How do I STOP my feelings?
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male from UK
| Btw, I'm only kidding but you're only 20 years-old (and if that's really your photo, very attractive to boot). Ten years from now, you'll probably be wondering what all the fuss was about. Seriously. |
male from UK
Posted by ArticleL Yes, kill yourself. It worked for me. the only problem is... I'm on my seventh life... meooow! But seriously, it sounds like he's a married man (probably to someone very close). If so, you also need a good slap (figuratively speaking). |
female from Namibia
Dreamer @ heart yet I'm too earthy to b
| Been there, done that. I was in a similar situation, where my feelings for this guy just grew out of nothing. Looking back at it today, I know that I would have regretted it had I acted on those feelings. The heart picks up on anything it chooses and makes it some big story. Don't let your feelings rule you. That's not the way life is. I feel once you avoid this person they will somehow be thrown back into your face because its something you need to deal with, in their presence. For how long are you going to avoid that person?? And what happens if you can't avoid him?? Where you are standing right now, make it clear that chasing these feelings for him will not do u any good. Its our nature nowadays to wonder what if, to take a sneak peak if we see the sign 'do not peak'...its our nature to always try and break the rules, limitations and so on. But the one thing that will lead you in a better direction is what you know. If you know that this person is happy where they are, if you know that there will be unhappiness once you persue your feelings, if you know that one day you will wake up and there will be a new guy in your mind, if you know that its simply not worth the time,the pain and the energy > then you gots it covered. |
| I'm in my late 20s and I have this problem every once in a while. What funny is I always had good control of my feeling and thoughts until I was in my early 20s. As of today I don't no what the hell I was doing then to stay so focus ,and wats weird is I had way more stress and just issues back then ,then now. I don't no wat I did but I was more determind back then. Somethings I'm working on is watching wat enter in my mind and heart. When thoughts come to u about him replace it with sometime else that's more destracting . Don't think about how u feel with him. Don't think about how he look.nothing, u have to trick the mind and the emotion.focus on thinks that's inportant to u now. Concentrate your hobbies. Clean ,go organizes. I no when my mind is focus on someone else,or something else that's not good for me I try to bring the focus back on me and my likes,I think of all the things that I do well and go do it, or I say wat I need to do for my self right now then go organise my shoes or polish my toes.. take that love u have for him and go by a animal or spend time with family or friends. Trust me I no how u feel, I wish someone can tell me this when my emotions take over cause I do get lose into miy head and heart |
20 years old female from United States
I'm a Cancer born on July 13, 1992. *
Posted by crimeofpassion89 Thanks. |
23 years old female
Hot-blooded Italian Sadge.
| Well either way she seems to me like someone who at least has some self awareness. She's not one of those hoes who are like WELL I DON'T CARE HOW DIRTY I HAVE TO PLAY!! IM GONNA USE MY P*SSY TO LURE HIM IN!!!! HE'LL NEVER GO BACK TO THAT BORING cookiemonster ONCE HE GETS A PIECE OF THIS!!! lol You know what I mean?? So don't be too hard on her. She's obviously trying to stop herself from becoming that all too common home wrecking ho. |
| Lol. |
23 years old female
Hot-blooded Italian Sadge.
Posted by acrabbycrab12Posted by crimeofpassion89 What kind of a sick ass-hole would suggest it as a joke? As if suicide is something to joke about? |
23 years old female
Hot-blooded Italian Sadge.
Posted by GreekBarbie ^^According to this, she did stop herself. She wouldn't be on here making a topic like this if she wasn't trying to stop herself. |
Posted by acrabbycrab12Posted by P-Angel Actually a mother is suspose to teach a child that if that toy is not his leave it the treetrunk alone. The OP is trying to play with a toy thats not hers. The act of stoping temptation equals self control. Another lesson she shoulda learned when she fel off her bike. |
23 years old female
Hot-blooded Italian Sadge.
| Telling someone to go commit suicide or even suggesting it as a joke is not funny or okay at all. |
23 years old female
Hot-blooded Italian Sadge.
Posted by ArticleL Wow I'm wondering if anyone has reported this son of a cookiemonster yet? Cuz if not I will. This is just wow. |
54 years old female from Planet Neptune
Just
| Everything everyone told you in here .... you should have learned by the time you were 5 years old. |
54 years old female from Planet Neptune
Just
| You've had 20 years experience at dealing with your feelings ..... why are you an amatuer? Why do people have to tell you? |
20 years old female from United States
I'm a Cancer born on July 13, 1992. *
| Thank you for the replies everyone. Just to clear things up, there is nothing physical going on between him and I. We've never hung out alone, we've never kissed, we've never had sex. He has zero idea about my feelings and I have to keep it that way. He already seems like he has enough problems and I wouldn't want to become one of them. A week ago I came really close to telling him my feelings. I wrote a long email message to him but then instead of sending it, I just deleted it. I realized that I was acting out of my own selfishness (wanting to get it off my chest) and wasn't thinking about how my confession would make him feel. Probably uncomfortable and confused. I'm glad I came to my senses before it was too late. I was behaving irrationally. My emotions can overcome me sometimes and I lose my head in the process. |
