Do you feel left out?

It's like everyone speaks a different language. Well they are not speaking a language that you do not understand by words. I mean you know the words, but when the words come along it doesnt make any sense. Perhaps it is people do not make any sense. This is such a deep embarrasment that even the smallest things are impossible to implement. Everyone runs away from this that needed to be done. Even the smallest things. This is stupid and frusturates you, but eventually people find some other ways to survive, yet when you see what are these things that help them to survive, you feel such a great disappointment and dishonor. You just ask yourself "How can people be so stupid to always act like that?". You cant change them. You cant influence them. You cant depend on them. You cant ask for their help or favor. Even if you do in very rare situations, well your disappointment is guaranteed. Because they will surely treetrunk up. Why cant you even trust them in the tiniest. You go to the markets and you see the result of this treachery. Everyone tries to treetrunk one another (in a bad way) and they dont even want to think about that they live in the same country with you and perhaps that should mean something. We are not enemies here but what you see from them is worse than your enemy could do. At least you know that your enemy is your enemy and whatever will come from them is "expected". However people near you are always hit you from behind because you dont expect them to do this. And you most probably unprepared for it. Eventually you realise that trying to be friends with people is absolutely futile. You still try to think logically "hey there are may be someo people around who could fit your acceptable list" but you dont act logically anymore. You have already been taken advantage by thousand of times and no treetrunking logic is going to persuade you otherwise. Once you get into isolation mode, well you pretty much starting to lose everything that make you human. You start to hate everyone near you. You wont feel a butter when they feel hurt because it doesnt make any sense for you. You ask yourself "how the treetrunk can this stupid butterhead feel pain when they are the source of all pain?". Then you start thinking that these kind of people are like illness of society. Then you start allowing yourself thinking about the ways of destroying these people because even the tiniest idea of being free from these stupid people makes you live worth more day...

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10/9/2009 7:44:11 PM | IP

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Negative people will do watever it takes to drain u dry u call dem energy vampires yep they alive all rite.
i like dis topic ur intelligent keep up tha good work.

Loyalist Rebel

10/9/2009 8:50:06 PM | IP

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Yeah they find means of surviving without knowing whats wrong.

So much for intelligence....

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10/9/2009 8:52:54 PM | IP

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It cant be that much for negative energy drainers. I mean everyone in my high school, university, work life and personal life....that's alot of people. And no one who fits into right side. That's simply unbelivible stupid.

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10/10/2009 7:43:44 AM | IP

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Posted by Ike 2.0
simple very simple all the suffering is a byproduct of the ego . It also blinds intellect and covers the heart , the ultimate disease .

Ok, lets assume you are right. How we gonna fix this?

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10/10/2009 8:36:12 AM | IP

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Thats easier to say than done. How can I even experience such feeling if what I feel about people is only disgust? How can you love someone that you feel disgust about. And you can even provide the reasons for this. I do think that "ego" is there to protect us. Under the circumstances of this society, ego is our intrinsic part. It is what makes us who we are. And I like it to stay that way until the circumstances change.

However I agree with you that love and the respect that comes from loving is what needed. But love is not easy to build unless a certain level of basic understanding is there.

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10/10/2009 8:48:16 AM | IP

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So are you suggesting that you have the same experiences just like I have described above?

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10/10/2009 1:16:36 PM | IP

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u can transform ur hate into pure love if u choose to do so. u can't change others, only urself. u won't let go of this hatred to allow room for love. compassion, understanding, and acceptance are key. u make ur own happiness... so go and be happy!

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10/16/2009 1:25:31 AM | IP

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You get experience when you are being taken advantaged of. It makes you smarter and know how to survive in society.

I guess people are content as long as they are surviving in society. What they are doing might not make sense or seem stupid to you, but at least they are surviving.

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Posted by Loyalist Rebel
Thats easier to say than done. How can I even experience such feeling if what I feel about people is only disgust? How can you love someone that you feel disgust about. And you can even provide the reasons for this. I do think that "ego" is there to protect us. Under the circumstances of this society, ego is our intrinsic part. It is what makes us who we are. And I like it to stay that way until the circumstances change.

However I agree with you that love and the respect that comes from loving is what needed. But love is not easy to build unless a certain level of basic understanding is there.

Logically it's simple...

You have to step out of your own world and put yourself in someone else's shoes and realize the world is not black and white, there is every shade of grey in between. But you say it's difficult to sympathize with these people and over time you begin to resent them for acting selfishly and you can't reason why they act as they do. It is for that very same reason you can't step into their shoes and sympathize with them they can not sympathize with you.

Even as you type you really only speak of your own self-loathing and of the misery YOU experience, you in essence portray the same qualties as of those you speak of.

Well what you should realize is that everyone experiences this to extent but obviously in their own ways... and that is what makes people unique.

It's not that no one chooses not to reach out it's because we can't, it's like we live in glass cells each of different thickness and translucency... and if we're lucky it's just a thin sheet of plastic.

Inevitably, the world and lives of everyone is of selfish means and it can not be helped. Just as you are trapped in that cell, so is everyone else... you just haven't been as fortunate. And what is wrong with being just alone? What is so wrong with it? Life is about the four letter word a-l-o-n-e. You are born alone and you die alone. Why not accept the inevitbale and depend on yourself, because ultimately that is the only person in the world ever capable of making you happy to the fullest. Yourself.

Why resent others for something you're incapable of doing yourself?

xtina

10/16/2009 1:59:14 AM | IP

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I am by no means implying that this is the ultimate truth, it is just a fact that must be faced. Face it and move on. Live life for you and concentrate on making you happy. What makes me happy is helping others and that is what I plan on doing.

The world is vast and with billions of human inhabitants with differing ideas of happiness, eventually those ideas would clash.

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Posted by xtina
Posted by Loyalist Rebel
Thats easier to say than done. How can I even experience such feeling if what I feel about people is only disgust? How can you love someone that you feel disgust about. And you can even provide the reasons for this. I do think that "ego" is there to protect us. Under the circumstances of this society, ego is our intrinsic part. It is what makes us who we are. And I like it to stay that way until the circumstances change.

However I agree with you that love and the respect that comes from loving is what needed. But love is not easy to build unless a certain level of basic understanding is there.

Logically it's simple...

You have to step out of your own world and put yourself in someone else's shoes and realize the world is not black and white, there is every shade of grey in between. But you say it's difficult to sympathize with these people and over time you begin to resent them for acting selfishly and you can't reason why they act as they do. It is for that very same reason you can't step into their shoes and sympathize with them they can not sympathize with you.

Even as you type you really only speak of your own self-loathing and of the misery YOU experience, you in essence portray the same qualties as of those you speak of.

Well what you should realize is that everyone experiences this to extent but obviously in their own ways... and that is what makes people unique.

It's not that no one chooses not to reach out it's because we can't, it's like we live in glass cells each of different thickness and translucency... and if we're lucky it's just a thin sheet of plastic.

Inevitably, the world and lives of everyone is of selfish means and it can not be helped. Just as you are trapped in that cell, so is everyone else... you just haven't been as fortunate. And what is wrong with being just alone? What is so wrong with it? Life is about the four letter word a-l-o-n-e. You are born alone and you die alone. Why not accept the inevitbale and depend on yourself, because ultimately that is the only person in the world ever capable of making you happy to the fullest. Yourself.

Why resent others for something you're incapable of doing yourself?

No, I don't agree with you.
Everyone has power to do something to change the conditions they

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Everyone has power to do something to change the conditions they are in. The fact that some people choose to do nothing about it reflects a certain
aspect of stupidity.

To say you should just suck it up and live with what you have is not right.

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