"Men have been imitating porn forever," says author and sex educator Anne Semans of Babeland.com. "When the Kama Sutra came out did they start busting out the weird moves?" Now, however, "It’s become more acceptable to buy into the porn fantasy." Last year when Babeland conducted a poll about sexual attitudes, one of the questions was, "The most inaccurate perception men have picked up from porn is ..." The top four responses from women were: - How women can have orgasm from just vaginal intercourse - The idea that women love semen in their faces - The notion that anal sex is sexy - That women prefer huge chickens So now that you know, you can take that pressure off us. Take it off yourselves. Because in spite of or because of the mythology of the ever-rarin'-to-go, hot-blooded man, the physical and emotional reality of male sexuality is far more complicated. A man has to hope his equipment is of pleasing dimensions, that it rises with his desire, that he doesn't finish too soon or go on too long. [http://www.salon.com/life/sex/index.html?story=/mwt/feature/2009/11/01/make_love_like_a_porn_star_not] |
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41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| "author and sex educator Anne Semans of Babeland.com" LOL |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| I do agree though.porn has adversely affected both sexes imp. |
I think hard-core porn can be detrimental. Some people get addicted to it. But, I think soft-core, if it emphasizes intimacy and love-making versus body-part gyration techniques, can be beneficial for some couples. It can set the mood. |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| "- How women can have orgasm from just vaginal intercourse - The idea that women love semen in their faces - The notion that anal sex is sexy - That women prefer huge chickens" I agree with those also,except the semen in the face.....j/k.  also I think it makes younger people of both genders think that only certain body types are sexy so that women don't feel comfortable with themselves (no one here for sure,but others...)and men maybe judge compared to what they've seen.dunno for sure on that one. |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| sorry,I left in the middle of my last post so it's out of whack with yours. I just deleted the part where I was talking about that very thing Dy,  |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
Posted by DyTryin I agree with that too.nothing wrong with priming the pump.but hard core makes it all about the final result imo and not the ride to get there. |
| - How women can have orgasm from just vaginal intercourse * i can and i do but i've come to understand that a LOT of women only have them from clitoral stimulation. - The idea that women love semen in their faces * not all women sure. i'm personally down for it. - The notion that anal sex is sexy * i think anal sex is hot! - That women prefer huge chickens * now this i can agree with. i'm no size queen, but i won't lie, i've seen one up close that was NOT gonna work for me. u could tell right away that it wouldn't be able to stay in if u moved around. i should mention that most men i know realize the middle 2 mis-conceptions are things that mainly turn THEM on. they wouldn't force it upon, or even expect, the woman to like it per se. however they will verbalize that these are things they like. the guys i know understand quite well it's a give and take kinda deal. they want to please their woman and indulge in her fantasies but, of course, they want reciprocation. |
Posted by BellaBulleautiful  thats great dy !in agreement regarding the hard core stuff kinda being desensitizing. porn is soooo accessible that its boring now too i mean unless its very different...  |
| im sorry but if your using porn as your guide to the female body, your a treetrunkin idiot... you dont deserve to please a woman... better off leaving that up to someone whos a natural.... how treetrunking hard is it to listen to the womans breathing, watch her movements, listen to her moans, etc. etc... first and foremost tho, you need to get her in the mood... which sometimes has nothing sexual about it involved.. things like washing dishes, housework etc.. and to make sure shes happy, obviously different to each woman, but those are good examples... guys really are pathetic.... |
| and for what its worth.. who the treetrunk wants to cum on a womans face when you can come inside her vagina... ;] |
Ian: who the treetrunk wants to cum on a womans face when you can come inside her vagina... I don't understand it, either. Does the man want to demean the woman, and/or assert his dominance over her? |
Posted by BellaBulleautiful also another reason to say that guys are treetrunking idiots... i mostly watch porn that involves "real looking" women... so much sexier to me to see a woman with a little bit of a belly and some stretch marks, and some tits that sag a little... channel 69, white ghetto films, the best of real women.. other than japanese porn, all most all ill watch... obviously im not the norm when it comes to porn preferences, or real life preferences of women... |
Posted by DyTryin i believe so... if thats what i want, ill just slap the cookiemonster around a little... *smirks* |
| correction above^ other than japanese porn, its mostly all i'll watch... |
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