Cheating spouses

6/29/2012 5:37:52 PM | IP
OceanDeep



Eat it biAtches. Cancer Sun

Hey guys and gals!

What would make a married Aries cheat?

I know two that have cheated on their spouses, one Aries gal and the other an Aries guy... that last I spoke with her, she was ready to leave her husband for her lover; The Aries guy didnt really elaborate why he slept with someone else, only to say there's way more behind why and he wasn't ready to talk about it except to say them/their marriage is not what everyone thinks it is and not this fairytale everyone thinks it/they are. The person he cheated with wasnt planned, although he said he had always attracted to her. Both have kids (one child each.

I know Aries can be flirty, but I always found them to be faithful in love. What is the breaking point in their (your) mind, relationship, etc. to actually sleep with someone behind a spouses back?
7/2/2012 1:28:46 PM | IP
ari3sfire

female from Mars

More Athena than Aries.

If Aries is truly in love - they'll be marytr about it because we really do believe in love.
But cheating comes in if an Aries is being neglected usually. Long term. Aries typically love an attentive partner and if that changes, they'll hang on, plead, beg, actually want to talk about the relationship (which really burns them up because they have to be humble) after that they withdraw. And it's in the withdrawal phase they are likely drawn into cheating.
7/7/2012 12:19:11 PM | IP
OceanDeep



Eat it biAtches. Cancer Sun

Posted by ari3sfire
If Aries is truly in love - they'll be marytr about it because we really do believe in love.
But cheating comes in if an Aries is being neglected usually. Long term. Aries typically love an attentive partner and if that changes, they'll hang on, plead, beg, actually want to talk about the relationship (which really burns them up because they have to be humble) after that they withdraw. And it's in the withdrawal phase they are likely drawn into cheating.


This really seems to be what happened with my girlfriend, I don't know as much with my guyfriend because I don't see him as often. And too, he hasn't elaborated as much but said sometime he'd tell me about it. I know, or at least what he said, was his concern is their small child and said because of that would be the reason for him to stay when I asked why not divorce.

As for my girlfriend she and I were best friends for a few years, work acqaintances before that and always chatted. You would've never known there was problems, during that time. Having gotten much closer to her, she slowly started telling me how lonely she was although even then it really seemed like they had an ideal marriage. I guess it shows sometimes how people can really be struggling on the inside if their needs aren't being met or they don't feel fulfilled. She tried talking to him several times, and at one point started divorce proceedings. Shortly after that they moved away, he was on the road again and that's when the affair started.
1/14/2013 6:13:56 AM | IP
Geminithefox

113 years old female

Loving a Gemini is an experience that ma

some people want it both ways they want someone to keep the homefires burning and to be loved by someone while going out and playing around with others and having sex with whoever they choose.it's more about character & what the person feels deeply about concerning right and wrong than about their sign,there are many loyal gemini people but they get a bad rap when their relationships fall apart because they move on instead of dwell on it,but something caused the break down long before,so it's more of a personal thing not about their sign!!
1/14/2013 3:37:53 PM | IP
ScarlettGirl

female from NYC Baby

Aries

Posted by ari3sfire
If Aries is truly in love - they'll be marytr about it because we really do believe in love.
But cheating comes in if an Aries is being neglected usually. Long term. Aries typically love an attentive partner and if that changes, they'll hang on, plead, beg, actually want to talk about the relationship (which really burns them up because they have to be humble) after that they withdraw. And it's in the withdrawal phase they are likely drawn into cheating.


What she said....ari3sfire is exactly right. I have been in this exact position. I will fight for attention, beg, plead, and if nothing changes, I withdraw and start to look around.