Scorpio friend troubles... ARGH.

So is it a BIG sign that I haven't talked to her in two weeks and she suddenly commented my status on Facebook? Because if this is her way to try and make-up, it's not happening.

BrightasOrion

11/15/2009 12:30:20 AM | IP

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This is scary. I see all Scorpio's this year are having birthday issues with friends. Same scenerio on my birthday last month but ended EXTREMELY bad. I will never be communicating with that BROAD again. She a fire sign too. Wow! Saturn in the twelve house is cleaning house for Scorp's and helping to end things that have out lived itself. Or maybe I am crazy.

Scorpionlady

11/7/2009 2:40:52 PM | IP

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Just let her the whole issue is very immature. I was suppose. I was suppose to go out last night with my leo gf of 20+ years, it was 830 last night and normally she would be calling to check and see if I aws getting dress I was not. I realize that we were noy going out. I txted her and said are you alright? She said yeah, then I said so we are not going out and she said she ws tired and she was sorry. I said no problem and have a good night. To be honest I was a bit tired because I hung out with my gem the night before so when she cancelled iwas not upset. I did get a bit disturb, because she would not have called me had I not texted her.

LovelyMissAries

11/7/2009 9:51:42 AM | IP

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She STILL isn't paying any attention to me. Honestly, this is NOT that big of a deal. And when I come back, if that happens, she'll say "Well you never texted me!" or "All I wanted was an apology." As if me trying to take her out to dinner wasn't enough. She has a moon in Capricorn, what's that mean? That she can hold out for a long time?

LovelyMissAries

11/6/2009 9:03:17 AM | IP

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Haha, thank you for the validation.

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11/6/2009 1:01:58 AM | IP

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Posted by LovelyMissAries
WHA?? (makes wide eyes) GINGERSCORP is agreeing with me? Well thank ya!

Yep she is... I don't blame her though really, it's learned behavior from her Sagittarius mother.

LOL You're suprised? Am I that terrible?

lol

Anyway, I can see why she's upset because like I said I'm a DIVA on "my" day and I want my besties around me but I don't think her trying to punish you is mature especially when you didn't mean to upset her and you tried to make it right. She's being a emo baby. She needs to accept that you are being genuine in your trying to make things right, be a good friend, forget it and move on. Friends are way more important then Bdays.

LovelyMissAries

11/5/2009 9:01:35 AM | IP

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WHA?? (makes wide eyes) GINGERSCORP is agreeing with me? Well thank ya!

Yep she is... I don't blame her though really, it's learned behavior from her Sagittarius mother.

Gingerscorp

11/5/2009 3:59:11 AM | IP

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Eh. Like they said she's hurt and frankly kinda being a baby about it. No worries. I understand you feel bad and want to make things right but you did what you could and she's clearly trying to make you feel bad. Don't let her do it.

It sucked that you missed her bday. I'm a total diva on MY day lol but no harm done in the long run. She really needs to get over it especially if you tried to make up for it.

Let her be and if you haven't heard from her in a month or so

give her another ring and go from there. If she holds the grudge for THAT long she's not really a good friend.

There's only so much you can do. Like you said ... the ball is in her court now.

LovelyMissAries

11/4/2009 9:44:57 AM | IP

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Posted by Scorpionlady
Posted by LovelyMissAries
Scorpionlady... compared to other Aries, I've hardly hassled her. And that one day I DID text her, was 4 days after not hearing from her which of course I know is because she's trying to prove/tell/show me something...whatever, since then I have not contacted her.

I never said you hasseled her but all that calling and begging her to talk to you is not going to work.

You have to give her space to think and get over the hurt realized that it was immature and she will call you.

How old is she?

I'm 20 (21 in April) and she just turned 22. Honestly.. I haven't even called her, it was just that ONE text-er-sation. If I were in her position, I would resume as normal after a couple of days... not play "catch me if you can which I won't let you because you didn't do anything for my birthday."

Scorpionlady

11/4/2009 9:41:45 AM | IP

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Posted by LovelyMissAries
Scorpionlady... compared to other Aries, I've hardly hassled her. And that one day I DID text her, was 4 days after not hearing from her which of course I know is because she's trying to prove/tell/show me something...whatever, since then I have not contacted her.

I never said you hasseled her but all that calling and begging her to talk to you is not going to work.

You have to give her space to think and get over the hurt realized that it was immature and she will call you.

How old is she?

Posted by scorpio_chic
lol this is funny, because my birthday was last wednesday and my best friend (of over 10 years) is also an aries. She didn't come to my birthday party.. instead she chose to be with her man. I'll admit my feelings were hurt, but I didn't get all fussy with her or mean. I accepted her apology, it's whatever. But I'm starting to accept that we have grown apart.

Scorps are so damn sensitive... it's in our blood LOL you'll have to forgive us.

I agree we are very sensitive,

I feel like I have grown apart from my aries friend as well the male and the female, I think about them sometimes, the female aries and I we still talk but not all the time. She keeps asking me to hang out with her but I am not in the mood for her kind. So I will be spending my birthday this weeknend with my Leo best friend for over 20 years.

Again if she treasure the friendship she will call you

LovelyMissAries

11/4/2009 3:01:16 AM | IP

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As long as I know that I'm not being insensitive... I mean I TRIED (still secretly GOING TO try because I have a Taurus moon and Venus in Aries which ultimately makes me LOYAL) then it's whatever... the ball is in her court. It's just highly annoying, esp. considering her other "best friend" missed her birthday two or three years in a row. Oh wait, THEY didn't talk for a month... albeit her other best friend is a bloody idiot...

scorpio_chic

11/4/2009 2:30:18 AM | IP

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lol this is funny, because my birthday was last wednesday and my best friend (of over 10 years) is also an aries. She didn't come to my birthday party.. instead she chose to be with her man. I'll admit my feelings were hurt, but I didn't get all fussy with her or mean. I accepted her apology, it's whatever. But I'm starting to accept that we have grown apart.

Scorps are so damn sensitive... it's in our blood LOL you'll have to forgive us.

LovelyMissAries

11/3/2009 8:49:02 PM | IP

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Scorpionlady... compared to other Aries, I've hardly hassled her. And that one day I DID text her, was 4 days after not hearing from her which of course I know is because she's trying to prove/tell/show me something...whatever, since then I have not contacted her.

Scorpionlady

11/3/2009 8:20:39 PM | IP

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She is hurt, stop trying to talk to her. If she feels she is wrong she will say sorry.

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