Pisces and feelings

I was wondering if pisces feelings just disapear when they are done with someone no matter what the relationship is? I am trying hard to deal with this loss and most days I am tearless and then all of a sudden something will remind me of all we shared and I am a mess. Deep down do you still remember the people that were in your life or do they become an insignificant nothing....totally forgotten. I don't even know why this should matter but it is something that has been on my mind :/ We had a very close bond and I guess I'm having trouble understanding everything that happened and I'm having trouble letting go of him in my heart. I don't think i will ever be able to forget him or ever stop missing him and his support and friendship
57 years old female •
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Because Pisces are so intuitively sensitive on the empathetic level .. we can actually, literally feel other peoples feelings.

Because of this ..... Pisces have a built-in defense mechanism in which we use to protect our hearts.

We have the ability to disconnect, to seperate ourselves from our feelings .... when something happens in which a relationship is over, or has gone wrong, or there is any kind of emotional pain or torment, we can completely severe the chord.

Now this doesn't mean we have forgotten, oh no, we remember everything .... it's just that now these feelings are outside of ourself, well not really outside of ourselves, but, it's the only way to explain it.

It is literally a switch .. we can flip it off, to where we no longer feel anything associated. And if we didn't do this, then we would emotionally suffer just like everyone else. We choose not to suffer when the relationship is finished like everyone else .. they would choose to hang on to a bitter end to where they are completely destroyed emotionally because of unfulfillment. Eventhough they knew that they were headed towards pain and anguish .. they would still hang on until emotional beaten, and this is because they are helpless to these feelings, and have no choice except to suffer with them.


Pisces people have the ability to not suffer .... we simply disconnect ourselves.




It's the infamous ...... swimming away
I wish I could be like that. This heavy heart is too much to bear at times. I am hoping in time that ehe pain will lesson but he is very hard to forget and I cared about him so much and I know he felt the same
25 years old female •
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P-angel is so right it's like a switch for us, we have to turn it off like she said..no one wants to suffer emotionally like we do.
31 years old male from United Consciousness of Yugoslavia •
"Leo Sun. Taur Asc. Cancer Moon
Hm, so what's the difference between turning off a switch and not caring for real? Isn't that the same thing. If you can turn off a switch just like that then it's pretty evident you didn't care enough to begin with. Just a thought.

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"Pisces people have the ability to not suffer .... we simply disconnect ourselves."

Stop using euphemisms on yourself, it doesn't work.

You just never cared to begin with...act upon a relationship only to hide that you don't care...but then again...many of the pisces on here agree with you; scary... Maybe that's the reason you guys are on here...not enough care to or "work" to actually get a relationship going besides mirroring their "emotions" to only act as though you do.

Too simply and quickly disconnect = They simply dillude themselves of a relationship ever existing...by lying to themselves that there was never anything real to begin with...but that's just plain illogical...


treetrunking blood sucker.
male •
" Pisces Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Cancer Very sen
I would say the disconnect is indeed sorti to the outsider illogical. I myself do disconnect and i am cold but there is ever that warmth and glow for that person nestle deep inside. I would say i tend to ponder the fonder moments marked my memory by those ive shared with than the painful ones. I remember every detail of the person their mannerisms, favorite clothes, items, sayings even what turned their pleasure in the bedroom. I dont believe any person is forever shunned from my life. But to make up tracks or to retrieve a small ghost of what once existed would be difficult indeed. Especially if i felt she were the antagonist causing end.

However sometimes someones virtues can outshine their mistakes even in retrospect. I retain the thought that you can read a book a second time and youll find things you missed. Sometimes key things. Perhaps a relationship could be the same if the setting and mood were changed. You can have whatever you desire in this world if you go about it in unison with everything. I remember very single word spoken and every thing that went awry. I admit i've, with much regret later on, said and done things unbecoming and that caused great amounts of emotional pain before swimming quickly away.

Love or feeling for someone never truly dies within but we do put you in a room shut off the lights and close the door. I avoid those doors with great delicacy and form. But its really up to you if your true and completely real he may be able to sense that. But you can do things that you dont even know re directly wrong. You need to learn to feel with your words rather than think with them in order to wrap your head around a pisces.

