Well, just when I thought things were looking up with my pisces guy and thinking he has decided to let me back in he is silent again  This past weekend was awesome and he seemed so much like his old self, said he missed seeing me and couldn't get enough of me and then he disappears. I realize it's only Tuesday lol but why does he do this. Is he worried about his feelings toward me or is he playing games? I never thought that pisces played games but now I'm not so sure. |
ugh...why do you guys do this
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| its not a game... thats just how we roll... |
| hmmm, as a pisces female, I only swim away if my feelings get hurt, or if I feel someone is playing me, or if I'm overwhelmed. Try calling his bluff and asking him what his deal is point blank. If he says "nothing" then he is lying but wants you to probe further so he can spill his guts. I have noticed (myself included) that us Pisces, males and females sometimes try to "stuff" our emotions because we are emotional and we have been made to feel like being "too emotional" or "too sensitive" is a bad thing.. |
| not talking to you for a few days is hardly swimming away from someone... and second she doesnt have him in her fish tank, so he cant really swim away from her.. |
Posted by ianthefish Meaning what exactly? I am beyond frustrated with this. I mean if he wants to go then just go. Seriously WHY does this happen Ian. |
| And i know it's only been a couple of days so really why am I upset?? Kinna silly but I can't help it with this guy. I don't mean to come across as pisces bashing because I'm not at all. He has always said he doesn't play games and is very different from any other guy etc. and then he does this butter. If it's not game playing then what is it?? |
Posted by seavixen Being emotional with me has never been a problem for either of us. He was always very open with his feelings...once he let me in that is. He would tell me things I know he had never told another soul. I was stupid, hurt him and pushed him away and I just want to know if he still has feelings and deep down wishes we could go back to what we had or not. |
Posted by fedupgirlPosted by ianthefish i think what he's trying to say is that's how pisces are and that's something ur gonna have to accept or move on. my good pisces buddy will disappear from everyone for weeks at a time sometimes. they'll space out in their own little world and reflect on life and the universe or what-have-u. they don't feel it's necessary to contact u every single day or even every other day. my pisces friend and i may talk to each other every day for a few days straight and then not for a week or so. he's made it very clear that he likes his space from ppl which is fine cuz i do too. anyway, if ur frustrated then u need to let him know. most relationships of any kind take effort and i understand the need to compromise. please don't expect or try to change him. if he expresses to u that that is just how he is then u need to either accept it or cut ur losses and get out. don't mould urself to suit him either. u both reserve the right to be urselves at all times and if there are just too many incompatibilities that causes rifts and misery then don't be afraid to let it go. ian can't tell u what is on ur pisces' mind. it's best to get it straight from the source. never be afraid to ask for what u want. |
Posted by katica I totally understand his need for space and I totally respect that. It's not that I think he needs to keep in contact everyday, it's just that why was everything so good and then all of a sudden nothing? I'm left here wondering if he has regrets of starting to open up to me again and that is why he is silent. I know Ian (or anyone else for that matter) cannot speak to what his intentions are or what he is thinking but I was hoping for some insight into the pisces male mind. Yes, I should just ask him but I know from past experience that he will not always answer or will get angry and disappear for a long time. |
| i dont answer phone calls, i say ill be out and dont come out, i dont respond to emails sometimes, i dont listen to my voice mails for weeks even months at a time, i do the disappearing act a lot...once didnt talk to anyone i know for well over a year...work is the only place i went.. then it was home, thats it... my life isnt a game... its just my life.... its the only way i know how to live... |
Posted by ianthefish Wow, you sound so much like my pisces. Makes me want to give you a big hug. Sometimes he just shut himself off from the world completely for awhile. I don't think work helps him at all since it's also stressful so i fully understand his need for alone time. I do not want to lose this man since I know he is the best thing that has ever happened to me I don't know if just sending funny notes is making things worse and I don't know if I leave him alone that he'll think "I am just like the rest" whoever happens to piss him off that day. I really am at a loss as to what to think. |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| that's a bunch of bs right there^^^^^^^ I do that to but not for a year and not to someone I'm romantically involved with.and fedup girl,why would you want someone you can't be honest with and ask?he gets mad or disappears for a long time.....eff that.who wants to walk on eggshells to keep someone? |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| woops....that was supposed to come out under Ian,but I'm slow. |
Posted by BellaBulleautiful LOL, i was wondering about that. |
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