|wait saturns the house of karma right? and its rule by cap? my saturn is in capricorn in my chart and its my rule plant in my chart -_- just my luck with a cherry on top.|
aww blushes >.< yea your kool rlly like talking to you. more people like you should present themselves in my neck of the woods ssh
eyes on the scorp but this pisces hm?
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|yea she messaged me about a dream she had that we went to the beach and ironically at the moment i was planning to go alone though. i havent spoken to her since not going to string it along. though at times i want to message her asking whats up etc. Yea and im not looking someone that has too much growing up to do we all learn and grow each day yea i know but i have passed that self discovery phrase. i in the cut throat phrase if i like you i like thats just it learnt that from the scorp.|
yup the retrograde is killing me im trapped in my mind analyzing everything and it amazes me the amount of things i had locked away and didnt notice. i had a previous relationship right before the scorp that i didnt get to go through the process of analyze my errors there errors. and now im seeing all that i carried over to the last one so much karma and crap ugh that relationsship really messed up my flow. lol but that ones a whole different story im staying away from aquas though i attract them more than any sign but all the ones i date are chronic liers tho.
yup my view no one is perfect we all perfectly imperfect. and sigh on you got to play the relationship out yup now i am avid with communication no joke tell me as it is no secrets if it prolongs im out.
with the scorp sad as it may be was a great learning lesson and that im grateful. not sure if we will be friends or anything of the sort in the future but im thankful. want this retrograde to be over to all this bubbling inside can level so i can truly know whats up in my head its all over the place.though looking at me you wouldnt know only my writing shows.
regrets with me last for years! the last major regret i had was in the 9th grade and never got over it till about the 1st year of university it haunted me every single day.i guess when one lesson fades another rises oh joy -_-
|“im like your welcome at least something eventually sank in ur brain tsk.”…” oh and she learn you should never try to change people to how you want them to be she learnt that the hard way DUH!”…..Yup ! I find sometimes people may love you, but that doesn’t mean they also respect you as a person and keep imposing themselves, trying to change who you are to get what they want….ahhh NO smh. If you can’t appreciate me for who I am and what I bring to the friendship/relationship, well, why the heck are you around/with me in the first place?! I’m all up for compromise…all relationships require some give and take on both sides…but don’t try to change me. It’s never gonna work. |
“Only reason she bothers my soul so much is because she made me loose my kool and snap”….hate when that happens, but hey, you’re a human being also. I find caps have the hardest time with regrets ( ok, gotta admit, I’m not so fond of those myself ether), but regardless how regretful some situations may be, they really teach us a lot about ourselves and how we handle situations. Doesn’t change the fact that is sucks tho ….blahhh
And thanks hun…. I like your mature, cool outlook on life and you’re hell fun to talk too….
|Nahh…you are absolutely right! Let the pisces deal with her issue on her own. Some pisces have the tendency to “have their cake and eat it too”, using others as an emotional crutch. Most of them/us are not even aware if in early years. Takes some emotional growing up and finding a backbone to be honest with oneself as well as others. Some never reach that stage tho ! Yup some pisces can indeed be very selfish and self-serving while having this “oh I’m so cute and innocent” look on their faces. We can be very deceiving if we choose to take the low rout.|
Lol @ break up season…it is venus retrograde after all . Joking aside, I do find a lot of people are going ether through the contemplative phase pertaining relationships or actually acting upon it. It is a messy time …ekkk
Yeahh…Idk, with me, it really depends…a lot of times, I can forgive the greatest wrong done to me as long as the person is willing to show me that they UNDERSTAND what they have done was unacceptable and put some effort to gain that trust back. To me, only time can show how genuine they really are. But than, there is times, where, as you said it, something little and silly, can set me off and make me doubt you….specially if the person is avoiding to communicate with me about the issue and expecting me to sweep it under the rug. Those little things tend to accumulate over time and it makes me think, if the person can’t talk about something small then how am I gonna be able to communicate with them if something bigger arises. I absolutely believe in second chances, I’m not perfect ( by far lol), and I know very well I can do and say things that may unintentionally hurt others, but if its brought up to me, I’m more than happy to work on it.
