Sitting on a guys lap?

ceribdis
i dont even like other girls to youch me thats my gurls job to sit in my lap ,run her fingers threw my hair i agree with p-angel if you did it and it was not ur place no respect at all
CancerianGoddess
Posted by The-Dream
^Would it still be platonic is two guys were sitting on each others laps?


Oh yes! That is some Hot man love there, if you wait long enough yall can talk about the first thing that "pops" up. If your waiting on food you may get some secret special sauce for your fries instead of ketchup.

MMMM Hot man chowder.......

...........Okay i am done





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P-Angel
This sexyariesgirl certainly was trying to make conviction that sitting on a guys lap is ok and platonic ... so, this would mean she sat on a man's lap and caught butter for it. If she didn't catch butter for it .. why then be compelled to attempt to find others to believe the same as her?


simple .. she did it .. and got in trouble for it .. and so is compelled to find justification for her treetrunk up.



Thing is though .. this isn't just a random treetrunk up .. like you turned left instead of right, or bought margerine instead of butter.


A woman who would even take the decision to sit on a man's lap where this lap is the place of another woman's ass ... is a treetrunking slut.




I just hope you talked about this to all your friends ... so that they will have the awareness that you have no respect, so that they would know to keep their men away from you.
brianafay
Posted by james tate
you must understand that P rat is used to setting on the face.


lmfao
dward417
I mean no other woman...
dward417
i always give my man a hard on when i sit on his lap so I dont want to other woman sitting on it. thats my spot!
ninjamu
Posted by sortilege85
Posted by ninjamu
^^ depends on whether or not anyone is gay here and if there is an attraction. i have male friends that pretend to butt treetrunk each other in public so sitting on laps is child's play to them.


That only when guys are having their male bonding (also gay play). If your man was to have some chick sit on his lap I bet you would be pissed off staring her down, watching before either of them do something stupid or you probably enjoy it because you swing both ways. Okay i was just joking about the last one haha...


no, ur right, i do swing both ways but i'm a fairly easy-going and reasonable person. like i said before, it all depends on the person and circumstance. i would be ok with it if i knew that both my man and the girl were close friends and naturally flirtatious ppl. if this was something they had always done then it's not a big deal to me. now if it was just some random chick we met in a dive bar somewhere then, no, it's not cool.

also, i rarely stare anyone down. i don't compete and my man knows what would be considered disrespectful to me. that's why my relationships tend to work out so well. the communication is spot on and i assert myself. in fact, back in october my man was playing a gig for his tour kick off. there was this chick i met there and she was pretty trashed. he came up to us to talk for a minute and she honed in and grabbed his junk right there. he stopped, looked at me, then turned around and walked away. we weren't even official at the time but he already knew. this is from a sexually liberated and progressive guy.
james tate
I have alkso noticed that on every thread P rat brings the subject around to blowjobs.
james tate
you must understand that P rat is used to setting on the face.
ninjamu
^^ depends on whether or not anyone is gay here and if there is an attraction. i have male friends that pretend to butt treetrunk each other in public so sitting on laps is child's play to them.
The-Dream
^Would it still be platonic is two guys were sitting on each others laps?
ninjamu
depends. i have male friends, some with girlfriends/boyfriends, whose lap i've sat upon in a purely platonic way. some of them are more naturally flirty than others. the girlfriends/boyfriends already know of it so it's not a big deal. would i be ok with some girl sitting on my guy's lap? depends on the girl and the relationship. some random chick in a bar would make me uncomfortable. however, i know that he isn't the type to allow that to happen anyway. he's not a PDA phobe but he's not really into it either.
P-Angel
I guess then ... looking deep into their eyes is the same as sucking his dick.
P-Angel
"The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys."



Sitting on laps is the same as sucking on someone's neck?



lol
krysrenee7
Personally, I consider sitting on someone's lap moreso an intimate thing. Here's why...of all the chairs & things to sit on in the world, why chose that person's lap? Sitting on someone's lap represents comfort & closeness. It's also another way to flirt or be territorial. The reason alot of women sit on their boyfriends laps is b/c it represents a small form of intimacy & closeness b/w the 2 of them. And when you see a woman sitting on a male friend's lap, it represents the same thing, regardless of whether or not the title is there. Depending on the circumstances & depending on what the person sitting on their lap means to them, can decide if the whole "lap" thing should be taken lightly. If I walked up & saw a friend or some stranger sitting on my man's lap, I'd be offended b/c of what sitting on his lap could and probably DOES mean. It'd be a direct implication of disrespect, 1. b/c the woman is sitting on his "manhood" & possibly activating the part in him sexually that only I, as HIS woman should have access to. But it all depends on the person, the relationship/friendship & the circumstances. The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys. To some, it represents being territorial over the person you already have OR want. To others, it's just a harmless sign that fun has or WILL take place.
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