Posted by Nights22Posted by Sag89Posted by Nights22
I'm really not.
I think my scorp may be crazy :(
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@ duncan exposé:
|sag, i remember your thread about your first orgasm with scorp not too long ago. you said feel uncomfortable communicating your wants and needs to your partner.|
do you think that's "fine"?
do you think your drama with the ex-scorp over your butter in his house is "fine"? does new scorp even know about that?
and god knows what else. it's all in your threads.
i don't think you realize your role in how your relationships play out.
Posted by Nights22
I know he isn't my ex!
I thought I was actually moving to someone healthier I was very excited about that but that reaction made me have second thoughts.
Maybe he was just upset and he had a oops over reaction.
Maybe that is all this is.
But I'm just trying to be sure.
Posted by exoskeleton
Posted by OceanDeep
I meant lately as in the right now.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
I don't think it's everything is my partners fault!
Our relationship was going great!
Till I now see he has some angry and control issues, I didn't see before.
|No honey, you're not getting what I'm saying. But, you must look at it too that this is how it is going to be. You can't fix him, and if he doesn't get it by this though either, it will continue.|
So with that said, I am now utterly confused. What exactly are you upset about? You need to keep in mind this: Your focus cannot be on the fact now that you know that he was cheated on therefore what stemmed his reaction. You need to reread your post from the get go.
I never said it was all because he had been cheated on, what I was adding to the point was because he HAD been cheated on in the past would and could probably cause him to do this on top of him being a Scorp. The main thing though here, is he is a Scorpio man. This you DID know going into it. And where I'm so surprised by everyones "Oh Em Geeeee, he did what? He's a crazed, pyscho killer, and your grave has GOT to be dug already"
You're comparing apples to oranges though when you're comparing yourself's past abuse to my thoughts. And I will say, if you choose to stay now after you comparing those as the same...his reaction to your past abuse, then you are admitting you feel abused. So why stay? Or was that not the focus until it was mentioned.
You need to dig deep. You also mentioned in your first thread that you two having been having some problems lately. Before this happened?
Posted by Sag89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Nights22Posted by exoskeleton
it takes two to tango, always.
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Nemesis
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by Nights22Posted by exoskeleton
This relationship was going fine actually until I found out he has control issues
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Nights22Posted by exoskeleton
So everythings my fault huh? I deserve that right?
Posted by exoskeleton
word. and she has her own issues to sort out before she can have a mature relationship.
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by NemesisPosted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Nemesis
well, i´ll give him in dubio pro reo. (nearly) everybody should get a chance. imagine how treetrunked up you would feel if you discovered (by whatever means) a message like that, an ominous email.......who knows what kind of crusade you´d go on? i´d probably just sulk and give him treetrunking silent treatment. *poor pisces*
PH, come on. me and clique? please, just check my profile and count how many members my "clique" has ok? get real.
Posted by Sag89Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Sag89Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Sag89
Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Sag89Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Sag89