| Ok, my best friend (the scorp) and I (the ram) have gone through a rough patch lately. I've been busy with work and school, and other friends whereas she's been busy with work and her other best friend. It's gotten to the point where I'm apathetic when it comes to making plans with her (it's been going on for awhile).... but I think I really messed up now... her birthday was last tuesday and although I did wish her a happy birthday, I didn't go see her. In my defense, she didn't invite me to do anything nor did she ask me if I was working or what I was doing... not that that's a GOOD reason, but nevertheless. The next day I apologized for not seeing her and I said I just got caught up in doing other stuff. Well, she demanded to know what I was doing if I hadn't been working, and I refused to answer because I knew it would just make her mad. She even said "Ya on second thought, don't tell me." So I didn't. Now she won't talk to me. I texted her asking her to dinner, four days in advance and she said she couldn't both days I asked for. I told her that was fine, and that's the last I've heard from her which was 2 days ago... SO Scorpios.... what do I do to fix this? Would you act the same way as she is? |
Scorpio friend troubles... ARGH.
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| Leave her alone. I had a situation with an Aries female, she was staying with me and one night I went out and came home the next moring and she fixed her mouth to say "where have you been" well in my defense I told her "I am a grown ass women, how dare you questions me"... she would put stuff away in my house is different spot where I had it and that butter drove me up a wall.....I asked her not to hang her panties in the bathroom because my son was living there as well.... It was just crazy....finally 4 months after her staying with me. I told her she had to leave..... She moved out and I did not speak to her for 4 months. I had to tell her to go or the freindship would have ended...so to save face because I really did like her and care for her and we had 8 years of frendship.... Today we talk but not as much nor do we hang out as much. Again just give her space if she value your friendship she will call you. |
| As a matter of fact I just distance myself with the Aries male friend of mines for trying to force me to do something that I told him I did not want to do. What the hell is up with you Aries...Do you poeple just dont listen?  What's up with that? |
| aaahh... that was pretty funny read. Sorry am not making fun. I have an Aries girl at home. So for one thing, MissAries, I am not quite the social type unless invited, then I can be the centre of the party. However initiating social gatherings is not much my thing. If you felt your scorpio friend has not invited you to hang out, then you should have told her so. By telling her you were caught up in other stuff, means to me that you don't care enough to make some space that one day a year for me. Other stuff can sometimes wait. This is only because you two seem to be close enough that she questioned you. Otherwise she would have stayed quiet. I'm the opposite, I would suggest hassle her in this case. She may feel that you care for her, because the last time didn't sound like you did care. If she still doesn't respond, then leave her alone. |
| Scorpionlady -- I much agree with your Aries friend taking over the privacy of your house. My daughter does that too. Not that she leaves her undies around, but she takes up the space like her own. I have to ask her to put some of her items away in the bathroom. Even my fridge is labelled with items with her name on them. Then she tells... ha hahahaaaa... I'm just putting my name on it, but feel free to eat. She acts like my mother sometimes, but I like Aries for they can be very outspoken; with me at least. Usually they are very private, loud but they keep their feelings tucked in. One other good side of Aries is that they are very quickly forgiving. But hell... I had my share with Aries best friends too... still like them though |
| i agree with FUM...it happened that exactly for my birthday my best friend argued with me...and yes she asked you why you didn't went because as you and others say were close enough so you better have a GOOD reason missing her bday wich was totaly important that you'd be there.. anyways...try to get closer to her...my best friend after 2 days of waiting camed with this line "can i dare to say hello to you?" and he apologised..anyways i think you should try to keep in contact with her because in that way she'll see that you care alot about this friendship. oh and yea..don't wait that she comes at you..she won't come most probably. |
| ....I feel like she will come around eventually... If it was me , and I wanted to stay friends with this person... Id just keep trying until they gave in. I feel like she will give in, but just needs time to show you how upset she is about it all... give her some time, and it will all come good I am sure... birthdays are funny things... some people get so upset. ,, while others are not really that fussed... so I guess we just have to understand, and have patience for the upset ones.. |
| She is hurt, stop trying to talk to her. If she feels she is wrong she will say sorry. |
| lol this is funny, because my birthday was last wednesday and my best friend (of over 10 years) is also an aries. She didn't come to my birthday party.. instead she chose to be with her man. I'll admit my feelings were hurt, but I didn't get all fussy with her or mean. I accepted her apology, it's whatever. But I'm starting to accept that we have grown apart. Scorps are so damn sensitive... it's in our blood LOL you'll have to forgive us. |
Posted by LovelyMissAries I never said you hasseled her but all that calling and begging her to talk to you is not going to work. You have to give her space to think and get over the hurt realized that it was immature and she will call you. How old is she? Posted by scorpio_chic I agree we are very sensitive, I feel like I have grown apart from my aries friend as well the male and the female, I think about them sometimes, the female aries and I we still talk but not all the time. She keeps asking me to hang out with her but I am not in the mood for her kind. So I will be spending my birthday this weeknend with my Leo best friend for over 20 years. Again if she treasure the friendship she will call you |
| Eh. Like they said she's hurt and frankly kinda being a baby about it. No worries. I understand you feel bad and want to make things right but you did what you could and she's clearly trying to make you feel bad. Don't let her do it. It sucked that you missed her bday. I'm a total diva on MY day lol but no harm done in the long run. She really needs to get over it especially if you tried to make up for it. Let her be and if you haven't heard from her in a month or so  give her another ring and go from there. If she holds the grudge for THAT long she's not really a good friend. There's only so much you can do. Like you said ... the ball is in her court now. |
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