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11/7/2009 7:03:32 PM |
IP i agree with miss aries  |
11/6/2009 1:52:45 AM |
IP | Aries are kind of backwards that way. The people they trust the most are the ones least hard to get over whereas the people they're afraid of/paranoid about usually hurt them the worst. That's how it works for me anyway... but I suppose it leads back to "if your looking for something you're going to find it." theory. |
10/29/2009 1:52:24 PM |
IP Posted by AwesomeAries
Aries have no problem moving on... along... and letting it be over, when its over. I have NEVER had trouble getting over any of my exes. When I did the breaking up, it was especially easy for me to move right along. When its more mutual, it still never took me much time to bounce back. But in ONE case, just ONE CASE... I let myself be completely open, allowing a scorpio in... he's like an infection that I have yet to find a cure for. I hate it. I would love to find his replacement or bounce back to reality, like usual, but I can't. Im hurt deeply, sad, and miss him more than anything. We only dated for a few months and broke up SEVERAL months back... I totally feel her. Its sad.
I have no advice for you other than to be there for her she will develop a whole new respect for you. Aries don't like to show or tell you when they need you. But when there friends are there without being asked, aries feel important and will place you on a high pedestal. Forever you'll be repaid. But if you're not there... you will never be forgiven.
Ha! Scorps will do that to us Aries everytime...know you are NOT alone.
Your last paragraph is so right on I get chills! |
10/27/2009 7:44:52 PM |
IP Aries have no problem moving on... along... and letting it be over, when its over. I have NEVER had trouble getting over any of my exes. When I did the breaking up, it was especially easy for me to move right along. When its more mutual, it still never took me much time to bounce back. But in ONE case, just ONE CASE... I let myself be completely open, allowing a scorpio in... he's like an infection that I have yet to find a cure for. I hate it. I would love to find his replacement or bounce back to reality, like usual, but I can't. Im hurt deeply, sad, and miss him more than anything. We only dated for a few months and broke up SEVERAL months back... I totally feel her. Its sad.
I have no advice for you other than to be there for her she will develop a whole new respect for you. Aries don't like to show or tell you when they need you. But when there friends are there without being asked, aries feel important and will place you on a high pedestal. Forever you'll be repaid. But if you're not there... you will never be forgiven. |
10/20/2009 2:13:02 PM |
IP you put all your heart and soul into something/one and seeing it fall flat on its face is a huge disappointment. Aries take disappointments so very hard.
some choose not to show it though. it depends on one's placements. |
10/19/2009 10:33:50 PM |
IP | so true aries do get deeply hurt i wonder how are we so sensitive |
10/19/2009 10:19:32 PM |
IP | lildol, Once she is over it she will be OVER IT!! right now she is hurting very much. Aries feel deeply when hurt and we get really REALLY angry. She is feeling angry right now. betrayed and she wants him to hurt. She will have to ride this out. |
10/7/2009 10:10:04 AM |
IP Do Aries have problems letting go???
Yes, sometimes they do. |
10/6/2009 1:02:34 PM |
IP She's more passive aggressive about it... she is not contacting these guys, just obsessing over them and what they (potentially) are doing. She's resorted to calling me 'Dear Abby' as I give her alternative perspectives from what she is thinking (I tend to try to put out all other possible alternatives).
It's difficult for me to understand because she really approaches things opposite of me. I obsess more so on the front end of a relationship because I need direction and purpose, she's more likely to just go with it and enjoy the ride. I don't want to waste my time with something going nowhere, that's not to say I want to rush into a relationship, I just don't want to spend my time on a worthless cause. On the back end when it's over, it's over, I am not going to wast my time on the past. That doesn't move one forward in life. |
10/6/2009 9:47:30 AM |
IP From personal experience with an Aries ex:
I'm cancer and he's aries. It was long distance. We broke up once before in 2008 for 6 months I think and he never stopped calling until we got back together. Then we broke up again in February 2009 and I even change my cell but he kept calling my house. He'd stop calling for a month or two then start calling my house again. I'm not sure if it's an aries thing or if this guy truely wants tobe with me. It's almost pushy and needy.
Is your friend like this? Does she ignore people when they confront her and tell her to leave them alone? |
10/5/2009 5:49:47 PM |
IP Posted by Hypno
If you are able to live like that then do nothing, but if you are not, then clearly you have to show her that she is dosrespecting you by doing such things..so she has to stop doing that or you gonna leave her.
it's win/win for you both ways..
She's not THAT kind of girlfriend LOL |
10/5/2009 4:33:39 AM |
IP If you are able to live like that then do nothing, but if you are not, then clearly you have to show her that she is dosrespecting you by doing such things..so she has to stop doing that or you gonna leave her.
it's win/win for you both ways.. |
9/28/2009 2:21:01 PM |
IP Posted by effedupgirl
she knows it's crazy. you don't have to tell her. she'll only move on when she finds someone to "replace the dogs that bit her". i'm an aries. and from my point of view..it's normal behavior. we can be a little stalkerish... but only if he ended the relationship and we weren't ready for that to happen. we need for all of our exes to want us back...even if we don't want them back. and if she's like me and you do end up telling her that she's acting like a fool...she'll laugh about it...cause she knows it's the truth, but she can't help it!
Effed up is correct. You don't need to tell her cause she's already aware. She's also right about the need for our exes to want us. Kind of sick (I know), but we like that feeling even if we want nothing to do with them.
She will get over it in time and once she is, she is. |
9/27/2009 4:31:11 PM |
IP | Lol this is not just an "Aries" trait. I've known so many woman like this, none of them Aries. |
9/25/2009 5:18:13 PM |
IP | she knows it's crazy. you don't have to tell her. she'll only move on when she finds someone to "replace the dogs that bit her". i'm an aries. and from my point of view..it's normal behavior. we can be a little stalkerish... but only if he ended the relationship and we weren't ready for that to happen. we need for all of our exes to want us back...even if we don't want them back. and if she's like me and you do end up telling her that she's acting like a fool...she'll laugh about it...cause she knows it's the truth, but she can't help it! |
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