Why do you people do this?

no one likes to be stood up. period. it's rude and disrespectful and in this day in age where there is a phones, cell phones, texting, im, email, twittering, myspacing, facebooking...there is just no reason for it unless a person is physically injured and cannot do so. As for him breaking several dates well...it sounds like he may have changed his mind and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. He sounds like he may like you but it unsure and therefore why he keeps trying to reschedule your dates. He sounds like he is rather immature. I think that you being fed up and cutting him off is right for you. No matter what a persons astrological sign is and yada yada yada...you have to do what's right for you.

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11/6/2009 10:44:38 PM | IP

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Don't feel bad Fishyfish - we all do it sometimes (.)

We could all do with some work!

moon_eyes

10/23/2009 9:52:17 AM | IP

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Gangstaliscious - i moved on dear hardly talk to him really our friendship kinda went sour after that because i aint taking that butter.

now dealing with crazy vigo lol

and cancers lol. heaven help me.

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10/23/2009 9:30:38 AM | IP

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"I felt sad and I had no explanation why someone would make a date with me twice do the same thing. Two weeks after that I hear from him as though nothing happened. Is this normal human behavior? NO."

He sounds like an marker sweetheart. Being stood up is so rude and immature. What pisses me off is the time wasted to wait on that person when you could be doing something else productive. I'd say leave him alone because he seems too immature. I've only been stood up once, but it was my professor. She acted like it was no big deal. I was so damn pissed.

"After i got a message about it I said gr to myself and deleted the contact because the man doen't even call to make a date he bloody texts me."

-Oh hell he wasn't even serious especially if he has to text you to make a date. He was just bullbutterting. Like both brothers said to me if a guy blows you off on a date and acts like nothing happens later on it's because something else got his attention

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10/22/2009 6:46:47 PM | IP

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i have a pisces male friend that is a lot like that. we've made plans a few times and he continues to break them. fortunately in my case he will tell me beforehand and state a reason. it's usually because he works 12 hour days, 6 days a week (family biz) and by the end of the day he has no energy left to go out. plus he's a musician (he's the drummer in my pics) and can barely summon the energy for his gigs.

maybe u won't be so disappointed if u set up plans in a group setting. that way u can always go on without him and still have fun. that's what i do with the pisces i referred to. clearly he's making u unhappy so just file him under "friend zone" and move on. i don't care whose fault it is or who should/shouldn't be doing what. u know what to expect from him, maybe u see a pattern forming, so don't expend too much energy on it. i do see an obvious unwillingness to get to the root of the problem so don't bother analyzing it. if it were me i would just straight up ask what the deal is and tell him how it is making me feel.

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10/22/2009 3:38:17 PM | IP

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prolly just it's demeanor..it looks sad but it's really just lazy (moves around less than a stuffed animal)

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10/21/2009 4:52:21 PM | IP

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Posted by Chance11
why is my friend's dog black and they call him Blue?

perhaps your friend is colour-blind

Chance11

10/21/2009 4:31:08 PM | IP

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lol he may be a distant cousin

Amerah

10/21/2009 3:32:09 PM | IP

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The pisces guy I know sometimes will break dates with me but actually I've broken more dates with him. The last time I did it he got upset with me but only for a a little bit then got over it. We both do it sometimes but not meaning to..sometimes we just have other things going on or issues we are dealing with. The thing that bothers me about him is he's not at all a phone person. I love to talk on phone or text to people that I want to hear from and sometimes he will leave me hanging by not calling or texting me back..he just will drop a line real fast then go away for awhile then do it again. He just isn't a phone person....He frustrates me but then again I've just learned to take it as it comes and not let it bother me.

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10/20/2009 3:50:19 PM | IP

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o for treetrunks sake.
Chance you related to ss up there?

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10/20/2009 3:39:34 PM | IP

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why is my friend's dog black and they call him Blue?

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