In regards to your scorp…I find some relationships have to play themselves out to the very end. What I mean with that, personally, there was times I had no probs calling it quits early on. You just KNOW it’s not going anywhere. Then, there are those pesky times, where it’s not even so much that emotions are in the way, but rather the fact of knowing that there is a great potential for the relationship/friendship to take off, and if you call it off at the first signs of trouble, well then one would never know the possible outcome. I guess I’m just to stubborn to quit lol.
|yes i know earning one's trust when lost is hard to gain but if your will to let the person gain it and they want to earn it let them. My view people can grow up and mature """"over TIME"" and sometimes the sillest thing make one looses trust i dunno maybe its just me it has to be something extreme for me not to trust you. but i can forgive that takes a shorter time i will be all chummy and nice with you wont let you see deep inside but stick around long enough and be you its possible only the good ones will stick around though.|
im damaged leave it at that the scorp posted a vid and i was soo pissed and yet to some extent respected it.but im was like for years im singing on not holding grudges and forgiveness and learning and communication!!! and its now after all is dnt shes acting all philosophical and all the stupid little girls yup im calling them girls soaking it up smh . im like your welcome at least something eventually sank in ur brain tsk.
and she also post about love and being in love and if its meant to be it will.oh and she learn you should never try to change people to how you want them to be she learnt that the hard way DUH! im like keep posting these vids let me hate u it will make the process of me moving on faster.if she had balls a year ago we would be in a better place like wise for me if i had the guts to open my eyes soon ahh such is life. Only reason she bothers my soul so much is because she made me loose my kool and snap
lol but i get your sense of humour though its funny . your kool
but the pisces in a complicated relationship though im not a homewrecker my view if i woo her take her from the person she with anything possible she may get flaky with me too after awhile. i think its break up season i swear
we maybe he actually shows you will see
|That’s not to say I can not get stubborn myself ( all the right placements…venus in aries, Taurus rising and the infamous fixed mars in aqua. Usually go-with –the-flow, but when that rare occasion arises where is down to the matter of a principal….. Fooooorget about it……I’m not budging!!!!! |
BTW….Love you avatar LOLOL….I liked the old one as well…but I love the message this one is sending
|So as I said earlier….once the trust is gone, as much you would like to believe the person (and it is possible that he’s being serious about it) ….. one just can’t go back to where one once was. ( me at least)!|
I am a giving person…it is in my damn nature and I can’t bloody help it…but what I can do is not allow myself to be taken advantage of and be made a fool of. Been there, done it, one too many times…..blahhhhh
“and yea you should smile you never know you smile could be making someones day. plus its good for your health coming from someone who hates to smile like why im not getting a joke but hey its a good smokescreen. got the flashy aries smile”….
Ahhhh hahahahahahah…… ohhh you just made me crack up lolol. I hear you loud and clear tho !!!! Although, I have to admit, I don’t know how and why, but somehow, I find humor in most things. Those who don’t know me to well, may think I’m a little bit off. It’ s just my brain makes connections to many other funny things/facts/ details unrelated to the topic that I’m left with no other choice but to laugh. For instance, I was having a convo with my girl the other day her telling me about the convo she was having with the guy she was interested in. Long story short…I guess, in the midst of the convo, she txted him saying “giving you poopy looks right now”…his response was “giving you lion to zebra look”!.....I cracked up laughing coz in the back of my mind I thought of the rock song “wild thing”. So I guess I end up entertaining myself most of the time…..eccentric and proud of it. Must be all the aqua influence in me
“ahh i saw the pisces again yup shes handsy lol was interesting.”…..ahhh I see !! She seems to like you quite a bit then. MOST pisces, when we get all handsy, well, how do I put this,…..we are handsy lololol. Means we want to get the “feel” of you!....
I don’t know if it my Taurus rising or what….but when I happen to like a person, I need all my 5 senses satisfied. I need to see, hear, smell, feel and yes (eventually taste) you as well. Before any of that happens my mind has to be stimulated, otherwise nothing is happening !!!!!
