| Well, all i know is that I love Arians to death, but i know how the story ends! Its always the same, starts off "Awesome" and somewhere down the track it turns "Pear Shaped" And ive no idea why !!! |
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35 years old female
um...Dogsbody....i am sorry; i may have hijacked your thread! my apologies.... it just seemed a relevant place to post. i didn't mean to be rude, if i was at all.  xoj |
35 years old female
| JMB2: thank you for your addition.... what goes awry? without altering my own personality (which would not serve either of us, and i'm not into playing games), what can i do to not screw it up? i've heard/read: be spontaneous, don't tell him what to do, let him chase you, be energetic.... he calls and texts every day, and we see each other 3-4x week. he always makes plans to see me in advance, like, we're approaching this weekend and he's already asked for some of the following weekend. he told me he is seeing me exclusively, and because i am not a good juggler, i agreed to be exclusive. it feels strange calling someone your boyfriend/girlfriend at 35 and 50 years, but we're sheepishly admitting to it. it's cute. any advice is appreciated, by anyone. be well xoj |
| Cappiebelle: i forgot the most important word when i said 'this pairing has been known to work'. rarely is that important word. so proceed at your peril. you know him best. what you are feeling is very common as a Cap because you're by nature, so cautious about everything. i've also heard Caps regret letting it slip away. one retracts when suddenly finds oneself too happy, transforming, and all those unfamiliar feelings are a bit hard to cope with. then one reverts to whatever it was before... safety. security. familiarity. the Cap who cut me to pieces taught me so much about our sun signs. i wish she knew how much i appreciate her for that alone. Knowing me, knowing you It's the best I can do as the ABBA song goes. best wishes |
| "Or that child who breaks all the train sets daddy bought because he told her specifically not to break anything." Spoken like a true Aries hater! I'm sorry, but this is so not me. |
| Cappiebelle- Courtesy of CancerianGoddess... http://songsdomain.tripod.com/zodiac/index.html Go to the relationship link on the left hand side, it will give you Linda Goodman's excerpt of Aries/Cap dynamics from her book Love Signs. The section I typed in was between the Cap male/ Aries female compatibility, I'm not sure if they have the different male/female dynamics in there but I'm pretty sure they give the general excerpt. |
| Cappiebelle... i find it hard to breath still, after all this time... pfff please, focus on compatibility and emotional depth. take a chance! don't let happiness slip away and regret later. everything seems to be about 'him, him, him' is correct as Aries can only be numero uno in your heart and mind, and that's where you are too in theirs. you'd be surprised how much you get back in return. it has been known to work for Aries and Cap [so get it together now  ] ps: yes... the chemistry, the attraction, the...omg...omg...haha... |
35 years old female
| howdy. i actually posted a new thread in the relationships section but i am so happy to find a topic already started.... i'm 35, capricorn and he's 50, aries. we met several weeks ago, looking for the same thing - an ltr. neither of us has ever been married, no kids, and both of us have always been picky in the past with whom we share our lives. even though my father is an aries and i get along well with him and find him to be generous, loyal and protective - all things good in my opinion (though everything always seems to be about him, him, him), i know that caps/aries generally do not mix on a friendship/business level for several reasons; one being that they both want to lead. i'm the youngest of four and he's the oldest of three, so i'm not sure i wouldn't consent to his leading.... there is definite sexual tension and the kissing/making out is phenomenal (we both feel like we're in high school), so i know that if we progress, there is a huge possibility that we will mesh in that area. ....but both of us are looking for something more substantial. he's a great guy, totally together; i'm a great girl, somewhat together .... no, really - he is completely lovely, i am sweet, and i think we would be great together, if i can get these nagging feelings out of my mind that in the long run it might not work. you know us cappies...weighed down by the "what ifs" in life. i'm trying to get better at letting go...also, due to this thread, i realize that i am moving at a slower pace than he is...or well, maybe i'm just not expressing it as much as he is. thank you for enlightening me as to how cappies tend to hold back until, sometimes, it's too late. i won't make that mistake. he really is a great guy. i'd hate to mess it up. any other input would be greatly appreciated. thanks so much. |
| I don't know, because in reality, Caps and Aries are very similar. It's just that Aries is the child and is intrigued by everything around them, and that causes excitment, which causes us to be impulsive. Cappys.... they've seen it before, and they are cautious because of it, so they take their time. I personally find capricorns interesting. But over time, their over caution can become a bit stiffling and suffocating. I want at least SOME excitement!!! One cappy guy that I messed around with couldn't handle that I was a bit unconventional. I think at first it intrigued him, but then he realized that I wouldn't bend unless things were met half way. It seems like the moment he had to work for it, he got nervous. We had opened up to each other very emotionally, and had a lot of things in common. But his excessive partying, drug abuse, and other extra activities really put me off. I like to keep moving, not keep doing the same thing over, and over again. The straw for me was when he started acting like a jerk.... which is fine, whatever. But don't chat up a girl at the bar right infront of me. You look cheap and desperate, and you are insulting me. Always, ALWAYS, act like a gentleman.... and sometimes Capricorn males don't live up to this standard, yet they impose this piety on others. I hate double standards.... the mere hypocracy of it makes me ill. |
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| When I think of sun signs in a relationship, I think about what type of personality we like. For example I like sags for their fiery easy going attitude. I also like caps and cancers due to my moon placement, in house 4, as they give me the comfort and stability that I need. |
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