do aries men come back?

2/7/2011 11:34:53 AM | More
mimi97

ok so my aries guy just broke up with me after 6 months of dating...we had a great relationship...i can tell that he really loved me bc he would always want to see me, was affectionate when he was with me, introduced me to his immediate family and friends, would always contact me and buy me things..the reason why he broke up with me was because he decided to go to med school in russia for 6 yrs in september....he told me that he cant do long distance relationships and its better just to end things now...he told me how he really cares about me and the last thing that he would wanna do is hurt me...and then he was like i dont know if you want to be cool with me or not....i was speechless...i didnt expect this coming from him cause we had a really good relationship...i can tell that he was upset too just by the sound of his voice and he told me that he hasnt been sleeping over this...he really broke my heart...i just want to know do aries men ever come back?? will he miss me?? we used to talk everyday...im a libra if this helps
2/7/2011 12:33:28 PM | More
mimi97

hello anyone there???
2/7/2011 12:40:17 PM | More
mimi97

u think so mystic?? if im patient and i dont contact him...u think he will contact me??
2/7/2011 12:40:37 PM | More
mimi97

im like so hurt...u have no idea...i did not expect this to happen
2/7/2011 1:55:56 PM | More
mimi97

thanks mystic for that...mystic he broke up with me on saturday...and i have not called him...im trying my best to be strong and get busy with my life...im just wondering if he regrets what he did? he did tell me how im a great girl and the last thing he wants to do is hurt me (which he did)
2/7/2011 3:16:52 PM | More
mimi97

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2/7/2011 3:19:25 PM | More
mimi97

details honestly im not sure what he meant by that but i didnt even say anything...i was speechless
2/7/2011 3:26:29 PM | More
maryjane

34 years old female

Hey Mimi, sorry to hear about your situation.
I don't think this is down to him being aries or any other sign though. He is moving abroad, new country, new experiences and sooo long distance relationships are not easy.
It sounds that he really likes you and he is being very honest. Perhaps being an aries he is just being practical, almost like if he could predict how difficult it would be to have a proper relationship in those circumstances. My advice, as hard as it might be, is for you to accept it. And let him know you accept his decision but also let him know you will be there for him as a friend. Be interested in the new phase in his life, show support and don't upset him. I'm sure if he likes you, and it seems he does, he is not taking the break up lightly.
Once he settles and get organised he will have time enough to miss you. Men like stronger women too. So as much as it will hurt, don't cut all the ties, accept it, be his friend and let time see what will happen. He will probably meet other women but you will be the one who stood by him even when he decided to move to another continent.
Like mysticram said: Perhaps if you give him the freedom to find that balance while still loving unconditionally he will reciprocate in kind.

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