WHY I HATE BEING A ---

Leo

Well, a lot of the things that I love about about being a Leo are also some of the things I hate as well. I know, a double edged sword of sorts, but tis true.

1. I hate the fact that I always give everyone the benefit of the doubt and fail to see the bad in most people. I almost always see the good, even when it's really bad. That, more often than not, leads to disappointment on my part. However, on the upside, a lot of times being this way I tend to make deep connections to and earn the trust of that individual simply because not many people afford them this luxury.

2. I hate the fact that I am capable of maintaining relationships with all of my ex-love interests without becoming twisted up over them. I detach fairly easily once I make up my mind and rebound very quickly. Sometimes that makes me come off as being cold hearted and a bit of a player. But, I also love that I am capable of maintaining my emotional stability and never come off as neurotic or needy. (I contribute some of that to my Aqua Rising tho)

3. I hate that I am extremely warm hearted and have trouble telling people no. As ninjamu mentioned, I too always seem to lead people on without realizing it. A lot of times I hurt people and dont even know that I do it. I hate more than anything to cause someone pain. But, I also love that I have a warm heart because it makes me vulnerable and I think it adds a bit of softness to my personality.

4. I hate that I come off to strangers as being intimidating and unapproachable. Maybe it is that "Leo air of royalty" that I project without even realizing it. But, I also like that I surprise people because once they actually take the time to know me, they realize that I am SO NOT intimidating and that I am very easy to get along with and talk to.

Aqualeo

11/15/2009 3:04:02 PM | IP

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Posted by krysrenee7
Aquarius...
I hate that sometimes I easily pick up on others emotions & have the ability to rightfully observe others. This is a good thing in some aspect, BUT the problem comes when others problems & situations can easily almost become my own problems & circumstances due to the fact that in areas where I am not cold/detached, I tend to care a little bit TOO much.

I hate that when someone betrays us, we tend to immediately walk away without fully knowing if we can handle that person's loss and/or w/o fully thinking out the possible consequence of walking away from someone/something that might've been worth a second chance. Our first reaction is to bring out the armor & the wall of protection, walk away & show that person that they cannot hurt us, but what we are in fact showing others by doing this is that they HAVE in fact impacted us. I wish that we Aquas would sometimes understand that showing emotion, sticking around and/or not being so willing to open up doesn't necessarily mean weakness or that it's an open chance for others to take advantage of us. There's only certain situations that building up armor can long-term wise be effective for all parties involved. I wish we Aquas knew how to cry in the public sometimes, instead of always doing so in the dark.

krysrenee7 in which situations can the armor be effective?

normalisboring

11/15/2009 11:02:49 AM | IP

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Posted by krysrenee7
Aquarius...
I hate that sometimes I easily pick up on others emotions & have the ability to rightfully observe others. This is a good thing in some aspect, BUT the problem comes when others problems & situations can easily almost become my own problems & circumstances due to the fact that in areas where I am not cold/detached, I tend to care a little bit TOO much.

I hate that when someone betrays us, we tend to immediately walk away without fully knowing if we can handle that person's loss and/or w/o fully thinking out the possible consequence of walking away from someone/something that might've been worth a second chance. Our first reaction is to bring out the armor & the wall of protection, walk away & show that person that they cannot hurt us, but what we are in fact showing others by doing this is that they HAVE in fact impacted us.

Wow ... I thought I was the only one who felt like this. Especially the bit about picking up on other people's emotions ... eerie ...

fourthwallbreaker

11/15/2009 9:16:40 AM | IP

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Smoke (more?) pot ?
Or maybe that's the cause, who knows.

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11/15/2009 8:55:17 AM | IP

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GEMINI:
I can't make up my mind about ANYTHING. EVER. Usually about the superficial things, but this indecision has led to my current disaster.. my ex gemini luvvah finally had enough and found someone else. (However, he is also very indecisive, so it's nothing concrete. I hope)
Which brings me to the next issue..
I'm so goddamn restless. I wish I could be a bit stable sometimes. Rooted to the earth, rather than up in the facking clouds 99% of the time. I am improving though. Finally have a job, a house I like.. and don't think I'll be moving countries for the next two years.

I see through things too easily. 5 minutes within meeting someone and I'm pulled them apart, mentally. I analyse people very intensely. Not out of paranoia, or some way of making them uncomfortable (I don't exactly reveal it, it's just an unconcious reaction).. but that's just the way I think. If they're boring, I leave. I can't stay in the company of crappy people. So maybe it's my lack of compassion. Mind you, I think it's great as well. I want to be a detective.. so the observations come in useful. Naive I am not.

All these annoying qualities, I also love. Duality duality.

The most annoying thing is my lack of action. I tend to be critical of myself, and never physically act out the things I want to do. Like Hamlet, incapable of putting idea into action( though I don't harbour any desires to kill, yet)

and my self doubt. The identity crisises. Yet, again to contradict myself, they are fuel for the drive I know I have.

Finally, there's the nervous energy. Good, but also bad. I'm very self concious at times. Unless I know 100% what I'm doing, I tend to freak out.

krysrenee7

11/14/2009 11:11:12 PM | IP

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Aquarius...
I hate that sometimes I easily pick up on others emotions & have the ability to rightfully observe others. This is a good thing in some aspect, BUT the problem comes when others problems & situations can easily almost become my own problems & circumstances due to the fact that in areas where I am not cold/detached, I tend to care a little bit TOO much.

