He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not?

I took a non-verbal communication class a long time ago and remember that if the opposite sex likes you, they wouldn't try to move their leg away if it was subtly touching yours. So it's a good sign, right?

We went back to his place and he prepared me dinner because he remembered that I always get hungry every few hours. I have a big appetite for my petite size.

We laid next to each other, attempted to go to sleep but was having so much fun just talking and laughing until like 4 in the morning. He can really talk up a storm!!!! And as with the first time I spent time with him, we really really make great great GREAT conversation. He definitely knows how to make me laugh and I make him laugh as well.

You are his........

I'm happy for you !

youthful.foolishness

11/13/2009 1:10:26 PM | IP

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Awwww....... I like happy stories...

BaBy-GrL414

11/13/2009 8:28:37 AM | IP

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AWE!!! Girl you cooked a meal for him later?? THEY LOVE THAT

That story is so sweet! I wish you the best with him, these bull men, are addicting!!!

Ardent_Bliss

11/13/2009 4:29:51 AM | IP

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anyway, once I kissed him, it was hard to stop. I was caressing his face, running my fingers through his hair and neck, all the while, my breath and tip of my nose is lingering on his face... I placed another kiss on his cheek again, then the corner of his lips... then lightly bit his bottom lips, unsure of where and how to approach this urge to kiss him so much and so passionately. I release his lip from the nimble grasp of my teeth, and kissed him again, he responds... he perked his lips and kissed me back, both of our lips tenderly embracing and grazing each others slowly... God, I wanted to just consume him... But I managed to poise myself and and control my passion. I apologized and he said, "There's nothing to be sorry about." So I turn around and he's cuddling me from behind, and I notice that he's whimsically running his fingers on my back, FIRST time he showed any sign of initiating affection by voluntarily touching me. We both did finally fall asleep. When we finally woke up, we just laid in bed, procrastinating to wake up and get moving. I finally had to get out of bed because I needed to start my day, so I gave him a kiss on the cheek and said time for a shower!

When he was ready to go to work, he said I could stay as long as I needed. And I told him I would cook some breakfast first and then will head out. He gives me a BIG hug before he walks out the door for work and I grabbed him by his face and looked into his eyes and told him to have a good day. He said, "I'm going to be so exhausted at work. But I'll be thinking of you to help me through the day." When I was cooking at his place and he arrived at work, he texted me and I told him I was currently cooking him some food so he'd have something to eat when he comes home later. I also texted that I wished he was there with me. And his response was, "Same!!" AND, since my morning class was canceled, he said that I could've came into work with him that morning because his workplace needed extra help...

Sorry for the super long post. =) =)

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11/13/2009 4:28:54 AM | IP

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I took some of your guys (gals) advice... haha Okay, I'm not the most forward person but I really tried. So here goes my update of current events, and hopefully more to come.

So the Taurus took me out and vowed to brighten up my night because I was having a really terrible day. On our date, I had my arms wrapped around his (I initiated, of course) and his leg was touching mine but he didn't make an attempt to try to move it or anything. I took a non-verbal communication class a long time ago and remember that if the opposite sex likes you, they wouldn't try to move their leg away if it was subtly touching yours. So it's a good sign, right?

We went back to his place and he prepared me dinner because he remembered that I always get hungry every few hours. I have a big appetite for my petite size.

We laid next to each other, attempted to go to sleep but was having so much fun just talking and laughing until like 4 in the morning. He can really talk up a storm!!!! And as with the first time I spent time with him, we really really make great great GREAT conversation. He definitely knows how to make me laugh and I make him laugh as well. At one point in the evening, he told me briefly about the last girl he dated and how it didn't work because she became jealous and demanding and that the more she liked him, the less he liked her. He said he wanted a girl who isn't always looking to be in a relationship. I briefly told him that when his friend (Bob) first met me, he asked me out on a date. And he was like, "Oh, why didn't you go?" and I just said, "No way!" I also told him not to tell Bob that I told him this and he said, "Well... If Bob didn't tell me he asked you out on a date then Bob obviously didn't want me to know about it." And I also said that I think relationships need to come very naturally and not be forced, which he agrees with me.

