The Ways in Which a Bull Controls...

The taurus I know dosent seem to try and control anything...he also dosent show any signs of jelousy or posessiveness in the slightest...then again its only been 2 months

fish-scorp-libra

11/2/2009 1:26:27 AM | IP

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the guy Ive s a taurus/taurus mars and keeps saying He likes that I put my foot down. something about liking his food with flavor...That having been said I think I have to stop stamping and learnt to be a bit more smooth about it...its the scorp in me! Simmer simmer sting lol not cute in the long run...even for me.

dward417

10/13/2009 8:59:38 AM | IP

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I love you taurus people too. You can be a great inspiration. I have 2 taurus girlfriends that I really look up to. Very classy and outspoken.

heartof*Fire

10/12/2009 3:35:31 PM | IP

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And btw, I LOVE Aries people. They are exciting, HONEST, and they keep it real. Very much like my Aries moon. Not many can handle my bluntness, or should I say, our bluntness, although I'm usually sweet about it

heartof*Fire

10/12/2009 3:29:40 PM | IP

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Like many others have said, I don't like to be in control but if the situations calls for it, you bet I will be. I can be bossy (Aries moon, Leo rising) but it's because I'm a leader at heart, and I'm very smart, people come to me for advice alot. I let people do what they want but if I feel they are doing something detrimental to themselves or to someone else, I have no problem telling them so. However, I will NEVER force someone to do something.. that is not my place. Unless it's something they are doing to me personally, it is not my business. I am very opinionated but I will never force my beliefs or advice on someone.

dward417

10/12/2009 11:46:05 AM | IP

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I use to have taurus female friend....we fell out...she never called me but she always ask friends how was I. Anyway I decided to break the ice and give her a call. She totally hung up on me.

I will never call her again. We werent friends that long anyway. But to hold a grudge that long. Its just not worth it.

SweetestFatale

10/12/2009 10:47:15 AM | IP

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I am very much in agreement with a lot of what has already been said. I have NO desire to control people or relationships, I simply know what I want, state it, and act accordingly. I wont stay in a situation where I cant get what I have asked and I dont have the time to try to maniupulate someone else into giving it to me. Im a strong believer in living according to one's own will. I love sharing sharing opinions with others and I love to hear theirs, but I'd rather it be, like angel said, backed up by plently of info and logical conclusion. If by chance my opinion and someone else's opinion have to coexist Im very willing to listen to have they have to say given they're give me the same courtesy so that we can reach an accepable compromise. As long as the person reaches their opinion by logical conclusion and respects my right to have an opinion Ill respect them, "live and let live".

Now about the "weak" men...with me weak just means lacking ones own conviction or the strength to stand behind it. Validating someone elses opinions does not mean devaluing your own or even agreeing. I can appreciate people more who have their own opinion and are comfortable with me having my own. Weak to me is also a man who uses no sensibility in honoring requests. Its silly but I'll ask a man to give me something or do something that isnt at all sensible, if he does it instead of telling me "no that makes no sense" then I cant deal with him because I then feel that I cannot count on him to keep me sensible in the event that I go off the deep end, which we all do at times. Even if your Taurus seems stubborn, we KNOW when we are wrong and we'll respect you if you have the smarts to tell us although we wont admit it out loud. Now some people in general refuse to back down and admit theyre wrong but I dont suggest dealing with these immature types in the first place.

And Bella I completely feel you with the Scorp man wanting to be in control but having no self control. Been there and done that.

Jason2213

10/11/2009 9:00:09 PM | IP

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Posted by machiavelli bull
I like your avatar Bella

Bella's avatar just fills me up with an overwhelming sense of tranquility.

USCTaurusGal

10/11/2009 7:29:33 PM | IP

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"That's exactly what I'm talking about - I hate being in control, but if the situation calls for it I'll always be the one to step up and make sure things are getting handled. I won't ever be one of those people that sits back and watches things happen to them or others who need help."

