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11/6/2009 4:42:10 PM | IP
Scorpio_Nympho

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Thats true.
11/6/2009 9:21:45 AM | IP
far as i kno this isn't limited to just pisces... alot of people go back with their exes.
11/4/2009 7:45:10 PM | IP
Scorpio_Nympho

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Well if this is the case than I should just wish him luck and just be happy for him. It does me no good to build up hate and believe I DO try.

I just feel things so intensely; it's impossible to let anything go. It's like my mind haunts me. You wake up everyday just saturated and covered with your own depression and self hatred. Thats how I feel for this situation. Believe it or not I was worse 6 months ago.

I just hope hes happy. Its really hard for me not to be jealous but I try. I usually put everyone elses happiness before mine anyway.

Maybe one day he'll see me for who I really am. But for now I have to greive (spelling) And I have for months now.
11/4/2009 7:10:16 PM | IP
Nefer

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Mmmm I agree, seavixen... we Pisces CAN definitely be callous. When we see someone who seems oblivious to their own dumb/crazy/silly butter they're doing, we bristle and have no compunctions about pointing it out. We like to play Devil's Advocate, will often argue the "other side" to educate someone and show them a different POV... but yeah, sometimes our delivery needs work. We're jerks at times! We aren't diplomatic Libras, after all!

Pisces don't tend to be jealous (and almost NEVER openly!); Scorpio is the undiluted definition of jealous. We don't tend to obsess; Scorpios do it a lot. We tend to let things go - once we decide to; not so easy for a Scorp. Moving on comes much easier to a Pisces than to a Scorpio. Pisces tend to walk tall and aloof (never let then see you burn, even if you can't BREATHE right now) but Scorps will let it show blatantly sometimes, obsessing. Pisces believe in Karma as the perfect revenge, or in sly, insidious, subtle ways; Scorps fantasize (or do) revenge very personally, very openly, and very well.

Scorpios and Pisces are both Water, and similar in a lot of ways. But there are enough differences to RANKLE a Pisces when they see a Scorpio on a wild tear and a bit of a pity party -- which is probably how several Pisces got riled at her (very Scorpio) reactions and actions... things we do not do the same way, could not imagine doing it that way.
 
11/4/2009 6:37:34 PM | IP
I'm not saying that we aren't capable of being truthful...I'm just saying I think Scorpio_Nympho is lucky she asked this in a forum where we can't see the pain on her face...otherwise she may not get quite the ' in your face truth' ...which is a good thing
11/4/2009 6:26:33 PM | IP
...no softening the truth on this forum! sheesh... I feel for you Scorpio_Nympho. The thing about us is that we are the most feeling, romantic creatures of the zodiac. If we want to be with you then we'll MOVE MOUNTAINS do so. Nothing would stand in the way. His must have pretty strong for his ex still. I haven't met a pisces yet who wouldn't feel tortured not being able to give 120% of their whole mind, body, and spirit to someone they're in love with-THATS WHAT WE DO
11/4/2009 6:14:35 PM | IP
well said....

scorpio i still think you just need a new fish... im telling you the next one will be better...
11/4/2009 5:25:35 PM | IP
Nefer

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SN - YES... but only IF we have feelings for them! That's going to be the hardest thing for you to take, that jagged lil pill so hard to swallow... he still has unresolved feelings for that ex. I know you don't understand it - you can't stand her, feel she has little to nothing to offer him.. and insulted that he seems to prefer HER over YOU! But that's a Pisces... when we're done, we're DONE.. but until we're actually done.. we aren't done!

Pisces guys are great, huh? Such amazing, infuriating men. (I'd almost run away with Ian, if only he'd ask me to LOL) But this one still had dormant, buried feelings for his ex, and when the opportunity came up, went back to her. Sucks, I know. Makes you wanna grab him and shake him and scream, "But she's not WORTHY of your love! What are you DOING?! What's WRONG with you?!!?" But you have to let him go, let him crash and burn on his own. 18 year old relationships rarely work out, and I've never known a Pisces still with the same love they had at 18 - I've mentioned that before! Let him learn what he needs to learn on OTHERS. Don't sacrifice yourself up to him as one of his painful learning experiences, because you won't be the one he returns to then, not for good.. if it's meant to be, Mr. Pisces will come back around. We're firm believers in "meant to be"... don't hold on tight to him, this is not your time.

