What is Unconditional Love?

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7/13/2012 2:05:14 PM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

NO.......what I am saying is crystal clear......unconditional love just exists between parents and children.

And I think homosexual is kinda disgusting abnormal......which is definitely against God's Will.

Please stop asking me any question...I have run out of my patient on such bullbutter!!!

7/13/2012 2:04:07 PM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

NO.......what I am saying is crystal clear......unconditional love just exists between parents and children.

And I think homosexual is kinda disgusting abnormal......which is definitely against God's Will.

Please stop asking me any question...I have run out of my patient on such bullbutter!!!

7/13/2012 1:18:21 PM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

For both of you, don't get mad if I called your saying as "bullbutter"...that just means I felt that way...but doesn't mean I think you are lying...so you don't have to take it seriously.

For the Bible, that is God's Words through human beings' hands written out...there may be slightly changed due to so many translations...but Nobody dare to change one word on purpose.

For religion, this is a serious debate that have been going on for thousands years in humans history...so I don't think we can finish it completely right now on DXP.

For unconditional love, I agree with DG...I don't have child...but I am the only child for my mom...definitely, there exists unconditional love between my mom and me
But I don't believe there is unconditional love between a man and a woman...No Way!

Ok, I am done. Enjoy whatever you believe...
7/13/2012 1:16:32 PM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

For both of you, don't get mad if I called your saying as "bullbutter"...that just means I felt that way...but doesn't mean I think you are lying...so you don't have to take it seriously.

For the Bible, that is God's Words through human beings' hands written out...there may be slightly changed due to so many translations...but Nobody dare to change one word on purpose.

For religion, this is a serious debate that have been going on for thousands years in humans history...so I don't think we can finish it completely right now on DXP.

For unconditional love, I agree with DG...I don't have child...but I am the only child for my mom...definitely, there exists unconditional love between my mom and me
But I don't believe there is unconditional love between a man and a woman...No Way!

Ok, I am done. Enjoy whatever you believe...
7/13/2012 8:35:11 AM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

@ DG

I see your point. You are just one of those who never believe there exist one almighty God---the creator of the universe. Surely, you have your free will to do whatever you want.......God gives everybody such freedom.
Honestly, I am not here to preach.......but I do feel truly SORRY for you as blinded human being!!!
7/13/2012 1:22:21 AM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

Posted by DG
If you confuse unconditional love with Religion then you are treetrunked.


Don't be treetrunking Blind!!!

I just answered rockNerd kinda going on question with the topic...but rockNERD have hidden all bullbutter...so nobody can really understand what's going on here.

That's all sucks!!!
7/12/2012 4:42:20 PM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

Regardless any changes in churches...or in human history...because it is not religion about...
Christian religion is based on the Bible, which is God's words...that has never been changed!!!
And I don't think humans having enough wisdom to understand the Bible. You can quote something from the Bible, and use them as your purpose...but I don't think you really understand the context...and the deep meaning behind those words. I am just saying the truth rather than making you feel bad.

Everyone has the feel will to what they believe or not...... I just don't get your points which make no sense to me.
I can see you put much efforts to try to make it clear.......but still unclear to me.

Whatever, I lost my interest on this topic......wish you good luck to find what you believe.
7/12/2012 3:22:25 PM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

@ rockNerd

Sure, I do have strong faith in God as a Christian. And I think "religion belief" is another great gift from God.
Whoever said it is brainwashing......is full of bullbutter!!! I just talked about my opinion about the OP...I don't need you to agree with me.
And I disagree with you totally........just too much bullbutter.......your words are against your own words somehow, very unclear and confusing, make no sense at all.
7/12/2012 12:44:25 PM | IP
ninalove

female

Libra w/ Venus in Scorpio! It shows!

simply put: Unconditional Love is...Love without conditions.

This does not correlate with actions. There are exes that I still love...not in-love but love...genuinely. Though I don't want to be with any of them, if they were to leave this earth or be harmed in any way I would mourn.
7/12/2012 10:39:03 AM | IP
Amandus

21 years old male from California  USA  

9/9/91 Spirit path 11/2

Love is an experience resulting directly from unity and governed by the choices made that is meant to be shared and given in many forms—a dynamic core in the middle of all emotion—a reason. A reason to feel what you're feeling at that moment of joy and acceptance you shared with someone else, the wonder and pride you felt when you discovered what you are more than capable of. The reason why you would let yourself be overcome by anger when you found the one who took something dear away from you, the heavy weight of regret that filled you when accidentally shot your little brother in the cheek with a BB gun at point blank, the ardor, pleasure, and completeness you shared with the one you give you made love with, the tender care you give to the new life you've created or adopted together...


