Scorpio on here should start charging fee$...

We haven't spoken about this yet and it's bound to come up tonight when he calls (we're long distance right now until he moves back up here in January.)

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11/6/2009 9:41:30 AM | IP

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Leave him alone and let him work.

Appreciate that he called and told you his whole schedule. I don'think he penciled you in he was busy and he took the time to care enough to call you and tell you his plans. He might have gotten home and was to tired to come over or call.

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I agree with Scorpionlady,

I personally hate to squeeze people in and I usually don't. I fully concentrate on what's at hand and free up when I'm done. I leave and they hear about me when I get back. I'll only feel obligated to squeeze a love one in, believing that it's my job to do so.

I think, him trying to get in touch while he's busy, is a good thing. A good thing, in terms of where you stand with him. Where you stand inside of him but I don't know your relationship. So I will say try to average him up in your assessment. What I mean by that is, if you've known each other for lets say 2 years. Judged him based on 2 years, average how his been in 2 years and not how he's been today.

So if that's how he usually is with you, it's not good. If it's only how he is on this trip, you should see it as just that.

Scorpionlady

11/6/2009 10:59:53 AM | IP

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Hey Ray what is going on? Where have you been? Taking a break from the DXPster

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11/6/2009 12:07:00 PM | IP

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Posted by seavixen
yet another question for you guys, I'm sure ya'll are just plain tired of "us" other signs asking you stuff and I'm sure there are already threads just like this one but I have yet to have time to really investigate but here goes: I'm kind of upset with my scorpio man. He went on a business trip this week for three days in which he only texted me once for about 5 minutes..which is cool. I understand he was focused and he had a mission to accomplish while away, I actually appreciated that he took the time to even check in on me. But when he got home (he was home 2hours) when he called me from a place to get something to eat. He said "I only have a minute before my food arrives but I wanted to call you. I'm meeting so and so right after to go do some things for the night." He continued to go on and on about his trip...and I started increasingly fuming on the inside. To make this short and to the point, we got off the phone and I took a minute to reflect why I was feeling mad. Communication is very important to him, so I texted him back and told him that he kind of hurt my feelings because we've barely had a minute to talk and I felt like he merely penciled me in the time slot before he got his food and it made me feel unimportant. blockquote>

There's a keyword in your post, seavixen. It's "business trip". See, what i'm going to say will make me seem like an butthole, but I don't care, it's for you to think about.

See to me it seems like its an unacknowledged fear that he will cheat that is the problem more than you just missing him and needing attention and him not giving it. I don't know the guy and you never said anything to show that you question his fidelity, but still the time we live in right now loyalty is a rare thing.

I don't know what your relationship is like but when he's in the same vicintiy/place as you and stuff, do you guys talk frquently on the phone? If yeah, you still have nothing to worry about, except that you confronting him about it will instigate something in future.

I say all this because I just don't understand the concept of relationships and being around one another all the time. Love these days is superficial, most people are with their lovers more because its the norm or they just don't want to be alone.

So the main gist of this is to just know why you're with this guy and why he is with you. It isn't really that much of a big

normalisboring

11/6/2009 12:08:51 PM | IP

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What.

The.

F**K?

DXPNET!!!!!!

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11/6/2009 12:11:03 PM | IP

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The summary is him calling only once isn't a that much a big deal unless he's got a record of cheating. Therefore, you confronting him about it may not have been for the best.

His behaviour is more a guy thing than being a scorp, there's things that don't even cross our minds, such as "Will me calling her once make her feel i'm just squeezing her in?"

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11/6/2009 12:12:01 PM | IP

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But what do I know, i'm not even a scorp.

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11/6/2009 12:31:42 PM | IP

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11/6/2009 12:37:17 PM | IP

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I think I'll just be thankful he made it home all intact and see how he is in talking with me. If he brings it up and wants to talk about it..we'll go from there. He knows he hurt my feelings already so...I guess I'll just go with the flow of how the conversation goes. Thank you all for taking the time to respond to my post and your helpful advice. I appreciate so very much.

Rays Heart

11/6/2009 1:02:36 PM | IP

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Hey Ray what is going on? Where have you been? Taking a break from the DXPster

Hello SL,

Yeah I took a break from dxp and now I'm taking a break from work. I'm off for a bit, I don't feel like working in this special time, you know? lol
I'll be posting here and there, in the next few days.

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11/6/2009 1:07:13 PM | IP

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I thought you were Sea Siren there for a minute in another persona............guess not. I MISS HER!!!!!!! Anyway - normally I'd love a chance to bash the guy - LOL - but this time YOU are definitely the one over-reacting. whew! High maintenance? Give the guy a break - he's on the road and busy. I know how that is - barely have time enough to get a phone call out sometimes in the course of the day. The point is - he called.

Rays Heart

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Seavixen,

If that is how you feel than that's what it is, you just have to know, what comes from you and what comes from him. Communication is the key and if that is how you feel,
you should let him know.. Hiding your concerns won't do any good. At least he will know and hopefully you can work on something that will satisfy you two. All the best!

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Posted by Rays Heart
Posted by Scorpionlady
Hey Ray what is going on? Where have you been? Taking a break from the DXPster

Hello SL,

Yeah I took a break from dxp and now I'm taking a break from work. I'm off for a bit, I don't feel like working in this special time, you know? lol
I'll be posting here and there, in the next few days.

Yea I feel you

after today I will be off celebrating my special day for the next 2 weeks. It's hard to spread myself around to all my fans,freinds, family, and lovers in one day so it will take about two weeks to get it all done.

Wishing you a Happy Birthday

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