Need help with pisces man

Is it possible to win back the heart of a pisces man? I drove mine away with my stupid insecurities and would do anything to prove I have changed and would never ever hurt him again. We still talk but it is brief casual stuff. I don't want to scare him off for good but what we had was off the charts and I miss him more than anything. He is my other half and I love him so much.

deemnsout4ever

10/25/2009 5:51:22 PM | IP

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Depends on how deep the connection,and what you did to him the first time around,I guess..

fedupgirl

10/25/2009 7:17:21 PM | IP

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As close and in love as two people could possibly be. I didn't feel like I was good enough for him and wanted to make myself as perfect as could be for him and was insecure because i am older than him despite him telling me that I was being ridiculous, that he loved me more than he ever thought possible. He got frustrated and I pushed him away. How can I prove to him that things will be different? I literally would sell my soul in a heartbeat to get him back.

ianthefish

10/25/2009 7:53:57 PM | IP

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what you say doesnt mean butter...
what you do is all that matters..

fedupgirl

10/26/2009 6:50:36 AM | IP

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Well what can I do? I'm serious Ian. I would do ANYTHING for this man.

BellaBulleautiful

10/26/2009 12:30:37 PM | IP

41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.

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if you love him and would do anything for him,then maybe leaving your husband would help?

LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

10/26/2009 12:42:23 PM | IP

38 years old female

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Posted by fedupgirl
As close and in love as two people could possibly be. I didn't feel like I was good enough for him and wanted to make myself as perfect as could be for him and was insecure because i am older than him despite him telling me that I was being ridiculous, that he loved me more than he ever thought possible. He got frustrated and I pushed him away. How can I prove to him that things will be different? I literally would sell my soul in a heartbeat to get him back.

Maybe you should work on yourself first before you try to please someone else. Your post wreaks of desperation and neediness. Im not trying to be mean or anything but if you read what you wrote you seem very insecure and unhappy with who you are or were in this relationship. Do you want to be with someone who makes you feel that you are not good enough? Mind you, by saying that, I dont mean HE makes you feel that way I mean YOU make you feel that way. Sometimes we can love someone with everything we have but it's still not right.

Amerah

10/26/2009 12:46:25 PM | IP

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With pisces men that I know..they always want you to be just yourself and confident no matter who you are or what you look like.

Amerah

10/26/2009 1:10:09 PM | IP

27 years old female

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Also..just be his friend.

fedupgirl

10/26/2009 1:13:30 PM | IP

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
if you love him and would do anything for him,then maybe leaving your husband would help?

Probably....but what if I leave at a huge expense to me since I make more money than my husband and he is not interested in me anymore after all? I guess I'm afraid that if I leave without knowing he really does love and want me that I will be left with nothing.

fedupgirl

10/26/2009 1:18:14 PM | IP

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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Posted by fedupgirl
As close and in love as two people could possibly be. I didn't feel like I was good enough for him and wanted to make myself as perfect as could be for him and was insecure because i am older than him despite him telling me that I was being ridiculous, that he loved me more than he ever thought possible. He got frustrated and I pushed him away. How can I prove to him that things will be different? I literally would sell my soul in a heartbeat to get him back.

Maybe you should work on yourself first before you try to please someone else. Your post wreaks of desperation and neediness. Im not trying to be mean or anything but if you read what you wrote you seem very insecure and unhappy with who you are or were in this relationship. Do you want to be with someone who makes you feel that you are not good enough? Mind you, by saying that, I dont mean HE makes you feel that way I mean YOU make you feel that way. Sometimes we can love someone with everything we have but it's still not right.

LOL I guess it sounds like that but nothing could be farther from the truth. I am actually a confident, professional women with lots of friends and outside interests. He has never once made me feel like I wasn't good enough. He was the most perfect, wonderful man I have ever known. Yes, I probably do sound desperate in a way but only because I have pushed away my true soul mate, my everything and would like to win back his heart.

LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

10/26/2009 1:25:18 PM | IP

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Posted by fedupgirl
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
if you love him and would do anything for him,then maybe leaving your husband would help?

Probably....but what if I leave at a huge expense to me since I make more money than my husband and he is not interested in me anymore after all? I guess I'm afraid that if I leave without knowing he really does love and want me that I will be left with nothing.

Hmmmm.... the plot thickens. Sometimes being left with nothing is better than settling for less than what you want. And look at it like this, you won't really be left with nothing, you will just have left.

Maybe you should consider being true to yourself and to your husband (meaning he deserves a wife that loves only him). I am in no way judging you here because I have been in a similar situation so dont take what Im saying as negative, I actually do understand where you are coming from. Im just trying to shed some light on it from a different perspective. And of course I do not know your circumstances or the nature of your relationship with your husband either so I can only offer it with limited knowledge.

Bella has a very valid point and you did say you would do anything for him.... but would you really?

Amerah

10/26/2009 1:35:08 PM | IP

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The best thing I feel is to just be his friend. Right now it must not be in the stars for anything more. I would much rather be someone's friend than lose them forever if I loved them.

fedupgirl

10/26/2009 1:37:35 PM | IP

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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Posted by fedupgirl
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
if you love him and would do anything for him,then maybe leaving your husband would help?

Probably....but what if I leave at a huge expense to me since I make more money than my husband and he is not interested in me anymore after all? I guess I'm afraid that if I leave without knowing he really does love and want me that I will be left with nothing.

Hmmmm.... the plot thickens. Sometimes being left with nothing is better than settling for less than what you want. And look at it like this, you won't really be left with nothing, you will just have left.

Maybe you should consider being true to yourself and to your husband (meaning he deserves a wife that loves only him). I am in no way judging you here because I have been in a similar situation so dont take what Im saying as negative, I actually do understand where you are coming from. Im just trying to shed some light on it from a different perspective. And of course I do not know your circumstances or the nature of your relationship with your husband either so I can only offer it with limited knowledge.

Bella has a very valid point and you did say you would do anything for him.... but would you really?

I totally hear where you are coming from and do agree that my husband deserves more. Do I love him...yes...am I "in" love with him...no. There has never been a real connection to him and no physical chemistry either. I married him because he was a good man and good to me and thought everything would develop over time.

Would I really do anything for my pisces man?? YES in a heartbeat, anything at all. All I need is somwe sign he is willing to allow me back into his heart.

BellaBulleautiful

10/26/2009 1:58:37 PM | IP

41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.

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will he not speak to you? sounds like you should be telling him these things and moving in one direction or the other.life is to short for misery.

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