Funny thing I have observed in my family….my mom being Aries, boy oh boy, did she clash with caps. When things are good, they get along so well, but then when something goes south, the clash of wills comes up. OMG, I don’t know who is more stubborn hehehe. I could clearly see both sides o
|“well slowly you getting to notice hun you got to put yourself first and for caring,passionate nurturing people like ourselves at hard not the we dont have self worth but we always think of those we care for first as we can look after our self already.regardless off what anyone says we are the ideal parent figures”………|
Ah huh….isn’t this the truth !? I suppose, what irks me the most is the feeling of being taken for granted. As one of other Pisceans had stated on one of these boards ( I paraphrase) :” you know….I enjoy my life and have many interests, so when I do focus my attention on YOU, it is special…it says a lot, so don’t go taking my time and my interest in you for granted…..it’s not just hurtful but disrespectful”!! What is even more so frustrating, once the trust is gone and I already have trust issues in a first place,….it is hard, almost impossible to get it back. Person who lost my trust would have to go through the loops of getting it back from me. I just can’t see you in the same light and I will remain on a defensive for ever.
I.e…here I get a txt msg from the cap I know yesterday morning ( 7am his time) wishing me good morning. I didn’t see it till few hours later when I responded. Here he wants to go deeper into a convo, but I was too busy for it, as well as keeping myself at the distance. So I keep the exchange short, concise but friendly. 9pm comes around and I get a txt from him again...hmmm ok ?! Among other things….he brings up us meeting yet again, saying he was dead serious about it. Goes on to say….”you know I’ve been dying to meet you”…..HUH???!!! So once again, in so many words I tell him, that I’m reluctant about it due to what went down in the past and wished him good night. He sends last msg for the night saying “g’night ( pet name)…..I’ll be waiting for you. Kiss”…..WHHHHAAATTT the….?!
|hahah i know how the typos go i knock myself when i read over what ever i write and see them like ugh.|
well as to the cap family sweet and your welcome im from a family full of caps myself but the head boss is my grams whose a has moon in cap how ironi and is a gemini/cancer cusp lol she runs the show.then my cap mom lol.
well slowly you getting to notice hun you got to put yourself first and for caring,passionate nurturing people like ourselves at hard not the we dont have self worth but we always think of those we care for first as we can look after our self already.regardless off what anyone says we are the ideal parent figures so my view pure all that unconditional love into your child or pets and with people put you first its sad how they dont appreciate the greatness that had until karma bites them in the arse lol.
but yea my logic and common sense makes me hold back because i did it once to avoid it and it crash and burn i dont want to feel that vulnerable and unstable again nah i cook love like cook food but nope nope .i will smile and talk to you all chipper like lifes grand but im not going to let u know how burnt i am inside.
yea im not good at loosing or messing up in a relationship so this is all new to me >.< damnit but its truly a learning lesson in deed no doubt about that.
and yea you should smile you never know you smile could be making someones day. plus its good for your health coming from someone who hates to smile like why im not getting a joke but hey its a good smokescreen. got the flashy aries smile
ahh i saw the pisces again yup shes handsy lol was interesting. but im a temptation to her shes said she doesnt want to make it complicated for me im like me ? so i was like no its complicated for u im you with someone dont it.. so i stated good though i can be bad if i wanted to not hard for me but honestly i dont want anymore bad karma that trick hits more than a ton of bricks so im like you sort your stuff out i'm not coming in between your complication.
but if she keeps coming around and im in one those dont give a damn mood well lets say hmm... *whistles*
|Stupid smart phone n all the typos.....borderline dislexic/ ocd here lololol|
|.....ground underneath my feet was shaking moment I talked to the person. What I have.come to learn is " u win some,.u loose some".....I lost this one, but its ok,. As cheesy as.it sounds tho, those ppl teach us a whole lot about who WE r! N as u said it yourself... now u know.what to look for in a next relationship. It want b easy....but such is life I guess!!!.|
Pisces girl sounds decent, but as much as you need your.space to work through your situation, I'm sure she has her stuff going on. Just try to keep open n honest communication flow.going. I hope she the good kind of fish. N remember,when a Pisces loves......it is unmatched.....WE LOVE
|..... it's so sad yet soothing, to have "my" caps come to the rescue. I call you mine coz I've got few family members who r caps (n when u guys r good, ur good when bad its bitter lol|
... .as any other sign). I can not extend my thanx to u guys more n I mean it.
