Posted by DazedScorp
I do not think that dazed. That statement made me realize this all about you.
I think my scorp may be crazy :(
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Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
Thank you for seeing that and pointing that out, Dazed. Nope...notta Scorp, full-fledged Cancer thank you very much
|Thank you shmank you. My thoughts remain the same. Everything goes over your head. This surprises me coming from a Sag.|
|I thanked her ocean because she said to do what is right for you. |
I am I not allowed to thank people now?
You scorps are a trip sometimes
Posted by Sag89Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
Okay, now I'm gonna lose it. You thank her for her post. Then what the treetrunk are you doing with him still then? I really, REALLY am beginning now to believe you posted this hoping everyone would jump on the "Scorps are crazy bandwagon"
If you ARE THAT AFRAID OF HIM.................................. THEN BREAK THE treetrunk UP WITH HIM.
You need to figure YOURSELF out! I think I said that before. As much as I do like you, you are bringing sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much of your past into this. You need to:
A) Break up with him, because really? You posted this and seem to be all in agreeance with anyone who says he IS or HAS the potential of being an abuser or abusive.
B) If you recognize this? Then you are ADMITTING you feel you are being abused, SO then what makes you want to stay? There's some sick, twisted thinking on YOUR part so please don't come saying you've lived with it in the past, overcame all of it, and then CHOOSE to stay with someone you feel is abusing you.
C) If you think that my (B) is wrong, then you wouldn't be upset that people are defending him and not you. If you recognize it, then you don't need defending and instead your post would be "I broke it off with the Scorp because I felt he had abusive tendencies after I found out he hacked my phone. What he did was not acceptable, and I refuse to bring myself into those relationships again"
Amazing the GREAT advice you do get, or when you are faced with hard nosed, in your face questions, where TRUTH needs to come out, you scream foul. Wake up sister, you are far from past your past. Nor have you learned or grown from it. You either are blind, or you love the drama. Which is it.
Posted by ZenArcade
No, a Scorp is intense. Thats the way they are. He had every right to be upset...we Sags like some freedom but we also want and need) a man who steps up and fights for us. If there was no reaction, he wouldn't care about her.
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
Posted by OceanDeep
How do I come off?
Posted by DazedScorp
I agree with this. Why do you think he broke into your phone? Usually when a text pops up (depends on the phone) you can see either, the whole text, or just who the text is from, or like you originally said, a snippet of the convo. The Scorp bf probably friended the old Libra impulsively. Regretted it, but cannot take back the friend request on FB. And as a sag on scorp cusp, I would be pissed off if my guy was getting late night texts from an old gf, just sayin'...and I am not so sure its jealousy, maybe the fear of being taken for granted, made a fool of. I would give him a break.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by ZenArcade
Posted by ZenArcade
That was amazing lol
|Now that I know this, this is the deal:|
Libra is all or one of this
A) If he knew you had a boyfriend, has a lot of balls.
B) Is clueless you had a boyfriend, WHICH would coincide that you never talk to him. BUT, for curiousity, do you have yourself 'in a relationship' on Facebook Status. This is an important question. Not the FB end, but the reality of if you DO have it on there, then WTF is Libra doing then?
C) Either way, Libra thinks he can still hook up with you.
D) Which if he does, he needs to be set straight. He is not taking that you are taking this with Scorp serious. You need to fix that PRONTO. Libra needs to respect you AND your space too. Let's not forget that.
Scorpio in all of this:
A) Will need reassurance all the way around. That is a given. That doesn't make him crazy, that makes him a Scorpio. Get that, breathe that, live that. 24/7.
B) Needs for you to love him enough to work past this AND not hold it against him. To understand him fully, and to embrace his past JUST as he has embraced yours. He loves you, and you know that there are things you have done that you wish you hadn't BUT you have grown from.
C) To understand that in order to be with him, what you think isn't hiding things to him? Is. You really, really need to think about that; which
Sag in all of this:
A) Must not be afraid of your past. You must confront it, and talk about it with Scorp. If you don't, You will live in your own fear of what youve done will catch up with you. By not, then she is still living in the past. It's yours, so you need to embrace it all: good and bad, face it head on. By opening up about it with him, leaves you vulnerable to his reaction yes. You will never be free of it EVER, AT ALL if you don't move past it fully, and not just by pretending it didn't happen when going into new relationships. BUT, by not talking about all of it now.... you are allowing your past to control your future. And right now, it's starting to catch up to you and this relationship.
Im going to say this once and after that, it's in your ballpark.
Get a bulletproof vest, registered AK-47, paperwork of restraining order, a tall roided up or just big guy friend for backup. Then ask to meet the scorp in a public place.
And then in a very nice way say, "It's not me, it's really you. You have me seriously questioning if Im dealing with the illegitimate spawn of Charlie Sheen. Dating you is not winning for me. I've tiger blood which I would have rather let bleed on someone else's dick"
Normally, this guy's reaction at first would have been justified. But ONLY had he come across it by accident. But he did not. He HACKED into the phone. Emphasis on hacked.
This guy was the inspiration for the lyrics "Every breath you take, every move you make, I'll be watching you"
Cut him loose. Stay single for a while. Have a "dick in a glass" on easy access. And if you happen to meet another Scorp who's so studly you cant resist, do one of two things. 1. Make sure homeboy's got either an Air or Fire Moon in chart like Sagittarius.
Or 2nd, hit it once and quit it. Then immediately go into Witness Protection.
Posted by Sag89