The dark side of Taurus men

dayssunny
What have you found? I am really in shock about the very dark side. We are all humans but this is taking the cake.

These guys that my girlfriends are running into are really making me cue the twilight zone music. If you are too young to know what that is, just ignore that part Lol.

What I know Taurus to be is:

1) Loyal
2) Bold
3) Go after what they want

What I am seeing them do to my friends or exhibit behaviors such as:

1) Womanizers
2) Say anything to women around them just to keep them in their stable of cows/herd.
3) Egoists
4) String people along
5) Detached


What have you found and how did you deal with it? Do some of them just love the perpetual chase? I am rambling but I am like O M GEE where are they finding these people?
dayssunny
Posted by Reason
Why do you see it as dark?


Lol

I guess because I dont believe it's forthright to mislead people. It's personal because she's a great friend of mine.
spica
Taurus men can be petty, weak, dependent, they can be cold hearted, selfish, inconsiderate and extremely thick skulled. Their cold heartedness can border on truly not having a conscience.
TaurGuy
Again with them sparkle motion venus in gemini.... Especially the male Taurus w/Gem venus... Damn them...





Damn them all to hell.....
theineffablemind
oh my TaurGuy--why damn us all?--i am aware this post is old but
theineffablemind
oh and as far as the dark side goes--I am clearly aware that People are going to arouse my fury so to avoid not being incapable to pick out my foe,I walk around with the brightest smile,all friendly.It's only to pick out the ones who are malicious,with the intent of hurt and harm.Because the ones who provoke someone when they are happy,are the ones who are your foes--for they do not care about your joy for they haven't any. I rarely showing acts of wrath --but i am not evil by any means it's just the action that follows after the result seems totally unethical.Whatever is said is said in the head before expressed (on this scale of reality) if angered.But that is after i test the person attempting to anger me,over and over,over again.I even avoid going around trouble just to avoid chaotic events.and as far as women--i am a gentle man--i readily give out complements--sincerely.(many call it playful teasing-but females do this as well)the key is to focus on the desire i have in me getting reached---and each female i talk to ,i will always notice something,and give complements-(they might be having a bad day) i read bodily language very well,so i can tell when they are sad,or whatever.but when you mention dark side:that i am afraid is a topic deeper than the two first four sentences i my story i wrote.(I'm in a confrontation with someone who insincere with how she feel s about her first born--and i think she 'is afraid --but that wasn't my motive)--hope that helps..but we are not all subject to the pitfalls of this unethical nature of ours.
iceredrobot
Posted by dayssunny
What have you found? I am really in shock about the very dark side. We are all humans but this is taking the cake.

These guys that my girlfriends are running into are really making me cue the twilight zone music. If you are too young to know what that is, just ignore that part Lol.

What I know Taurus to be is:

1) Loyal
2) Bold
3) Go after what they want

What I am seeing them do to my friends or exhibit behaviors such as:

1) Womanizers
2) Say anything to women around them just to keep them in their stable of cows/herd.
3) Egoists
4) String people along
5) Detached


What have you found and how did you deal with it? Do some of them just love the perpetual chase? I am rambling but I am like O M GEE where are they finding these people?

I keep bumping into one and he's a damn flirt - and unbelievably charming but he's like that with a lot of girls. I thought I was special? Shameless!! lol
Mistery
You'll see the dark side of any guy when he doesn't like a woman enough to want a relationship with her.
No guy or girl owes anyone anything or any gaw damed explanation for their actions. If you don't like it, move on. No need to stress, just goooooo...
pretty713
I know I may be a littl late but......

Yes Taurus guys can be great, however when they turn on you its a sad, sad situation LOL.

I KNOW a few Taurus guys who have liked me since high school and are in relationships now.....and would flirt and try to get with me but I just stay friends with them.

And I know Most Taurus men become very self absorbed, selfish and mean in order to mask the fear of getting hurt by a woman or being alone (they even convince themselves that they want to be single forever) so they will keep everyone at a distance by being %$# holes.
KittyKnitter
The Taurus guys I know are natural charmers, generous and kind with a sarcastic wit and a tendency to be blunt when they are upset but generally are easy to talk to and easy to be with. Not all Taurus guys are womanizers. That is weakness in the man himself, not the sign. The Taurus may be blunt but I would rather deal with someone who is assertive or sarcastic then someone who is passive agressive. This Taurus guy has Cancer moon and Cancer Venus, very vulnerable and traumatized by being hurt, lied to and cheated on in the past. He is good family man and good friend.

I would say there is a dark side to everyone, regardless of the sign or gender and we have the ability to find balance if we want to. Yes sometimes some things are noticed more because immaturity or weakness in giving in to our dark side is something we should learn over time. But not all Taurus men are lowlifes or users. With a Taurus, you have to establish respect right away. If they do not show you respect, don't continue to be around them. Tell them they are accountable for the things they say and do and don't relax your standards to find a quality person. If they have to work to show they care and they really care, you will know it. But if they are users, it won't take long to find that out either. By the way, the women Tauruses I know are mean, self-serving, liars and manipulators. Again, that is their character and I wouldn't blame it on the sign but bluntness is definitely a common characteristic. How to deal with it? Sometimes ignore it and sometimes don't. Choose your battles but don't be pushed around. They might be bulls and bullettes but sometimes they are not so brave when you call their bluff.
Reconstructing_a_Leo
The first 4 signs of the zodiac are all about the discovery of the self: baby steps, oh I exist, I have, I think etc. Taurus relates to the earthly pleasures of food, touching, experiencing the body in a sensation-way style. It is a sign that's just individuating and yes, a lot of these guys will look to continuously replay that touching/skin experience.

When a sign arouses intensely negative feelings in yourself that you find unacceptable it usually is because you haven't integrated the traits of that sign in yourself, so don't be afraid to think of yourself as a Taurean for a sec, after all each and every one of us is a Taurus somewhere in their charts
venusianbull
Hmmm.
dayssunny
Yep. Hmm. Because it is quite interesting. And the Taurus forum is quite defensive or selective when responding to queries. So this is the perfect forum for those who aren't Taureans but who see the dark side.

To Mistery: I know that there is no need to stress because I am with one that is committed. However there are manipulative elements even to the one that I am with. Because I am a libra, I get very involved with my friends and family members and when they present their problems I am weighing it on the scales for eternity.

@Knit I've seen quite a few passive aggressive Taurus people.

Reconstructing you've made a lot of sense because a lot of them seem to be unevolved or cavemen when it comes to relationships and expression. It's always territorial and mine mine mine with them.

@Everyone that see the darker side I appreciate you bumping the thread. I signed in to see if I got any advice on my family's dilemma. So this was a delightful surprise.
venusianbull
We do not answer questions that need no answer. Ones that should be addressed to the person whom is direct question. Nonsense queries, etc. If one answers satisfactorily the rest of us need not apply. It is not rudeness, but lack of love for drama and idiocy in general.
MiaSangria
I was w/ Taurus for many yrs. He was very down to earth, trustworthy and basically sweet but boring and lacking in ambition or personal growth. The only 'downside' quoted that I saw was that when he was doing well w/ his career his ego became ridiculously inflated.
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