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I love my little sister, but….. (Taurus & Pisce

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bkbella86
6/13/2012 8:42:58 PM | IP

27 years old female from BK, NY  

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0

I never said that Aries arent deep at all, I cant make that statement and neither can you P because you dont know all Aries. On the surface we can appear to be very shallow and thats because we move very fast at times. Me being an Aries I can tell you that if I find out I hurt someone close to me I will be very hurt myself. I myself have become deeper as I have gotten older, I think more and I care more so let her know what your thinking.
P-Angel
6/13/2012 8:21:01 AM | IP
P-Angel

54 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

".... that you're feelings are involved ...."



*your
P-Angel
6/13/2012 8:18:31 AM | IP
P-Angel

54 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

And also what the bkbella86 said ....... the Ram isn't deep




You should likely let this settle in your mind right now, because it never changes.

Aries are shallow, they are only aware of themselves.

P-Angel
6/13/2012 8:15:26 AM | IP
P-Angel

54 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Posted by robyn808

Does this not totally contradict the point of getting the tattoo in the first place?




Yes, it totally contradicts the point of getting the tattoos. The meaning was suppose to be about bonding the sisterhood through a symbol, a token .... to be done together.

Would she also run down her bridal path, grab her wedding ring and put on her own finger, without caring to wait for the groom to share in this with her?



Posted by robyn808

.... and this really treetrunkin hurts treetrunking feelings and my first reaction is to return rude careless attitude back at her, and have nothing to do with the situation.



It should hurt. She was being totally self absorbed and selfish. However, turning rude towards her would make you just like her ... because her action of only thinking about herself and in neglecting you was rude.

If you want to get into that selfish head of the Ram, you have to be indifferent.


Posted by robyn808

She takes it upon herself to do and says things on behalf of other people, which seems to suit what she wants. I end up feeling even more alienated from my family.



This is Aries, they are the epitome of selfishness. But, there is hope .. because it's only in the young Rams. Once she matures (which takes a longer time than other people) .. she won't be so self-absorbed.


The answer at this point in life is to be indifferent towards her. For example, if/when she talks about or shows you the tat .. shrug your shoulders and walk away. So long as you show her that you're feelings are involved in what she has done, then she will continue to not look at her own behaviour, and will only see you as having bad behaviour in how you reacted towards her.
bkbella86
6/11/2012 9:12:34 PM | IP

27 years old female from BK, NY  

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0

she just wants to get the deal and probably isnt thinking as deep as you are about it. Let her know whats up I doubt she intentionally is trying to be selfish
robyn808
6/11/2012 12:20:09 AM | IP
robyn808



Virgo Rising, Taurus Sun, Gemini Moon

I get a text from my Youngest sister (Pisces/Leo Moon), she and our other sister (Aries/Aquarius Moon) wanted to know If I’d want to get matching tattoo’s. Some sort of symbolism about being linked and being there for each other.

I love tattoo’s, it’s a great form of artistic expression when it’s done right, but I (Taurus/Gemini Moon) never really thought it was for me because by the time I figure out exactly what I wanted, I’d be into a completely different style.

But I love my sisters, and since I live so far away from home this was something I would want share with them. I told her I’m goin do it, I’d be home at the end of the month.

Her reply.. Ok well we might get the tattoo in the next week or two. She (middle sister, Aries) just got one and the guy said that if she comes back before it heals, he’ll give us half off.

I just went through the process of accepting this, and actually committed myself to do it. And she can’t wait, a few more weeks and pay a little more? Does this not totally contradict the point of getting the tattoo in the first place?

But I can be extremely sensitive with people who mean a lot to me, and this really treetrunkin hurts treetrunking feelings and my first reaction is to return rude careless attitude back at her, and have nothing to do with the situation.

And this sort of thing happens a lot between us now, I miss my little sister before she grew up She takes it upon herself to do and says things on behalf of other people, which seems to suit what she wants. I end up feeling even more alienated from my family.

I don’t easily forget those hurt feelings, or quickly adjust to her mood swings. And since I get little time to spend with her, I’m looking for advice on how to better navigate this relationship. Either a way I can change how I react to get a better outcome, or a different perspective to improve the way I feel about it.

 

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