Pisces boyfriend...

lovelibra21
My boyfriend used to move my soul with his words... and he acknowledged that he would put forth the effort to fill my "love tank" ... As a Libra, I love romance - and verbal affirmations are the way to my heart. I'm also a sucker for big squeeze type hugs and lots of kissing. I've noticed that he doesn't put forth the effort much anymore, even though I've brought the topic up a few times. I'm always willing and happy to show him my love. The second I don't, he's all over me and asking why I don't do such and such anymore for him.

We had quite a nasty argument a couple weeks ago. One in which he felt I was lying (misuse of ONE word).. and he's pulled way back. I've also pulled way back. I used to let him know that I missed him daily, or send him sweet emails of love.. and I've just stopped. I do wonder if it was overwhelming or just annoying to him. Especially since we haven't argued since!

He can be very illogical, insecure, and hypocritical. He always thinks I'm cheating on him - even though I'm not. All of his past girlfriends have cheated on him. Whatever he asks me to do, he doesn't do himself. He doesn't fight fair.. and often times gets quite nasty when we're arguing.

Is it likely that he'll come around and begin showing me his love again? He was very insistent on me having my things at his house this weekend and back 'where they belong' .. I'd like to make this work with him, but if I'm just not what he wants... I guess I'd like to know. He is usually very upfront and blunt about things.

Thanks..
lovelibra21
My pisces says words mean nothing to him.. he likes actions. So, I think by not "smothering" him in my words of affection, there is less annoyance. I have kept up with the day to day actions that he has expressed are important to him. I think this also goes for trying to explain that I'm different from the past women... words mean nothing, it's all about my actions.

I will say, he did make an improvement this morning with expressing his feelings on something.. without it turning ugly and mean. I think that is what hurts the most - when we argue, I never want to hurt him.. and I'm so careful with my words.. but he will use his words to slice and dice me. I've never seen anything like it.

It's funny you should mention the lies... My ex pisces lied like his life depended on it. We had a beautiful fairytale relationship until a year and a half in when he started lying about another woman... It's amazing to me how very different the two are.





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