How long is a LEO loyal?

Oh you are trying to dump a Leo? Well you shouldn't have hooked her in the first place. That's just my opinion. Leo's don't go out falling inlove with everyone, it takes balls, work and time. So if you don't want her "life" to revolve around you which in guy language usually means some evenings and weekends, then you shouldn't have revolved your life around her, wasted her time, energy and value to get some pootang. You should definately let her know you have been wasting her time, that it's exactly what you have been doing, that you are sorry, and that she doesn't deserve someone like you. I'm sorry but you have to know what you are getting into before you literally getting into it. People aren't toys that you can give away when you are done with them.

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10/14/2009 6:23:15 PM | IP

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I am going to tell you the brutal honest truth, Leo will be loyal to you IF and ONLY IF they are getting everything they deserve. If they feel they can get EVERYTHING they deserve from someone else they will cheat. Most of the time Leo is content with your company so this is what constitutes of EVERYTHING they deserve. If you play mind games, this will keep the Leo going however once they are BORED or FIND someone they think gives them MORE then you they will cheat.

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10/3/2009 2:59:48 AM | IP

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Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
However, since you guys have a reputation of quickly falling out of love (which would be -- I read -- when you stop forgiving her mistakes -> whatever that means?) then

would you still be loyal?
Would you at least let the person know that you have fallen out of love?

I can't speak for all Leos so I will speak as an individual, but in broader terms if that make sense.

First question:
Yes, that is until he/she decides to move on.

Second question:
No matter how painful it may be to tell another person who you were once in love with that you've fallen out of love with them, the answer is yes. No sense stringing them along and perhaps it's best to communicate this to another person.

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9/30/2009 3:11:10 PM | IP

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thank you all.

I respect Lions even more now for what your sign represents in you....

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LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

9/30/2009 8:15:39 AM | IP

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Posted by FLeo Lives On
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
So yes.. I agree with the sense, if it is over, why staying loyal?

I am just hoping for a fair explanation before he decides to be disloyal. It is rather deserving a closure when it gets there.

One thing about Leo women, we are very approachable, even if we're being standoffish -- we are not afraid of the truth and you could always approach us with anything and get warmly received. I'm thinking if you've got some questions in mind, that if you just ask your Leo, he will answer them in a straightforward type of manner.

I totally agree with this statement.

LibrasRule36!

9/30/2009 7:15:55 AM | IP

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Thanks for taking the time to respond, Provs.

Pr0vs

9/30/2009 5:25:38 AM | IP

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Do you blow extremely hot in the beginning of courtship and need contant reassurance?

>>> I do not like the constant reassurance actually because that means the conquer and challenge is over and what's next is peace, dullness or boredom. Make me jealous, make me insecure, ignore me and I will be that Leo baby in tantrums.

Do you observe that you don't want "the woman to revolve her entire life around you" after you've hooked her, been reassured of her interest, etc.?

>>> Not after the hooked up and reassurance. It is when the other person starts to become too possessive and clingy to the point that I can't freely do the things I wanted to do without her approval.

LibrasRule36!

9/29/2009 12:47:31 PM | IP

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Posted by Pr0vs
which is the definition of "FAILURE". What does failure contain?

>>> Btw, I do not represent the majority of Leos, this is just my own opinion. The answer to this question will depend on what we have experienced in previous relationships.

I have nearly zero tolerance for the following.
1. Her whole life revolves around me
2. Suicidal tendency
3. When my 1+1=2 explanation was interpreted in complex Physics or Calculus computation
4. Emotional blackmail

Other imperfections I can tolerate but the above is really an annoyance and that's when I realized you can't change the stripes of zebra to polka dots.

This is an interesting thread, OP.

Provs, I have a question for you (and any other leo who wants to reply)- Do you observe that you don't want "the woman to revolve her entire life around you" after you've hooked her, been reassured of her interest, etc.?

I know you stated that you are not the typical leo BUT do you blow extremely hot in the beginning of courtship and need contant reassurance?

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9/29/2009 10:12:51 AM | IP

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ProVs & Ike

Thank you for showing and clarifying no.3.

I do have the tendency to assume and I did see Mr. LEO getting very upset twice for that matter.

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9/29/2009 10:10:04 AM | IP

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9/29/2009 9:28:58 AM | IP

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ok ... what I am trying to figure out is that those 3 points coming from LEO man was until he hunted his Lioness. Now he is in a less active stage.

Can't figure this one either...

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9/29/2009 9:23:09 AM | IP

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Posted by Pr0vs
which is the definition of "FAILURE". What does failure contain?

>>> Btw, I do not represent the majority of Leos, this is just my own opinion. The answer to this question will depend on what we have experienced in previous relationships.

I have nearly zero tolerance for the following.
1. Her whole life revolves around me
2. Suicidal tendency
3. When my 1+1=2 explanation was interpreted in complex Physics or Calculus computation
4. Emotional blackmail

Other imperfections I can tolerate but the above is really an annoyance and that's when I realized you can't change the stripes of zebra to polka dots.

Btw, my LEO man says the same.. he does not represent majority of Leos, he is the quiet type who rather observes.

Another co-incidence is... that the name on your amblem is his partial name... ha hahaa

Can you open up Number 3 please? Do you mean you have zero tolerance for complexity coming from women? Not sure if I understood correctly. The rest makes sense. It looks like you do not appreciate weakling ladies...

It is somewhat conflicting, because LEO men I met so far do sound themselves like those 3 points you made up there (1,2,and 4), but as you said, you must be the exception.

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