Youll find that most pisces are void of logic but flourish in the wealth of intuition and feeling. All pisces are of some difference our moods can almost churn out another personality at times. Even P youll find has advice thats given of a completely different outlook one day to the next. But yes we do tell ourselves lies to shield the heart. Its part of the disconnect system.

But nothing is impossible if one uses the right emotions and approach they could technically flip the breaker back up and connect again. Youll find many of us at times will reconsider someone if change seems apparent or if the emotional connection was so deep that we got lost in it. I think like many other pisces i find that the world could offer me nothing better than a lover who befriends my soul.
You're making assumptions, Poney. Defining emotions is a hard thing to do, and I think P-angel did a pretty good job of it. Its not that the Pisces doesnt feel anything to begin with, rather they take an emotional connection that they identify as harmful, and simply make it external to them. Even though its supposed to hurt, its tossed to a place where you dont care as much, keen to a victim in a chinese earthquake. That sucks, but its so far away to be ineffective at changing your life.
male •
" Pisces Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Cancer Very sen
So we do the disconnect to shield the pain that comes with your memories and the interaction with you. Many things will remind us of past people songs shows places. The sound of your voice or your smell can trigger emotional destruction within. We are careful to avoid it at all costs becasue we have to confront ourselves and loss if we dont.

Sometimes you dont realize how good something really was until it is absent. Sometimes those holes are never filled. But i wish you luck with him.
31 years old male from United Consciousness of Yugoslavia •
"Leo Sun. Taur Asc. Cancer Moon
Posted by cathy89No it's not, trust me We do care, a lot. A little too much at times, that's why we need that switch.

Self-preservation..

I don't know if I'm making any sense, it's hard to explain


Okay, I guess was just feeling a little philosophical tonight. Altough I'll never understand the ability to switch off "caring" just like that (unless under extreme circumstances or in the form of repression) I've seen it happen up close several times. I'm gonna ask for popcorn the next time because it's fascinating stuff! And educational!


Hahaha cracked me up there, @ sorti-fantastic poney! Btw dude, in your profile you say you're "with a beautiful and very wise pisces gal". How is that working out for ya?
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" Pisces Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Cancer Very sen
I have to add that sorti rocks some bad ass hair i salute it.
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Posted by ianthefish
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Maybe that's the reason you guys are on here...not enough care to or "work" to actually get a relationship going besides mirroring their "emotions" to only act as though you do.




funny coming from the guy whos a permanent bachelor...


I thought you knew why i remained single, as how i know about your "business" with your boss, but i guess you are the only one who didn't catch the reason why I remained single, but thats another fact i'll point out later...


im 27, married and have a kid on the way, im not sure how youre gonna tell me i am the one who cant put enough work into making a relationship work....


Call me in 10 years buddy! Don't worry, I'll be alive by then and if things are stil up and running then you can treetrunking shot me for all i care!
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Youll find that most pisces are void of logic but flourish in the wealth of intuition and feeling. All pisces are of some difference our moods can almost churn out another personality at times. Even P youll find has advice thats given of a completely different outlook one day to the next. But yes we do tell ourselves lies to shield the heart. Its part of the disconnect system.




Very interesting. Indeed, a man whos passion truly rules his reason; yet, I have one problem with the pisces utilitarian life style and the problem constantly arises with the progression of change. When growing attach, doesn't the moment of the spark begin to fade, since the pisces moods change daily, into something that gives them a newer outlook each moment of their life. Of course, there is a new awakening with each new member, but with if it was to be for the long-hawl? Does your view of your woman keep you thinking that you will love her the same today as how you will twenty years from now? Does this feelings of words allow you to truly flourish without any motives of visual fulfullment besides the emotional one you seek? One problem leads into many sub-problems that begins to show flaws, but maybe you can bring something much more insightful to this picture...
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OH-EMM-GEE! dude, are you high?

someone, wtf he say? i'm trying to learn about pisces and that made not a lick of sense.

*sighs*
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