Back to Inanas questions/statements......." ohhh whom am I kidding here, I'm as odd as he is , if not even more so". I can't put all the blame on him since I had a big part to play in it. I want a friend and emotional involvement,.passion,.desire,.stability.... all of that as long as I'm not being cornered or fenced in. I have to b the 1st one to say "conventional" doesn't work for me but on the same note I want that emotional connection. Can't have a cake n eat it to Elusive.
Over the last two days I talked to "earhty" on Gemini board .... n looking at his n my chart, plus the info I had provided her with......she opened my eyes hitting so many deep seated issues, to the point where I cry like a baby. Me being solid, stable n understanding , provides a perfect character of a "care taker".... ! Basically being a mother figure in his life (to sum it all up.).. I couldn't agree with her more, since I've been like that most of my life. Even "M" read my chart pointing out that friendship is there for sure, .....a LOT of positives, but according to what he sees "my" cap is not ( I paraphrase) hooked on me as I am on him.
Things have been strange in the past few days for me....seems everything is coming full circle for me, n looks like my lesson is that i need to learn is to let go n put myself 1st 4 once.
@Jhane..... u just made me crack the biggest smile ever lolol. " fed my brain y want ya".....
.I've been called a brainiak on few occasions lololol.
But back to your situation.....it sucks when u have to encounter the person u still feel for n try to summon up your strength n not break down. It takes so much more energy out of u then just to say "here, I'm hurting, will you or could you do something about it.......work with me here plz!!!!". But the pride n logic comes in the way coz they KNOW better.....u can't make a doormat out of yourself"
Relationships have been a major learning curve for me personally. Carrier, family,.true friends....all came on its on, but encounters of a far much more personal nature , were rare (extremely rare in my case) n that's y I think, is so much more profound (if I can use that word).
Jhane....hun, this is a third time in my life where I felt the
|ahh yup people manipulate n various ways i notice it and went along it but when its negative stuff telling me how i am feeling and doing that im like nope and ill get denfensive i wont lie i dont like feeling backed up and that scares her as i would let her have her own way most the time but when i say no it no.thats where the bruise ego comes in ahh brother dont know what we have now its definitely not a friendship we cant even look at each other in public awkward hugs and thats it and in a fresh relationship mind you. random bb convos thats the most we talk and even that awkward i dont even know how to understand that. but the scorp brought out my softer side and emotional waay emotional freaked me out never knew i had that in me but now its like hmm im even more picky dating than before at least i know what i want and looking for i can not settle. im going to keep talkingto the pisces give her space and she after exams are through if anything chances no rush for me as im more focus on my career right now and living in the gym .|
lol at the hijacking now worried hun vent away read everything im cool with that i think your awesome and pretty more have more depth that most the people around me nowadays i havent had a decent deep convo in ages like feed my brain why wont ya.hence i been in my own whole surface convos and parties cant be bother i did that all my relationship im bored.
from what im reading i do sense he likes you but probably to the point he does not want to take the risk going into a relationship with you in fear of messing it up and loosing you.been there with the scorp biggest leap of faith i wish i declined to some extent.
i think you should friend zone in keep being good friend and direct your emotional outlet to a new bow that will release the strain on the friendship between you two and you like him wayyy more than a friend.
|That is just it Inana…..I wish he would be a straight shooter as I am and say “look….this is how I feel and that’s about it (as in him and I remaining friends)”….which, mind you, I had suggested to him on several occasions. Strangely, I would, and could be fine with that (strong aqua placements in my chart to be blamed for it), as long as I had some time to distance myself from him and my “emotions” for him, however, he never wonts to hear that, due to the strong physical attraction on both our behalf’s ( yeahh I know….can someone say WIERD)…..|
I’m not the type to have FWB, which he is very much aware of! On the same note , I can not lie and say I’m into a full-fledged relationship myself due to so many external circumstances carrier, school , him being over there me here etc etc.
But ether way, you raised valid questions and made striking comments that make a lot of sense, and I have contemplated a lot for myself for a long time.