Cougars or Sugar Daddies

I've been told by younger guys that the reasons they dont bother so much with girls their age is because...

1. they are only looking for security and someone to have babies with

2. they are loud and have no social graces

with looking at older women I would wonder if they are sexually curious as it is said that older women are more experienced and know how to look after a man...

as for older men.....would only look that way if they themselves took good care of their own health and bodies, who needs security when you already have it?

Virgo07

11/4/2009 1:44:59 PM | IP

19 years old male from New York

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lol my 48 year old libra dad is going out with a 25 year old, dunno her sign but im curious. i see marriage as a possibility but the kid thing comes into play as my dad doesnt want anymore kids. if they do get married, my brother's stepmother will be 2 years younger than him LOL. shes only 6 years older than me heh.

ninjamu

11/4/2009 1:06:54 PM | IP

27 years old female

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haha, "cougar" is my special nickname given to me by my taurus guy! he dubbed me as such the 1st night i met him cuz he found out i was a little older than him. seriously, most of his friends only know me by that name.

eden 3

11/4/2009 11:05:29 AM | IP

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hey rox "ps. i prefer younger men (or one specifically) cos he's at the threshold of his life, full of dreams and ambitions. men the same age as me have either done what they set out to do in life or they're bitter cos they haven't."

that is great insight thx

Loved-Up Roxi

11/4/2009 9:58:02 AM | IP

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i believe love is ageless. if the initial attraction isn't there......it doesn't develop into a love relationship anyway. i think perhaps it only becomes an issue if the younger partner wants kids and the older one doesn't (or is past it possibly).....but then, that could be an issue in any relationship.

what really pisses me off though is that whatever way around the age gap, the woman is always sneered at by some. if their man is younger, they are predatorial and if they're older they're gold-diggers.

whereas men get congratulated whether their woman is older or younger.

it's sooooooooo unfair but i don't care.......you should be able to love whomever you wish to love. it's no-one's business but your own

ps. i prefer younger men (or one specifically) cos he's at the threshold of his life, full of dreams and ambitions. men the same age as me have either done what they set out to do in life or they're bitter cos they haven't.

VirgoHero

11/3/2009 9:30:47 PM | IP

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Guys are better when we hit our 30's. We start to get our head out of our asses (myself absolutely included)

VirgoHero

11/3/2009 9:28:55 PM | IP

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I dated someone who was roughly 5-6 years older than me? I was in my mid 20's at the time? I didn't really see her as a Cougar or someone "older" than me.

Outside of DRASTIC differences in age (like someone in walker with Depends diapers on), doesn't it come down to just having butter to relate with each other on and wanting the same certain things out of life with?

eden 3

11/3/2009 3:25:29 PM | IP

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haha lr way too true! these were babies moon ! and u know they know nothing about what to do with it. but that confidence woo hoo i shoulda scared em by saying yes

fums thx ur so sweet. u like em young huh? im playing

ur attracting these youngings cuz ur beauty shines from within, age is just a number i have met some pretty stupid people in their 40's and some very bright people in their 20's vitality is what is youthful ur as old as u think u r.

oh and i'm sure ur hot looking too

i c more young men with women who r older lately. my friend j is 40 and her man is 25 a pro volley ball player :O

leos *swoons* they need to adore someone as much as they need to be adored (ll admit it) if they can not admire all ur qualities and receive ur full attention they will crave more. bad choice ur friend made based in the appeasement and adoration of others...the young chicky on the arm is so admirable (ya not really smart people c this for what it is) btw my dad was older than my grandma...so first hand knowledge

i used to have dreams of my hubby b4 i met him. i thought it was johnny depp hahaha i knew when we met eyes who he was..we got married fast i was on vacation when i met him just out of a long term rela. my friends told me to have a one night stand (neva my style) i came home married, packed and said goodbye, moved very far from friends & fam. he was alone too at this time. so we only had each other he traveled a lot so i kept busy with work we both became successful we moved a lot. we grew up together, became who we r. we r different than when we started (for good or bad) we know this. things change people grow. he was raised buddhist so we r both very spiritual. he is really funny and loves to mess with people just for reaction i spend time explaining hes just a joker...

we have worked together in the past our careers r similar. we relate on every level and r great friends. we just chat about life our souls have done this b4 we grew up over 3000 miles from each other yet met on a whim

destiny is fickle ;P

seavixen welcome

hugz

seavixen

11/3/2009 2:19:46 PM | IP

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FUMRedFairy_tales:

seavixen -- what's your sign please? Curious since you wrote you like scorps. Would you mind me asking why you wouldn't want to choose a younger man for a serious relation again. Since you were married to him, you were important to him. Where are the potholes of such relation?

I am wondering if it is the maturity level of his...?

I am a Pisces sun, Leo moon, Sag asc, venus Aqua, and mars Gemini

I wouldn't want to pursue another relationship (although if it's meant to be- it's meant to be) with another younger man because he was very immature, he hid it very well-UNTIL after we were married (he was a Libra). Crazy sex-for sure but he was controlling and very possesive. Because he was in his mid twenties...he had that "momma's boy" relationship with his mom and she meddled alot and that added to it. And thanks deemnsout4ever

LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

11/3/2009 1:56:28 PM | IP

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Posted by LibrasRule36!

I don't like when younger guys hit on me - I think they are still wet behind the ears and don't know how to clean their cornholes properly.

Young, dumb, and full of cum.

You treetrunkin crack me up Girl!!!!

I feel the same. I get hit on by young men all the time too. The popular age seems to be 22 these days. I myself don't particularly wish to be in a relationship with a much younger man, however I have found that I tend to end up with men around 30 because it's what Im attracted to. I like to think I dont quite look my true age and I certainly do NOT act it so I tend to draw younger men to me. Thankfully, I recently began dating someone who is my age and like myself is young at heart and doesnt look his age, so Im excited to see where it goes.

Age isnt always a factor in a relationship of course, but I do think that more often than not, there are issues that arise from it. Too much of an age gap can complicate things at different stages in the life cycle. But again, it depends on the individuals involved.

moon_eyes

11/3/2009 1:13:10 PM | IP

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lmao libra it is funny babies out of diapers trying to hit on women.

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