I agree, and I think that goes to a comment I made either earlier on this thread or another thread where it was stated that Taurus are bossy. I don't think that at all - to xangelfishx point, I think most of us will stand up and take charge of a situation and not just sit back if we see things are going horribly awry, or others aren't stepping up.

xangelfishx

10/11/2009 5:30:59 PM | IP

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Posted by xangelfishx
I only want to be in control when I can see things are getting out of hand and someone with their head on straight needs to take the reins.

I don't want to be in control of people or relationships.but that being said,I had to take control in my marriage and step up because he is a major alcoholic and is a scorpio with a cancer moon.....which makes him a control freak with no self control.when you have kids and a home,someone has to be in control.even now that I'm no longer with him,I still have to control certain things in regards to that situation.
I'm also the one in an emergency that is very much in control.
but as far as men go,I want to try out what angelfish said..... and I don't want to have to be in control.

That's exactly what I'm talking about - I hate being in control, but if the situation calls for it I'll always be the one to step up and make sure things are getting handled. I won't ever be one of those people that sits back and watches things happen to them or others who need help.

xangelfishx

10/11/2009 5:29:06 PM | IP

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Posted by xangelfishx
I respect someone who tells me their opinion - but I expect them to back it up. Not simply have it be their opinion for the sake of having one at all. If you want me to see your side of then convince me you know what oyu're talking about. As far as being "weak" - I don't know what's intended by weak, because I like a "soft" man who tells me his problems and likes to be cuddly and make me happy - and I like to make him happy in return. I like harmony and taking care of each other - I only want to be in control when I can see things are getting out of hand and someone with their head on straight needs to take the reins.

I'm exactly the same.also,with me it depends on who I'm dealing with as to how far it goes.if I'm dealing with a scorpio or someone arrogant or hateful,I will fight to the death and never back down.if I'm dealing with someone not on my level of strength I will tone it down accordingly because I do not like to hurt people,even when they deserve it.
but I would much rather have the harmony angelfish speaks of.
but yes,I'm very oppinionated....and they are always right

I agree, me too.

BellaBulleautiful

10/11/2009 3:08:06 PM | IP

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Posted by xangelfishx
I only want to be in control when I can see things are getting out of hand and someone with their head on straight needs to take the reins.

I don't want to be in control of people or relationships.but that being said,I had to take control in my marriage and step up because he is a major alcoholic and is a scorpio with a cancer moon.....which makes him a control freak with no self control.when you have kids and a home,someone has to be in control.even now that I'm no longer with him,I still have to control certain things in regards to that situation.
I'm also the one in an emergency that is very much in control.
but as far as men go,I want to try out what angelfish said..... and I don't want to have to be in control.

BellaBulleautiful

10/11/2009 2:05:17 PM | IP

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they = my opinions

BellaBulleautiful

10/11/2009 2:03:52 PM | IP

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Posted by xangelfishx
I respect someone who tells me their opinion - but I expect them to back it up. Not simply have it be their opinion for the sake of having one at all. If you want me to see your side of then convince me you know what oyu're talking about. As far as being "weak" - I don't know what's intended by weak, because I like a "soft" man who tells me his problems and likes to be cuddly and make me happy - and I like to make him happy in return. I like harmony and taking care of each other - I only want to be in control when I can see things are getting out of hand and someone with their head on straight needs to take the reins.

I'm exactly the same.also,with me it depends on who I'm dealing with as to how far it goes.if I'm dealing with a scorpio or someone arrogant or hateful,I will fight to the death and never back down.if I'm dealing with someone not on my level of strength I will tone it down accordingly because I do not like to hurt people,even when they deserve it.
but I would much rather have the harmony angelfish speaks of.
but yes,I'm very oppinionated....and they are always right

xangelfishx

10/9/2009 9:14:17 PM | IP

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I respect someone who tells me their opinion - but I expect them to back it up. Not simply have it be their opinion for the sake of having one at all. If you want me to see your side of then convince me you know what oyu're talking about. As far as being "weak" - I don't know what's intended by weak, because I like a "soft" man who tells me his problems and likes to be cuddly and make me happy - and I like to make him happy in return. I like harmony and taking care of each other - I only want to be in control when I can see things are getting out of hand and someone with their head on straight needs to take the reins.

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