I met this man this weekend at where I go shoot pool (I'm a Sag) and as soon as I walked in the door I saw him staring at me and me back at him....WOW, I was intantly attracted to him, well then I looked away because I felt nervous and unsure. He was there with a friend of his that I shoot pool with sometimes and this guy just moved back into the area after 6 months or so. He seemed shy yet very sexy to me. We were introduced and then I had a loss for words and I think he did too. He seemed to stand near me and would look at me when I wasn't looking and then turn and look away when I looked his way. I basically did the same to him. I felt like a school girl. He then ended up dancing with some girl (which I assume he knew from before and I thought they were just friends from the way they were dancing) and they talked a little, then she was talking with her friends and he was standing up against the wall so, I went up to him and asked him to dance.....WOW, did we dance, we seemed to just feel the music with our bodies together and our faces touching and it felt so erotic which scared the crap out of me. After the dance I went back over to the pool table and he stood kind of next to me and then I leaned up against the wall and he stood right in front of me with his face only an inch or two away from mine and stared at me with his sexy eyes well, I couldn't help but kiss him, sweet kiss and then he pulled away and told me that he wasn't married or involved with anyone and he wasn't looking for a one night stand or anything like that and he is looking for someone to settle down with and I told him so am I, then he kissed me. We danced more and kissed more and then, the girl he was talking with earlier he went and talked to her and her friend which seemed upset. I went outside to have a smoke and then the girl walked out and he followed her to the parking lot. I did not see what was going on because I didn't want I guess, then I go back in and the bar closed about 15 minutes later. His friend told me that he is a good guy and a honorable man and that he was getting a ride home with him so he knows he didn't leave yet. Another guy there told me he might of thought that he was initially starting something with this girl but then I came along and maybe he was trying to just talk with her to make her feel better. Well, I decided to just leave then and I did. He told me his Birthday was a couple of weeks and he will be 40. What do I do?
Gemini or Cancer ....Not sure which.
Just go with a flow,
He may be Gemini-Cancer cusp, and hence is the instant attraction to Saggies. I noticed that Sag and Cancer are often magnetically attracted to one another.
You just have to wait to see how things develop, there is not much you can do except that.
He may be Gemini-Cancer cusp, and hence is the instant attraction to Saggies. I noticed that Sag and Cancer are often magnetically attracted to one another.
You just have to wait to see how things develop, there is not much you can do except that.
Well, I guess I will wait and see.....thanks
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