amazing time. The chemistry was off the scale - we were talking non-stop but then suddenly we stopped very abruptly and just stared into each other's eyes. It was as though everything else just disappeared and all I could see was her face and then this feeling of a lightning bolt going through my body... amazing. When the place where we were was closing one of the staff was going round telling people to finish their drinks as they were closing in ten minutes, but she took lone look at us and just said "oh, I can see you two will be gong home very soon", as though she could see the chemistry that was going on. I took Miss Taurus home to drop her off but ended up staying at hers. I'm back at home now but we're meeting again in a couple of hours.

I think the three weeks that we weren't speaking and I had chance to do a lot of thinking, combined with the advice I've had from many on here, has clarified everything in my head and enabled me to reach a very settled place and I now know exactly what I want... her!

Thanks all for your advice.

BellaBulleautiful

10/28/2009 9:28:45 AM | IP

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Once you are in our web,you can't get away Virgo.don't even try to escape....it's futile

Since it was not a long serious relationship.....if it was me I would not still be messaging and talking to you if I did not have feelings or some interest in you romantically.I'm not a big friends type unless we were together in a serious relationship for at least a few years.
but again....I'm probably not the best to answer as my emotions are different than a double Taurus.

VirgoM20

10/28/2009 7:16:49 AM | IP

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She e-mailed me again yesterday evening and that started another sequence of messages... but we're now just talking like old friends about random stuff rather than trading punches about who did what wrong when we were together. She seems to have softened quite a lot. I have to say, she does have an aura of irresistible sensuality about her, such that I'm finding it hard not to be magnetized back toward her... but should I?

VirgoM20

10/27/2009 2:26:57 AM | IP

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
yeah I was talking to delisha

Ah, I thought you were referring to all of us when you said "I am seriously not relating to these so called taurus women you guys come in here complaining about"

Posted by venusrules
never the less it's nice to know that you read my post ...which for some reason I thought you wouldn't because of the length.

If someone replies to something I've written I will always read it. In fact, I would consider it rude not to if you'd gone to the trouble of writing a long post in response to something I've written.

BellaBulleautiful

10/26/2009 10:34:32 PM | IP

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yeah I was talking to delisha

venusrules

10/26/2009 10:24:41 PM | IP

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I think bella was referring to Delisha's "drama queen" friend having their moon in leo, not your ex taurus VirgoM20.....never the less it's nice to know that you read my post

...which for some reason I thought you wouldn't because of the length....and as for Delisha I agree with bella...I can never seem to understand where u guys are meeting these taurus women you talk about on this forum. The ones I know (myself) included are nowhere near any of the ones described here....but then again we're all different.

VirgoM20

10/26/2009 6:01:09 PM | IP

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Bella,

She has a Taurus moon. See below...

Posted by venusrules

1. she's a "double taurus" meaning that she'd a taurus with her decan/subruler as taurus, therefore she is twice as intense, passionate, and stong-willed [not stubborn ], than the other two decans
2. Her moon is in Taurus, and the moon sign is an indication of how we process our emotions, therefore you could say that the qualities you'd see in a taurus woman are manifested in her three times as much! (please tell me this is what you really want and are able to handle, because she will really give you "a run for your money"... in a good way)
Now in conclusion....with all that taurus in her charts she can be extremely vindictive and willfull, if she feels or even thinks her feelings are trifled with! (hence her mean comment), also once you've hurt her (i.e: cut communication with her and then resume) she becomes mistrustful of you, and she will ALWAYS think that way of you..maybe not so if she had other planets other than taurus in her chart but unfortunately (as I stated above) she's got taurus written all over her! so regardless of how many sweet phrases you say to her..she will still be mistrustful of your intentions...I would either ignore her comment or (if you still want her in your life) ask her if she would meet with you because you have something you need to say, at which point (make sure your both comfortably seated) in a calm even but firm tone explain to her how her lack of communication makes you feel ignored, unappreciated and hurt, voice your concerns!...make sure she's listening (because yes we can be that thick skulled) and let her know that if she still cares for you she better get her act together, and proceed from there.... if she still continues to act up, cut your loses and leave!....to lose your heart in a relationship is understandable but DEFINITELY not your self-repect! Also if you don't let her know how her actions hurt you as to cause the drift between both of you, there will be a build up of resentment from both parties..you (because you couldn't take her coldness anymore and her previous actions have left you hurt) and her (because she thinks your emtionally insincere)

VirgoM20

10/26/2009 5:55:34 PM | IP

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Delisha,

Here's what happened...