I hate that when someone betrays us, we tend to immediately walk away without fully knowing if we can handle that person's loss and/or w/o fully thinking out the possible consequence of walking away from someone/something that might've been worth a second chance. Our first reaction is to bring out the armor & the wall of protection, walk away & show that person that they cannot hurt us, but what we are in fact showing others by doing this is that they HAVE in fact impacted us. I wish that we Aquas would sometimes understand that showing emotion, sticking around and/or not being so willing to open up doesn't necessarily mean weakness or that it's an open chance for others to take advantage of us. There's only certain situations that building up armor can long-term wise be effective for all parties involved. I wish we Aquas knew how to cry in the public sometimes, instead of always doing so in the dark.

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11/11/2009 10:17:08 AM | IP

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Aquarian
I can't think of anything that I hate about being an aquarian. However, I do wish we could fly, or maybe have the ability to super-stretch arms across the room to pop brothers and sisters on back of heads when they sassy mouth you. This would improve "Aqua Bossy" productivity.

There's nothing bad about being an aqua, but we DO need more super abilities. Maybe we can form some committees and delegate some assignments? Maybe role play some. I'd like to be in charge of the 'Teleportation and invisibility: Tapping the Aquarian Potential' program. Also, I can carpool on Mon-Wed-Fri's and can potluck Nov. 21. Let's Plan!

normalisboring

11/9/2009 12:37:15 PM | IP

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Posted by DaBull_isDabutter
Taurus:

I hate the fact that I can be greedy when it comes to food unless you are poor or hungry then it's different I'll give up my meal for you. Other than that 'Joey don't share food', I can certainly relate to that part when I watch Friends lol, I hate that I feel annoyed inside if someone just dips their fork in my plate after they have filled their stomach and I am taking my time to enjoy the meal.

I know, right?! LOL It's like, "Step away from the plate with your hands up!"

*Shakes head*

Family, man ... lol

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11/8/2009 9:40:29 PM | IP

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Cancerian:

It kinda does my head in a bit that i'm so nicey nice all the time but I can't help it.

I want the opportunity to act like a cookiemonster sometimes but it hardly ever arises.

Uggggh.

practice on someone at work you don't particularly care if they're offended or not (i you could get away with it) ?

There is no such body, I like them all and have a similar amount of respect for each of them.

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11/8/2009 6:33:37 PM | IP

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Taurus:

I hate that I can sometimes get jealous in relationships. It makes me feel annoyed inside and my aqua moon will never allow me to show the jealousy, but to just hack it and get over it.

I hate the fact that I can be greedy when it comes to food unless you are poor or hungry then it's different I'll give up my meal for you. Other than that 'Joey don't share food', I can certainly relate to that part when I watch Friends lol, I hate that I feel annoyed inside if someone just dips their fork in my plate after they have filled their stomach and I am taking my time to enjoy the meal.

I hate the fact that when all my gf's would find something cute they make the OTT 'awwwwwwww' sound every minute and my mind just ends up going blank. I'd like to be able to join in the girly ahhhh's and ooooh's lol but it just doesn't happen.

I hate the fact that I am too stubborn. My peeps really dislike that about me because I won't budge etc.

I hate that I doubt a lot and think way too much into things. I am always getting told I think too much.

I hate how I am not a risk taker like the aries who love to live life on the edge. I'd love to be able to experience that excitement, but the taurus in me always says don't do it you'll get into trouble, better to be safe than sorry, but it can get boring with the whole safe route.

Finally I wish I could be more sensitive, but I am not, I'd rather want to toughen them up and tell them in my true blunt nature stop being such a pu55y. However, deep down I would like to understand how one can be more sensitive towards people.

Wow I'm such a hater lol.

fourthwallbreaker

11/7/2009 8:03:23 PM | IP

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Ooohh ,sweet ,worth a shot then.
That 2012 is either gonna be really butter in a 'triumph through adversity' sorta way, or be totally kick ass
(I liked the trailer with the monk running up the hill, that's the one that keeps me hoping,hahaha

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11/7/2009 6:56:12 PM | IP

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Posted by fourthwallbreaker
Was the watchmen a bit butter then ?
and yah, Rorscharch was kinda the bait for me in that trailer,heh

I wouldn't say it was sh** sh**. I was just disappointed by the lack of action and the long talky scenes about stuff in that stilted comic to movie transition way that movies like 300 and Sin City turn out.

I guess the long and short of it all is I felt like a sucker halfway through the film lol

It's funny 'cos Rorscharch mask-less did more damage and got a bit more down and dirty than Rorscharch masked. Go f**king figure. Very violent though. If not for the castration scene of that Yellow Dude it'd have beat Sin City in the violence stakes.

Rent it. Or save your money for 2012. Now THAT will be epic.

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11/7/2009 6:31:34 PM | IP

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Was the watchmen a bit butter then ?
and yah, Rorscharch was kinda the bait for me in that trailer,heh

normalisboring

11/7/2009 6:17:08 PM | IP

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"And the world will look up and shout: 'Save us!' And I'll whisper: 'NO.'"

I almost died when I heard that line in the trailer. I was like "oooooooooh snap!" lol I actually posted it as a status update back in the day when I used facebook lol

I want my money back

normalisboring

11/7/2009 6:10:34 PM | IP

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^^^^^^^

I f**king hate it when that happens.

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