Need help with pisces man

Wow, we were talking like we used to since Friday and then he seemed to pull back a bit. I'm not sure if he is hesitant to open up his heart again with me or what. It is really confusing. I'm not going to bug him or anything at this point, just keep everything light for now and see what happens. I think opening up my heart would be a big mistake on my part at this time. If any pisces have any insight it would be more than welcome.

fedupgirl

10/27/2009 7:14:49 PM | IP

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Posted by ianthefish
and if you write him the letter, what do you have to lose?

My dignity, my heart and soul. I guess I'm afraid of knowing and heartbroken not knowing. I guess I would rather just have a casual friend than nothing but I'm not sure why I would be happy with that either.

fedupgirl

10/27/2009 7:12:21 PM | IP

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fedup girl, ian has confused me with you....hi ian, i am still doing ok since "getting my answer"...and fedupgirl..be careful..maybe you should focus on your husband who is good to you. i was in EXACTLY your shoes a while ago..and when i put my pisces guy to test, he failed. not saying that it'll be the same in your case...but ask yourself this "am i seeing pisces guy as a symbol or for who he actually is? am i projecting the qualities of my soulmate onto quite an ordinary person?" sometimes we tend to do this, especially with pisces men. just from my experience...they have some quality about them that can leave us pining over them for years (in my case)...it's the dreamy thing i guess..???...and they can also be very very good in bed which makes it even harder to get over them..good luck..getting over a pisces aint easy.and try to keep in mind that when a man wants us, we usually KNOW it..think about your husband..were there any doubts that you were the one for him? he prolly let you know didnt he? most men go after what they want.and beware, not speaking for all pisces men here, but my ex-pisces guy like to "swim back" into my life when it was convenient for him...leading me to believe he felt the same for me...which didnt end up being the case in the end. again, good luck with this.

LOL...weird, I didn't realize there was someone with a similar name. Oooops. Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it. He isn't just an ordinary person...like i said we are twins in so many ways and I know it's just not bs on his part. I know this 100% I've tried to focus on my husband but no matter how hard i try there just isn't the connection we should have.

ianthefish

10/27/2009 2:24:48 PM | IP

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and if you write him the letter, what do you have to lose?

ianthefish

10/27/2009 2:24:12 PM | IP

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yes i had the two of you confused... sorry...

names are just to similar.. and i thought effedup left...

effedupgirl

10/27/2009 11:29:17 AM | IP

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fedup girl, ian has confused me with you....hi ian, i am still doing ok since "getting my answer"...and fedupgirl..be careful..maybe you should focus on your husband who is good to you. i was in EXACTLY your shoes a while ago..and when i put my pisces guy to test, he failed. not saying that it'll be the same in your case...but ask yourself this "am i seeing pisces guy as a symbol or for who he actually is? am i projecting the qualities of my soulmate onto quite an ordinary person?" sometimes we tend to do this, especially with pisces men. just from my experience...they have some quality about them that can leave us pining over them for years (in my case)...it's the dreamy thing i guess..???...and they can also be very very good in bed which makes it even harder to get over them..good luck..getting over a pisces aint easy.and try to keep in mind that when a man wants us, we usually KNOW it..think about your husband..were there any doubts that you were the one for him? he prolly let you know didnt he? most men go after what they want.and beware, not speaking for all pisces men here, but my ex-pisces guy like to "swim back" into my life when it was convenient for him...leading me to believe he felt the same for me...which didnt end up being the case in the end. again, good luck with this.

fedupgirl

10/27/2009 10:40:07 AM | IP

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You're wrong. I DO love him. For the first time in my life I know what love is and so does he. I HAD him and pushed him away by being stupid. We had a long discussion adout infidelity and he is not thinking that at all. We met by accident and found each other's half. He's hurt about me not believing I was good enough etc. Time will tell whether I can win him back.

I do feel sorry for my husband...he is a good man but this pisces man is my soulmate and I can't help what I feel.

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10/27/2009 6:22:16 AM | IP

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Posted by fedupgirl
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
if you love him and would do anything for him,then maybe leaving your husband would help?

Probably....but what if I leave at a huge expense to me since I make more money than my husband and he is not interested in me anymore after all? I guess I'm afraid that if I leave without knowing he really does love and want me that I will be left with nothing.

wow...you don't love him...you just want what you can't have...feel sorry for your husband...this pisces will not trust you...he will think the same thing will happen to him...Pisces do not want to be with someone who is willing to move onto a new man before the last one is even out of the picture...he's protecting himself...

Scorpio_Nympho

10/26/2009 8:37:03 PM | IP

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Posted by ianthefish
"but next time ian, he's not gonna get an answer."

Give her a straight answer

fedupgirl

10/26/2009 8:34:23 PM | IP

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Posted by ianthefish
"but next time ian, he's not gonna get an answer."

Ok, I know I'm really tired tonight lol but I'm confused by your post Ian.

Would you be upset receiving a letter from someone pouring out their heart to you? I have mixed feelings on doing this.

ianthefish

10/26/2009 8:21:36 PM | IP

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"but next time ian, he's not gonna get an answer."

fedupgirl

10/26/2009 7:27:44 PM | IP

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? I never said I was done with this guy?

I know you can't tell me what to do Ian but being a pisces guy...would you be annoyed or more upset receiving something like this if you still cared for the person deep down?

ianthefish

10/26/2009 6:13:55 PM | IP

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i thought you said you were done with this guy? that he gave you your answers..

you didnt hold out very long..

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10/26/2009 6:11:43 PM | IP

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Posted by fedupgirl
Posted by ianthefish
sometimes you just gotta put your heart on the chopping block and hope for the best..

So you think I should just go for it? Kinna like my 1 last shot? I'm scared butterless to say the least. He is like the air i breathe and would be lost without him in my life.

i dont know what you should do.. i cant tell you that... but what i can say is sometimes you have to put your heart out there... it may be broken after you do it... you may regret it if you do... this isnt just a should i or should i not question... its your life... do whats best for you...

Scorpio_Nympho

10/26/2009 5:11:56 PM | IP

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Posted by fedupgirl
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I hate to sound like a broken record around here....but do you know his moon sign? and what is your sun and moon?

mine - scorpio/scorpio
his - pisces/libra

Im in the same boat with you

im scorpio/sagettarious
and hes pisces/Tuarus

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