We met on a Saturday afternoon at the start of June and had coffees.
I was then very busy so we didn't meet again for a couple of weeks and, ironically, I wasn't that bothered about her at that point.
After our second meet I really warmed to her and we started seeing each other a couple of times a week.
By mid-July I was staying at hers a couple of nights a week and we had become very close.
Then we had a fall-out over something I wrote while we were chatting online which she misunderstood.
Since then I struggled to get back into her good books because, fearful of losing her, I stopped being "me" and started checking everything I said and did.
This change in me was noticeable to her - she preferred the original me, but being "me" was so much harder when I was trying to!
She broke up with me and then changed her mind and we got back together.
Then I broke up with her but we got back together after she kept texting and e-maling saying that she missed me.
Most recently, start of October, I broke-up with her once more and then silence until she wrote on my FB page and messaged me, as per my recent posts.
We have exchanged a number of messages this evening.

The Aqua was a couple of dates but she was too vague for me.
The Scorp is just a female colleague who I'm friendly with. She flirts with me for fun so I thought I'd do it back a bit. She's in a relationship so it's not going to go anywhere - I have no intention of it going anywhere. It's just a bit of fun which, hopefully, will help me to build my confidence with women.

BellaBulleautiful

10/26/2009 5:36:27 PM | IP

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does she have a leo moon because I am seriously not relating to these so called taurus women you guys come in here complaining about....I guess when I was 18 I might have been more selfish...but I've just really never fit this description.guess I'm a freak of nature or sumpin.

Delisha

10/26/2009 5:14:38 PM | IP

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LOL - maybe I'm being too serious *removes the serious hat and puts on her brightly coloured funny hat*

Delisha

10/26/2009 5:13:35 PM | IP

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From my understanding of the situation with VirgoM20, I wouldnt really call the TaurusLady a girflriend. From my reading (and please correct me if I'm wrong VM20), they went out on a couple of dates, and VirgoM20 was interested in taking it further but TaurusLady started pulling away, becoming distant. So, while this is happening, he glances at an AquaGal and comes on here asking for some insight and advise, the same with ScorpGal, a colleague in the office. From my perspective, isnt this exactly what these boards are all about? Getting to appreciate and understand the workings of one another?

With Taurus, I've also found my girlfriend to a total drama queen when it comes to life. Everything is over the top - life and death - both with work, friends and boys. As much as I love her, she is quite selfish and wants everything her way, when we go away on weekends together, which are supposed to be relaxing and having fun together. But, she has to have the best room, etc., and wont compromise, or share. I find her the same when we go out together to bars. If a man (or men) is/are flirting with her, he/they must pay for all her drinks, she wont buy one, or even offer, and she is all about their bank balance. I will always offer to buy a round when we are out, as I feel it is right to expect a gentleman I've only just met, to buy all my drinks. On a dinner/drinks date, that is different as I'd like feel feminine and womanly, and prefer the man to pay, but on some dates, I've actually slipped money into his pocket, so we could just relax together and not have to worry about the costs for the night. Sorry - I think I went a little off topic then (oops!)

Learus

10/25/2009 6:12:36 PM | IP

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I read somewhere about Virgo and Taurus where it said these two signs go through many difficult struggles before they actually "come together", but once they are together, they're in it for the long haul.

Learus

10/25/2009 6:11:16 PM | IP

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Bella, I think there's more to the story than whats being told here....

BellaBulleautiful

10/25/2009 6:07:49 PM | IP

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Tbh,I can maybe be a bit of a handful sometimes.it's probably all of the Aries....so I don't know *shrugs* maybe you shouldn't listen to me...which you obviously never do anyway....lol

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