Since love is a direct result of unity that means unity is the sole condition that keeps love alive. Therefore, to love without absolutely no condition is impossible.
7/12/2012 9:24:02 AM | IP
james tate

46 years old male from Llandrindod wells, Powys  Wales  

Ask your self one question
would you die for them?
7/12/2012 8:36:28 AM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

But too hard to do without God's blessing...
7/12/2012 8:30:17 AM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

Posted by Rockthenerds
Posted by luckystar007
To be honest, I don't think Unconditional Love is able to be found by humans......it is a best GIFT from God really
For humans, we need pray to God...then with God's blessing...there is a good chance to find it.


Like I said as a human, I will never find it because I will never look for it but to each their own.. and again, I just think putting merits on love comes from social conditioning "I will get__ if i do__". When you are conditioned, you are just that. To try to grasp a larger concept of the idea is difficult and uncomfortable looking from one generalized perspective. So people try to make it something tangible, something they can easily understand and digest. Like Romance, sex or gifts, family and friends etc. I don't think love is a gift, the things I think are gifts are the things that oppose it. The things that challenge it like Fear, anger, ego, denial. These are true gifts. How is denying love also a gift of love at the same time???

What makes love unconditional is the fact that we don't have to believe or disbelieving in it's existence. **THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT UNCONDITIONAL***. Comparing this to cheating husbands/wives is elementary and quite frankly very naive, but that's also what keeps us separate from it. We have a right to free will as humans to believe and do what we want. Does this mean it cant exist in humans? of course not. It means that those who are are ready will experience it, those who deny it can still experience it because it doesn't operate at the objective level. Everyone has their own individual subjective experience. So to pray for a blessing I don't believe is necessary..For what purpose? Again that's mans attempt to find God, religion does this. True Love actually finds you when you're ready.


True love or Unconditional love is a blessing gift from God only. Because there doesn't exist such Unconditional in humans nature!!!
We are all selfish. We always want to get what we want...in a relationship...otherwise, we will judge one another "you don't really love me"...then breakup...
So by humans nature, we can't find and maintain Unconditional love......until a blessing from God, then we become understand and forgive one another for what we think they did wrong to us......which is easy to say
7/12/2012 7:45:27 AM | IP
BlueSandCacoon

23 years old

Posted by Rockthenerds
@ blueNot complicated at all when you take out the socially conditioned, pop culture sense of the the last word. Romantic love isn't the end all be all of the word. You can't sum of the experience of love for everyone in terms of cheating, behavior this and he said she said that unless you're just attracted to complicated things then, fine do that but A human needs to be nurtured. Love just is, and cant be anything else. Intense feelings? No, this idea is what is fed to the masses by the media playing the same bs on the radio and on television. I know you're young, but even in my teens I knew love wasn't just some intense feelings and I got them all the time of course, but Those come and go. Love is forever. You can't give or get anything from it like you can a human. This has already been stated multiple times I really don't think beautiful should have to keep repeating himself in different way. Believe what you believe fine, but people shouldn't be trying to twist op's words to make it look like as though he doesn't know what he's talking about because he does. The title simply asks what is it. Not what it isn't or where it exists...obviously he's experienced it and some people haven't...


But you can't simply take out all of those things unless you live in a bubble or you are socially inept. "Intense feelings" is what i got from the dictionary, i admit. I did it for the sake of not twisting any word from its "formal" meaning. And the question "does is exists?" comes into the mind of many of us because there's no way i can answer "how does love (from op's perspective) works?" if it's something that doesn't exist from my perspective. However i didn't want simply spat something like "your idea of love doesn't exist, treetrunk off!". I explained my stance and how i experience things from my point of view. I think that's fair and it doesn't cross any lines... :/

Now to add to my point about love...

Well, my own definition of "Love" (no dictionary) is that "Love" is nothing but a label for a bunch of sensations/feelings. Society tells you "love" is this and media tells you "love" is that. But at the end of the day everyone is different and everyone "loves" differently. And "love" is not forever. Nothing is.
7/12/2012 5:48:32 AM | IP
Rays Heart

male

I say love to be unconditional. It's the creator of all things possible and happens with or without your approval. I think the problem is that with time love has been associated with pleasure, desire ect and in many cases became these things. It's been made into physical entities that can only come to life in very specific settings, therefore very conditional. Love is a divine understanding of someone and once that is attained, it's love, it's unconditional.
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