| use this as sticky post maybe for newbies? for the pisceans, please add anything that in the past/present has put you off in the love/dating departement. i´ll just mention a few and would appreciate if you guys kept on adding and contributing - for non-pisceans, if you can, tell us what you did to turn a fish cold: don´t: -interrogate and cross-examine about the past -smother and patronize -start making wedding plans/moving plans after a month -critizice the piscean need for solitude -if you don´t mean something, do not say it -don´t lie, pisceans have a built in detector for any unregular vibes....we might not mention it or throw it in your face, and therefore come across as gullible, but don´t be suprised if we go cold or snap at you .......geez this is easy lol. |
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sharkoi :)
female
sharkoi :)
Posted by Nights22 lol. no you were doing it correctly. i was just being lazy and skipped the do´s  well, if you consider the dont´s then you are doing it right no? general piscean confusion.....  |
female
sharkoi :)
| nights, you know that subtle feeling when words and actions are incoherent? i´ve come to realize that it´s not so much the pisces who is insecure; it´s when we mirror somebody else - they start to feel "strange" and insecure - like something is not quit right...... |
female
sharkoi :)
| i´m just brainstorming a bit.... another thing a lot of pisceans are uncomfortable with is being put on a pedestal and showered with high expectations....it´s too much pressure or when people think they have every right to "fix" you.... |
25 years old female
Pisces sun, moon, merc Venus in Ta
| There is a fine line between too little and too much. Referring to: Texting Calling Chasing Talking Flirting If you can't totally manage staying on that line, too little is better than too much, just to be safe. If I don't contact you, my supposed admirer, for more than a few days, there is someone else or I simply am not into you. If I like someone, I want to be in contact with them quite a bit. Pisces don't like to hurt people, so it will be hard for them to be harsh in letting others go. If your Pisces isn't calling/texting/emailing/face booking you or contacting you in some way, they probably are not interested in you romantically even if they haven't blunty said so. Don't be cheesy Don't randomly show up at their house or expect them to be ready to go somewhere out of nowhere. I need time to process my plans and also to do my hair and makeup  |
25 years old female
Pisces sun, moon, merc Venus in Ta
| And I guess to clarify, when it comes to being in contact I don't necessarily mean every day. I guess if yourbpisces hasn't contacted you by l.. The fourth day? It may be a sign it's not happening. |
25 years old female
Pisces sun, moon, merc Venus in Ta
| Do be kind Do not be rude to strangers, or animals. Instant turn offs. Don't lie Do be open, but leave a little mystery too, everyone loves that Do buy us ice cream Do keep us warm, I haate being cold. Don't talk non stop forever about anything and everything. Forewarning, I have no air placements. I have my ultra chatty moments, but most of the time, I like some empty air here and there in the convo so I can process what we've talked about. |
| DON'T make me do something. I live for me before anyone, so don't tell me what to do with my life. this is serious to me because it can be extremely demeaning, and possibly embarrassing for me. I may preach but I don't push. I value that as an act of disrespect toward anyone. success to you may mean something entirely different to someone else. pry into every dusty corner of my life either. I like having personal secrets that I can keep and do by myself, even if this only means I like bubble baths and having me time on dxp. take my attention for granted. I enjoy watching the whole world around me, the fact that I focus my eyes on you and me only is something that I need to know you value... or else I will feel let down. let down for me means you do not care. NOT care. that is selfish and I can't stand that or anything manipulative. become dependent on me or threaten me as if you are everything to me, ergo making me guilty or uncaring. I am not 100% reliable and I admit that because I often need my own time to find solitude or replenish my spirit. that does not mean I suddenly don't like you or we're over, etc. I have had many friendships constructed that way, and hearing those types of accusations made me pull away. DO talk, & express your feelings. most likely I will understand you, on levels you probably didn't expect me to. I am an emotional observer, so the more you offer the better I can understand who you are and your feelings about things. I don't mind questions, even personal ones. oftentimes I am able to be very distant in conversation about very intimate topics, such as sex, relationships, taboos, so I don't mind discussing them as long as it's not heinously vulgar. as long as we are more acquainted than just "friends," for example, I'm not going to take the time to tell someone all about my life (this includes my own intimate feelings and perspective on things) when I know ultimately this person is a mere passerby... a coworker at work, a classmate, the guy behind the counter, etc. I won't really open myself up to someone on that level, unless the vibe points to something more. a good friend, someone I will see a lot of in my present future, or any significant other-- I am more apt to share with, but otherwise I keep my book over on. this is just a personal defense that I think all pisces have, allowing me to be anyone anywhere, and also doesn't exhaust me emotionally (I can't afford to connect with everyone). |
female from U.S.A.
