Posted by ari3sfire If Aries is truly in love - they'll be marytr about it because we really do believe in love. But cheating comes in if an Aries is being neglected usually. Long term. Aries typically love an attentive partner and if that changes, they'll hang on, plead, beg, actually want to talk about the relationship (which really burns them up because they have to be humble) after that they withdraw. And it's in the withdrawal phase they are likely drawn into cheating. This really seems to be what happened with my girlfriend, I don't know as much with my guyfriend because I don't see him as often. And too, he hasn't elaborated as much but said sometime he'd tell me about it. I know, or at least what he said, was his concern is their small child and said because of that would be the reason for him to stay when I asked why not divorce. As for my girlfriend she and I were best friends for a few years, work acqaintances before that and always chatted. You would've never known there was problems, during that time. Having gotten much closer to her, she slowly started telling me how lonely she was although even then it really seemed like they had an ideal marriage. I guess it shows sometimes how people can really be struggling on the inside if their needs aren't being met or they don't feel fulfilled. She tried talking to him several times, and at one point started divorce proceedings. Shortly after that they moved away, he was on the road again and that's when the affair started. |