Critical thinking part 2

Posted by sortilege85
Have you ever allowed yourself to show close friends, family's or lovers your real thoughts and/or intentions?

What have they thought of you?

my reaally close friends see for who i really im there are amazing that im so humble kind and thoughful and i will do anything to protect just like ma family ma family loves me alot even tho they tease me saying i can be bipolar at times
and i always have ma head in tha clouds lmfao but they care about me alot tho im the youngest when it comes to ma brothers and
sister.

ma moms always baby me alot wen i was younger lmao

i was neva close to ma father so i neva really care about him to much.

sortilege85

11/6/2009 1:36:31 AM | IP

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By my record, I've always been a strong person to handle any situation on my own. I went through grade school and college on my own. I found a job and bought my car off my father to use for long-distance jobs and to socialize with a few close friends. I fought my way out of the ghetto into a very nice suburb were i reside now. I'd say I have done a good amount in the time that i've been living without much help besides the support of my close friends and my mom. So this idea hit me when i was at the super-market buying myself some more good ol' Minute Maid "FRUIT PUNCH".

It was quite interesting...

Why is it that virgos go out of their way, if felt worthy, to give others happiness to feel achieved, can't they equally feel as happy if somebody gave them everything what is wanted to feel that same fullfillment? Can't they not allow others to be at service to them, so they can relax and laze around for once?

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11/6/2009 1:47:24 AM | IP

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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by sortilege85
Have you ever allowed yourself to show close friends, family's or lovers your real thoughts and/or intentions?

What have they thought of you?

my reaally close friends see for who i really im there are amazing that im so humble kind and thoughful and i will do anything to protect just like ma family ma family loves me alot even tho they tease me saying i can be bipolar at times
and i always have ma head in tha clouds lmfao but they care about me alot tho im the youngest when it comes to ma brothers and
sister.

ma moms always baby me alot wen i was younger lmao

i was neva close to ma father so i neva really care about him to much.

Thats true, same here, with my friends they all know me very, very well. I've known my libra friend and his virgo brother, like my 2 other brothers, before i was even born and that was way back then. Yeah, i get what you mean by bi-polar everyone accused me of that from time to time because i'd joke and have fun with people but once they start crossing lines i put them in their place (aries in moon) and the following minute i'd be back to being cheerful haha. Yeah, every dudes mom loves their little boys. I was lucky mom was a taurus; she taught me great lessons that i'll never forget.

Cajunspirit

11/6/2009 10:06:16 AM | IP

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Posted by sortilege85

It was quite interesting...

Why is it that virgos go out of their way, if felt worthy, to give others happiness to feel achieved, can't they equally feel as happy if somebody gave them everything what is wanted to feel that same fullfillment? Can't they not allow others to be at service to them, so they can relax and laze around for once?

For me, no I can not.
I just have this internal drive to do things on my own and owe nothing to anyone.

I believe in personal strength and self sufficiency. I HATE help from others yet I love to lend a hand.

It's all part of the Virgo Paradox.

Sekhmet

11/6/2009 10:27:03 AM | IP

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Sounds like my partner as well (cancer/virgo/virgo).
She is constantly doing stuff to take care of me & the household, and won't make time to relax, even though that is important to one's well-being too.
When I get home from work and she's had a day off, she greets me with a list of all the stuff she's done, like I'm going to walk in the door and start judging her by that. Over time, I've learned to accept that being that way makes her feel good, even if it sounds like a major pain to me.

We've had go-rounds about chores & such before. She gets upset once in a while if it seems like she's pulling all the weight, but if I ask her to knock it back some and leave chores for me to do in my own way, she can't do it. We're finally to the point where we both know she's just going to do most of certain things, and I'm going to do most of certain other things.

But having the cancer mixed in with virgo makes her a little twitchy sometimes

curious visitor

11/6/2009 4:15:15 PM | IP

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Why is it that virgos go out of their way, if felt worthy, to give others happiness to feel achieved, can't they equally feel as happy if somebody gave them everything what is wanted to feel that same fullfillment? Can't they not allow others to be at service to them, so they can relax and laze around for once?

because relaxing is hard work for you? "working" on things that don't require too much thought is much more relaxing.

from the virgos i've known, i don't think any really believe it's even possible to just get everythign they want, without working for it. besides, working is what they really want. the stuff it gets them is just proof that they did a good job, which is what makes them happy. doing things right, feeling valued for their contribution.

the best way to be of service to a virgo is to tell them how awesome they are for what they do, how hard they work, etc. at least the ones i know. one could very well convince a virgo to relax by telling them it's necessary for a healthy life, then praise them for how good they were at letting go and relaxing for a bit and now they can get back to work.

but maybe you aren't all like that?

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11/6/2009 5:49:15 PM | IP

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Posted by curious visitor
Why is it that virgos go out of their way, if felt worthy, to give others happiness to feel achieved, can't they equally feel as happy if somebody gave them everything what is wanted to feel that same fullfillment? Can't they not allow others to be at service to them, so they can relax and laze around for once?

because relaxing is hard work for you? "working" on things that don't require too much thought is much more relaxing.

from the virgos i've known, i don't think any really believe it's even possible to just get everythign they want, without working for it. besides, working is what they really want. the stuff it gets them is just proof that they did a good job, which is what makes them happy. doing things right, feeling valued for their contribution.

the best way to be of service to a virgo is to tell them how awesome they are for what they do, how hard they work, etc. at least the ones i know. one could very well convince a virgo to relax by telling them it's necessary for a healthy life, then praise them for how good they were at letting go and relaxing for a bit and now they can get back to work.

but maybe you aren't all like that?

I learned to appreciate what others do for me now. After everyone kept pushing me to let others handle choirs, it became easier for me to just sit around my house doodling or creating ideas for songs that i make on my guitar with my friends, the other two on my default picture. Yet, i still do a good amount for friends and for myself when things are needed to be done.

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11/6/2009 7:25:57 PM | IP

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My friend before is Virgo he says his thinkings sometimes I thinking wow I wishes I am to say those things so clear!

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