Sun Pisces Moon Pisc
| Do not say I'm wrong. Do not give advice unless I ask for it. I only follow my own. and also def what doubletrouble said about not becoming dependent. Do not make me leave my comfort zone. Do not make plans unless you know they will happen. Or, do not get my hopes up. Do not spend a lot of money on me. Seriously, I don't need gifts. Spend your money on yourself. Do take me places. : ) Shop with me, travel with me, go on a road trip with me. Do support me no matter how stupid the decision I make is. Do let me buy all the cute little animals I want. ; ) Do make decisions. Two indecisive people don't work. Do make spontaneous plans! <--As long as you can promise they'll happen. |
female
Even After All this time The
| I read the title as "Dating and Doing A Pisces"... hahaha. kk tiptoeing out now... |
female
| I'm basing mine on myself and my Pisces...thank you Be supportive...loving...caring in every aspect ... Be sweet ...show who you are...faults and all...the more open you are with me the more I become open with you...show your vulnerability because that builds trust and bond with one another... Be attentive...show through actions and words you care...a loving morning message...a sweetdream goodnight message and sweet messages during the day...it will be reciprocated and without this constant contact...= detachment loss of interest...swim away...a closed fish...cold to the touch...it won't build that closeness...and it's needed to keep things alive and thriving... Be goofy and adore my little quirks what makes me *me*... Be consistent...and if I am not myself ...say I'm distant ...then take notice and show you care...don't leave me in the dark to brood...understand and show that you see what I'm not verbally saying...don't be afraid to be slightly persistent...it's what shows me I'm special to you... If I'm doing something that doesn't feel right...say it...communicate every step of the way...if I won't communicate give some time and then gently weave your way into me...it's nice to show that you care...and don't be afraid to bluntly say something if it's not right cause I would do the same anyway haha Show your gentle caring nature and I am melted butter to your heart... Most of all laugh with me at me if I'm being a goof and just be your cute self...Keep chivalry alive and I'll keep my femininity thriving ...  I want all that sweet sappy loving stuff...because that what makes me feel loved and in turn I'll show you what it feels like to be loved by a woman Don't : cheat...hurt me...treat me like I am nothing...don't be irregular with your time/contact ...also maybe don't ask me too many questions I prefer enjoying the moment and near future...I don't relish the past and try not to control me too much...a little is sexy to show your my man but beyond that and um yeh you won't like my straight up blunt self...it's not pretty |
18 years old female from GA USA
Planets Sun: Pisces Moon: Taurus
| 1. Do not try to control me 2. Do not make plans with me and then bail, I will be left wondering whether or not I can count on you 3. Do not smother me-I need space! aqua Mercury, Venus, and Ascendant 4. Do not flirt with other girls, or make me feel like Just me isn't enough for you, I WILL leave 5. Cheat at your own discretion. Warning: I am vengeful 6. Do not tell me to get real, or get a grip 7. Absolutely DO NOT play that push-pull bullbutter with me, you are either in or you are out, and the second you pull away from me without so much as a simple text saying you need a little time to yourself for reason A,B,or C, I am gone, and will not be returning. I understand needing space, and needing to work things out alone, but sending on text doesn't even take up a minute of your time. 8. Do not accuse me of cheating after I have already explained myself and my feelings to you. I will either A) be left thinking you are projecting your on feelings/desires onto me, or B) be left worrying that because you believe I am cheating on you, you will cheat on me to try and get back at me. *I try to be a understanding person, and I understand being insecure at what not, but constantly accusing me of something I have not done turns me off faster than anything. 9. Do not bother me when I am daydreaming unless it is an emergency 10. Do not bother me when I am in the midst of writing a poem. *Once I think up a poem, I have to write it down immediately otherwise I forget the poem and am left trying to piece it back together by memory, and it never turns out to be as good as my original thought *** as for the Dos, Do feel free to do anything that is the reciprocal of the dont's I have listed above |
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