Ever Changing Pisces Man

jessejames
What is the best way to keep a Pisces man content, or can they be? The reason I am asking...for one it's my first Pisces love, second feels like the real deal. The first time I showed my possesive side he said "that was hot" I have never seen that side of you. That was a few months ago. I try not to let that girl rear her ugly head too much, on the other hand he says he has noticed me mean muggin people, I don't realize I have been doing this and it seems to piss him off. Ok how do you fix something you are not realizing your doing and was what he said to begin with totally true? He has a very jealous streak himself but it is sporadic...Anyone feel me on this? I believe in self correcting behavior, the main reason I ask you all.
deezie
one question...

what is mean muggin?
deezie
Ask him to point out (nicely of course) when you are doing these mean mugs (?), so that you are aware in that moment - and can legitimize if it is indeed a "mean mug" (haha I'm already addicted to this new terminology), and if it is not a mean mug, you can explain to him what was going through your head at that point, and lay this junk to rest

In all honesty, it sounds like more of a perception problem, him vs. your demeanor. Scorps generally have that look on their face that means business. I've caught myself around scorps wondering... what the butter they were so bitter about. Damn resting cookiemonster face syndrome (I kid!)
jessejames
I friggin' love it! Yes that was his term "mean muggin" he has a vast array of terminology. Ok I will ask him to point it out. In my head (which is scary) to me he loves my little cookiemonster but on the other hand he feels I am too harsh. He says you go from good as gold to white devil white devil in a matter of sneezes. I can see that but I try not to let her out too much. I also wonder how hard it is to keep a pisces man content for a lifetime. I have dated the classic guys who get bored so easy and a lot of it has to do with the fact that I am consistent, I'm so far from boring but some guys want that challenge or woman who makes them guess. I am not much of game player and I can't see that my fish is either. He tells me "baby be you" that's who I love...Sometimes that woman scares the butter out of me
P-Angel

I don't thing there is anything wrong with a person wanting to change for the other ... and I don't think there is anything wrong with a partner telling the other how they feel about behaviors, or looks, or temperaments, etc. .... after all, a person should be able to take utter honesty from the one who loves them, no?


But, that's not what I'm picking here .... it sounds to me like he wants you to change for him, while you're not even recognizing there was something to change. There's something seriously wrong with that picture ... it's sounds controlling as treetrunk.


If he has to tell you that you get a mean look on your face, while you're not feeling mean .. then it's not mean, the look doesn't mean what he's thinking ... so that means, he isn't bothering to know you, bothering to understand what feelings you have that warrants your moods.

and that's selfish as treetrunk
deezie
haha well - I think the deal here is, you need to figure out who you are figuring this out for.
He's mentioning something he notices about you (and that scare poop out of him lol), but it's not like he's playing it as a reason to not be with you. So if you are uncomfortable with that side of you (although I'd be hard pressed to believe that as a scorp you'd have much success completely suppressing it, nor able to survive without it in certain environments), that is where you do the work to grow/learn/change. Not because it pisses him off.

I will suggest that the reason it pisses him off is because he foresees backlash from your actions. Waves. He doesn't want the waves, he wants serene and calm. By backlash - I mean backlash from those who are opposite your mean mug. Y'know?
P-Angel
Posted by jessejames

I also wonder how hard it is to keep a pisces man content for a lifetime.





In reading between the lines here .. the above appears very door-matty because it's already been established in my mind that he doesn't who you are. Unfortunately, the Fish has two sides, both in contrast of each other .... and while one side is very nurturing, caring and compassionate, the other side consists of mind-treetrunks due primary to not giving a treetrunk.

It is obvious to me (and I've been feeling this topic for under 20 minutes, so certainly, he's already got you worked out) that you are easy to twist and maneuver around .... you should watch yourself here, because a Pisces has no remorse, if they feel victimized.

The Fish swimming in opposite directions:

We care about you ... We don't care about you ... to the extremes

If we don't care about you ... then we REALLY don't care and are capable of acts you couldn't even begin to comprehend.
jessejames
Ok P-Angel selfish is true but that happens with all of my past experiences. I don't want to change for anyone again. My problems with "losing my idenity to those I love" is bad ju ju. I want to be me. I think the mean looks I give probably do speak to a bad experience I've had with someone. I don't just give someone a dirty look because they are a human being. I better clarify this to him. It hit me the very instance he was talking about over my lunch break...I will let him know and that he better expect it every now and then. Supressing her is way to tasking....
P-Angel


Posted by jessejames

... he loves my little cookiemonster but on the other hand he feels I am too harsh. He says you go from good as gold to white devil white devil in a matter of sneezes.





You have mentioned several situations where he is telling you things he doesn't like about you, while not having care enough to know what motivates/inspires you .... he isn't caring about you as much as you'd like to pretend he does.

An ignorant person wouldn't keep me content for any time frame. In fact, Virgo is the only person I know who is capable of keeping the Fish.
P-Angel
Posted by jessejames

I think the mean looks I give probably do speak to a bad experience I've had with someone. I don't just give someone a dirty look because they are a human being. I better clarify this to him.






If you have to clarify to him what is moving you, then you don't have a Pisces anywhere in the vicinity
jessejames
I think his idea is I'm being a total cookiemonster towards females in general. I have a pretty good idea but really I could care less. Women, men, children and beasts don't initimidate me or make me jealous he is reading me wrong. I believe he has had some insecure people in his past. Not my problem...I just call it like I see it.
jessejames
I like your way Ireesistable. Pleasant is nice too. I love this man I really do. We do have great conversations and lots of fun together. He does ooze about me to others which I love to over hear. I just enjoy him, don't want him to get bored with me.
jessejames
You are sweet





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