... but you have so much to offer the right guy, lovey. And he might be waiting for you right around the corner. A cheeky (yet true) saying that I like is: "For every girl with a broken heart, there's a boy waiting with a glue gun!"
11/4/2009 12:05:08 PM | IP
Scorpio_Nympho

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well what if they went all out for you? so youd forgive them?
11/3/2009 11:40:23 PM | IP
Ive never gotten back with an ex after a long period of time. In fact i would say that i almost forget them. I can remember moments and feelings but physical appearance just fades out. Im not sure what would appeal my emotional attachment to someone in the past. I thnk a letter if they were sincere and pointed out any mistakes made and flaws would be nice. But something handmade with thought to go with it that showed they actually knew part of me would get me thinking.

Im pretty skittish of someone if they hurt me. I stay clear and forget them if i can. But even if i ever did take them back if they did soemthing to me nothing would ever be the same and it would probably drive me nuts.
11/3/2009 7:11:01 PM | IP
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Posted by Scorpio_Nympho
Posted by Nefer
Oh, you guys - SN is an 18 year old Scorpio. Intense, jealous, obsessive.

Hell yes, she's obsessing over this. Hell yes, she's jealous and trying not to be, because she knows it's silly and irrational. Hell yes, she's trying to (obsessively) figure out why he isn't with HER, but went back to a girl she HATES. Hell yes, it was stupid to post a pic of the girl - but she needed a bit of outside validation that she herself is still pretty and smart and awesome... and someone to agree that the other girl is as freaky and ugly as her own jealousy tells her the girl is! It's how she's running it 'round and 'round in her head, examining it from all sides, picking it apart, and salving her own bruised ego. Have none of you ever obsessed or wondered over an ex that left you and ended up with someone else you could not stand? LET HER PHOENIX BURN AND REBIRTH! 'Tis all very Scorpio, really - especially young Scorpio. And this is going to be one of her formative experiences, trust me!

*hugs* SN.


THanks Nefer *hugs* I really do honestly try. I know my actions are immature and pety but sometimes I need to let out all hatred and I know a healthy way to do it lol


I can understand or at the very least relate to how you must feel. I do a lot of the same crap. You aren't alone. It sucks.
11/3/2009 6:48:20 PM | IP
11/3/2009 6:44:52 PM | IP
Scorpio_Nympho

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Posted by Nefer
Oh, you guys - SN is an 18 year old Scorpio. Intense, jealous, obsessive.

Hell yes, she's obsessing over this. Hell yes, she's jealous and trying not to be, because she knows it's silly and irrational. Hell yes, she's trying to (obsessively) figure out why he isn't with HER, but went back to a girl she HATES. Hell yes, it was stupid to post a pic of the girl - but she needed a bit of outside validation that she herself is still pretty and smart and awesome... and someone to agree that the other girl is as freaky and ugly as her own jealousy tells her the girl is! It's how she's running it 'round and 'round in her head, examining it from all sides, picking it apart, and salving her own bruised ego. Have none of you ever obsessed or wondered over an ex that left you and ended up with someone else you could not stand? LET HER PHOENIX BURN AND REBIRTH! 'Tis all very Scorpio, really - especially young Scorpio. And this is going to be one of her formative experiences, trust me!

*hugs* SN.


THanks Nefer *hugs* I really do honestly try. I know my actions are immature and pety but sometimes I need to let out all hatred and I know a healthy way to do it lol
11/3/2009 6:28:50 PM | IP
11/3/2009 6:19:39 PM | IP
now your just to intrigued not to read?
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