When I finally drifted off to sleep, he was cuddling me, his feet touching my feet and our fingers interlocking. Just the most comfortable feeling and most natural to be with him. Anyway, while asleep, my coughing woke me up and he was all, "Are you okay? Do you need water?" and I just nodded and said I was okay. Then I turned around to face him and asked, "Were you awake this entire time?" He said yes, he couldn't sleep. I said sorry, then gave him a kiss on the cheek.

seavixen

11/10/2009 8:15:00 AM | IP

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thank you Da_Bull

DaBull_isDaShit

11/9/2009 10:25:36 PM | IP

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That is so sweet seavixen! I love seeing elderly couples it makes my heart melt and you can really see the love between them-envious!
'Alpha-Female' you defo got that right

p.s i really like your hair, looks like a ghd straightners/curlers ad, very classy-L'oreal, because you're worth it

seavixen

11/9/2009 10:08:13 PM | IP

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I know its corny..but I couldn't resist

But it just may work...my grandmother and grandfather are both bulls, my grandmother is def. an alpha female bull..she runs the show and is almost downright bossy! My grandfather just thinks she is wonderful and looks at her with these dreamy puppy eyes, if she wants something-she has it...he doesn't bat an eyelash. She doesn't drive and he takes her everywhere-sits out in the car reading the paper while she is in the mall shopping..etc, it's adorable to see them

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11/9/2009 8:13:30 PM | IP

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Posted by seavixen
try taking the bull by the horns...he might like it

Oooh yeah please:p

deb963

11/9/2009 8:10:28 PM | IP

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LOL. Tame him girl.

seavixen

11/9/2009 8:02:04 PM | IP

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try taking the bull by the horns...he might like it

DaBull_isDaShit

11/9/2009 7:45:41 PM | IP

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haha you can tell a lot from looking at taurus folks eyes, they have that twinkle when they like someone

But he sure does sound like a true gentleman.

The fact that he spent good times with you one on one is a big thing, he must like you to be giving his precious time to you and not other ladies. We don't like to waste our time with people who don't mean anything to us. Remember you can tell a lot from our actions, cos they sure do speak louder than our words.

You can try these following approaches:

1) the direct approach, it's the most common with the bulls so ask him straight up!

2) a lot of bulls can be shy about making the first move, so may be you should...

3) if he is shy, then you could try be assertive we love that quality. You could indicate to him that you like him e.g 'you look gorgeous today/tonight, can I have you for myself (sexy smile and a wink)', may be compliment him if you can and that way you are kind of opening the doors for him to make a move...we do fear rejection a lot.

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11/8/2009 9:01:46 AM | IP

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You should listen to Ninja...shes always right. (seriously)

ninjamu

11/6/2009 3:50:20 PM | IP

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is someone holding a gun to ur head? of course u can do that because u are in control of ur actions. u may have to step out of ur comfort zone and take the risk. the worst that could happen is rejection... which is not the end of the world. ur not gonna die of embarrassment either. u'll be just fine.

i must re-iterate that taurus are attracted to strong individuals with confidence. if ur not even strong enough to inform him that u would like to, as u say "hang out more", then it's probably best to leave it alone. what sucks is that he may truly like u but maybe he can sense this in u which might be somewhat of a turn-off. i have a significant amount of taurus male friends, and one who is a lover, and they will still befriend those that are not as strong. they may even play around with them but they won't fall in love with them.

i seem to attract taurus men the most. they say taurus are slow movers and they attract u to them. i think it just takes a certain kind of person to make them really move. cuz when they zone in they go for what they want and with force!

besides, u need to tell that voice inside ur head to stfu! don't let anyone, or anything, make u feel like u don't deserve what u want. most of the time we are our own worst enemies.

Ardent_Bliss

11/6/2009 2:40:21 PM | IP

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What if I can't do that? =X I'm not a direct person at all.

Are there any other ways I can let him know I want to hang out more often?

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